" The Story of Rose " comes to an end. Huang Yimei experienced four unforgettable romances at the age of 40. She was fully devoted to each one and had no regrets.
and Zhuang Guodong are the most lingering and sentimental
Zhuang Guodong is Huang Yimei's first love. This relationship is romantic and passionate. Huang Yimei, who has received higher education, will not place her love on others, let alone entangle her endlessly. Her view of love is more like randomness Events have no concrete goals and no end points. The end of every relationship is initiated by her.
Huang Yimei loves Zhuang Guodong because he is the man she likes, and she is devoted to her sincerely. Although the ending is not perfect, she has no regrets. Zhuang Guodong is like a more loyal lover. He has never been able to forget Huang Yimei and tried to repair it many times, but Huang Yimei only She can say no because she doesn't want to repeat a relationship that is nothing new.
Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen divorced. Zhuang Guodong appeared in her life again, trying to get back together, but Huang Yimei refused directly because she just wanted to move forward and not stay.
repeatedly proposed starting over, but it was Zhuang Guodong who couldn't let go, but it had nothing to do with Huang Yimei. Huang Yimei's restart of the relationship had nothing to do with her ex. She wanted to be her own goddess, control her own feelings, and didn't want to be someone else's attachment.
Huang Yimei lives a very independent life. In fact, it is also very relaxed. She does not want to get entangled, let alone miss the better scenery. Her male-thinking view of love makes her live a more free and self-conscious life. She is Huang Yimei, the unique Huang Yimei. .
Fang Xiewen is just the father of the child, not the next lover
Huang Yimei received Fang Xiewen's care during her lowest period, and then decided to marry him and have children. She did not complain about anyone, and she did not put forward excessive demands from Fang Xiewen. After enduring a lot of patience, she finally decided to give up on this relationship because she didn't want to repeat the past again, let alone get stuck in the quagmire. She was redeeming herself and healing in every relationship.
Fang Xiewen later bought a house in Beijing, close to where Huang Yimei and his daughter lived, because he could not forget Huang Yimei. Although love is selfish, Huang Yimei was destined not to belong to anyone alone, so she said goodbye to the past and Fang Xiewen's unbearable relationship. She has no intention of repairing the relationship with him again, because she has her own life and career, and she lives a pure and simple life.
Both Fang Xiewen and Zhuang Guodong could not forget Huang Yimei, not only because of her beauty, but also because of her interesting soul. She was destined not to become someone else, but to herself, Huang Yimei forever. Huang Yimei said that persistence in love is because of love, and persistence in love is to get into trouble. She rejected Fang Xiewen's offer to rebuild the old relationship because she had healed and did not want to make the same mistakes again. Her view of love was unrestrained and free, and no one could kidnap her with morality.
Fu Jiaming's death made Huang Yimei cherish life even more
Fu Jiaming was able to gain Huang Yimei's love because Fu Jiaming understood her, so this is why Fu Jiaming is Huang Yimei's soul mate.
Although Fu Jiaming died young, he was happy and happy because he met Huang Yimei. Huang Yimei is a love heroine, and they are together when they meet. She is not so worldly, and she is not so philistine. Many people may think this is untrue. In fact, there should be many women like Huang Yimei. She does not want to change for others, let alone be They are tied up and don’t want to commit to growing old together.
Fu Jiaming made Huang Yimei feel loved and respected. Although they got along briefly, they were happy and romantic.
Huang Yimei does not need sympathy, nor does she need to be pitied, nor does she need to be loved. She lives her own life, dares to move forward, and accepts different kinds of love.
When she met He Xi, Huang Yimei did not do Sanmao
Huang Yimei rejected Zhuang Guodong and Fang Xiewen's reconciliation, which shows that she really will not regret her choice, let alone repeat her own pain, just like she studied for an airplane driver's license, completely It is a personal favorite without any profit purpose. In fact, the same is true for her view of love. Once she loves, she will say goodbye. She will not be entangled all the time, let alone capricious. She treats love by being able to take it and let it go, and does not give it to herself. Regret, maybe there is regret, but the regret has disappeared.
He Xi and Huang Yimei have no substantial romantic relationship. On the contrary, Huang Yimei encourages him to strive for no regrets in life. Farewell to He Xi, Huang Yimei didn't want to hear the other party's promise, because everyone was looking forward and could not guarantee or promise. If there was still fate, everything could start.
Huang Yimei is her own master. Perhaps because of the open education in her family, her parents have never controlled her life, so every decision she makes is approved by her parents. Although she has suffered from love, her parents will not preach to her. She heals herself every time, and develops a hard outer shell. She is strong enough to face every sudden love, and feels it bravely.
Conclusion
Some people who have watched "The Story of the Rose" will say that Huang Yimei is a woman who is free and easy-going. This is really ridiculous. In what age, it is really ridiculous to use the three obediences and four virtues to restrict a woman's life. Huang Yimei is like a rose that blooms every time. Her four relationships are the four blooms in her life. She will not make promises, let alone retain them. Instead, she will learn to heal and be self-consistent.
If a person lives in pain, then her life may be dark and unhealthy, and the future will be hopeless for her. Huang Yimei is not such a person. She lives a transparent life, cherishes herself, and becomes herself. The three women portrayed in the
drama, Huang Yimei, Su Gengsheng and Jiang Xueqiong, are all new women who bravely choose the life they want, without compromising, being defined, and not being bullied, and living out their own style.
Men can have multiple relationships, why can’t women have multiple different relationships? Huang Yimei did it, choose her own life, have the love she wants, never hesitate, let alone regret.
Life is very short, don’t be hard on yourself. Becoming Huang Yimei may be the choice of many women.
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