text / Luo Moli
Zhou Shihui is not even a passer-by in the world of Yellow Rose. There is a very intriguing detail in the TV series. One day, his brother Huang Jianhua mentioned Zhou Shihui's love for Rose, and Rose responded indifferently: "Zhou Shihui, who is it?"
falls in love more and more with "The Story of a Rose", so three-dimensional, so complex, yet so nonchalant, peeling off the skin of love, it is clearly life and the sense of slowly flowing time.
In Zhou Shihui's own life, meeting Yellow Rose completely overturned the entire lifeline.
This world is very cruel, it seems that people will always be let down in this life.
Zhou Shihui failed Guan Zhizhi, Huang Meigui failed Zhou Shihui, and Zhuang Guodong failed Huang Meigui.
Bai Xiaohe was let down by her ex-boyfriend, and then Huang Zhenhua.
Between letting down and being let down, there are always joys and sorrows that cannot be avoided.
How could the seemingly unrelated Zhou Shihui be so "crazy" that he would abandon Guan Zhizhi, who he was about to sign and get married and who had been in love for 7 years? Where is the "swan meat" yellow rose?
1. "Love doesn't know where it starts, but it goes deeper and deeper."
Love is always mysterious and cannot be explained clearly. Its coming and going will not be transferred or planned according to people's subjective will.
Meet the right person at the right time, fall in love with each other until old age, have children, and live happily ever after. This is not a script that everyone can get.
Life is full of surprises.
When love comes, it cannot be stopped. When love leaves, it is always caught off guard.
Love is certainly not a product exclusively for women.
Since there is a saying that "you will miss Yang Guo for the rest of your life", it is no wonder that "you will regret your marriage at the sight of roses".
The love that Fa Hai did not understand may have come true in Zhou Shihui's case...
Of course I imagined all kinds of rigid, rational, and utilitarian reasons for changing my heart, which are everywhere in life, but before that, I am still willing to leave a place for "love" in my heart.
Believe it - when Zhou Shihui meets Huang Meigui, it is an unstoppable love.
2. The shelf life of love is a question mark.
The screenwriter of the drama version said that Zhou Shihui's adaptation was gentle enough compared to the original work. Although for Guan Zhizhi, it was unexpected, shocking and angry to be regretted at the moment of signing the contract for seven years, but at least it was not like the original work, where Zhou Shihui got married in a hazy way. When Guan Zhizhi was several months pregnant, Zhou Shihui fell in love with Rose at first sight. Divorce and pursuit of love are so overwhelming.
drama version Guan Zhizhi has good looks, is not too old, has a decent job and a good income.
The original work did not mention that Guan Zhizhi went out to work. Combining the background of the 1980s and the urban elite persona of Zhou Shihui, the owner of Hong Kong real estate company, it is very likely that Guan Zhizhi is a full-time housewife. Her husband cheated on her during her pregnancy and got divorced. Oh my God... As you can imagine, this sunny day What a thunderbolt the thunder exploded!
When Guan Zhizhi turned around with perseverance and tears in her eyes, she was a little sad but also a lot happy.
Fortunately, even without Zhou Shihui, she can still live a good life.
Fortunately, even when love turns into a natural or man-made disaster, she can still turn her back on marriage and continue to look towards the sun.
In the drama version, Zhou Shihui hesitated for a long time when signing. I believe that he weighed and weighed countless times in his heart, rationality and sensibility, love and family, emotion and responsibility, whether to fulfill himself or obey the society. Under many entanglements, he made Decisions had to be made at the last minute.
is not trying to whitewash Zhou Shihui, but he himself has been exposed to the rain of time and flowed through the river of life. After having a little experience, he realized that when the problem is not his own, it is easy for God's perspective to be decisive and direct the country. But if it hits you on the head, you will still toss and turn, hesitating and hesitating. Who would not want to take advantage of everything and avoid bad things, for fear that if you make the wrong choice once, you will live forever.
So I understand why he had to choose until the last moment, but he finally chose.
For a moment, I still admired Zhou Shihui. At least he had decided to return to being single without getting Huang Meigui's consent to date.
At least for Guan Zhizhi, it was not a conspiracy between two conciliatory people.
At least for Huang Meigui, he is not a dirty person looking for a horse.
At least Zhou Shihui didn't break off an ear of corn before throwing away the previous ear.
If he obediently signs the marriage like no one else, and then secretly indulges in his own ideas during the marriage, it will only be more abominable and shameful.
made Guan Zhizhi pay more emotional and time costs.
At least he gave Guan Zhizhi an understanding, gave her frankness, and gave her freedom.
doesn't bother to clean up any "scumbag" at all. He just feels sorry for those who are trapped in the relationship and suffers, and wants to tell him/them that "looking away" is not to forgive the other party, but the beginning of letting go and redeeming oneself.
If there is a girl like Guan Zhizhi in front of the screen, I really hope that she will no longer be entangled in the scumbag of a man and learn to stop her losses in time. After all, the word "love" never has a clear deadline.
As Rose said, love is very simple. If you love, stay together. If you don't love, stay together.
Sometimes, we even have to be lucky that we can still separate when we don't love each other.
A decent breakup is one of the happy endings of love.
3. Value is an illusion.
Of course, realistically speaking, Zhou Shihui is willing to break up first and then pursue the rose. This also depends on the value of the rose itself.
After all, Zhou Shihui is not a young boy with a dull head. He should have the most basic judgments about the world, love and women.
According to Rose's conditions, even if Zhou Shihui is single, there is a high probability of escaping death, let alone being married. His confession and abandonment of Guan Zhizhi is just to put more of his chips on Rose.
Many people may wonder if he has the wrong talent to chase roses.
is actually easy to understand. Although Zhou Shihui comes from an ordinary family and looks average, he has a girlfriend who is beautiful, well-educated, and has an excellent job. She is willing to endure hardships with him, live in a basement, and is rushing to marry him. Then he will naturally I have the illusion that if I work harder, I will be worthy of a better yellow rose.
4. Can’t stop the gun of reality.
Rose's comment on Zhou Shihui in the original novel is particularly well written: "I am just an excuse for Zhou Shihui to escape from reality! Zhou Shihui is such a terrible person. He has no real feelings for his wife at all. Getting married and having children is just a way of life for him. Form, life must go through. Suddenly he realized that this way of life was not suitable for him. He could not live with a boring woman for the rest of his life, so he used my name to escape. He loved himself most. After meeting me, he realized. Mrs. Zhou is no longer worthy of him. "
Zhou Shihui abandoning Guan Zhizhi to ask for a rose is just a blank shot at life.
Zhou Shihui has always lived a step-by-step life, following the social clock, studying hard when he should go to school, finding a good job after graduation, meeting a girl with good conditions who matched him well, getting married at about the same time, and having a baby. Children, then raising children, and then fighting for their children's routine throughout their lives. If
follows this script, there is a high probability that nothing will go wrong.
But Zhou Shihui was dissatisfied with his current life and wanted to escape but needed an exit. At this time, Rose, who was well-matched in all aspects, appeared. "Love Her" gave him the most reasonable and bold reason to escape from real life.
On the surface, he is crazy about pursuing love, but in fact he is choosing to live another life.
Many people will think that he is too pretentious, or even too self-sufficient, but his own life, whether it is success or failure in the eyes of others, for everyone, "I" is just experiencing "my" life.
Life is meant for everyone to plant trees and know whether they are warm or cold.
Besides, how can there be a life without regrets? Is there any absolutely correct way?
Who has not been let down in his life, and who dares to say that he has never let anyone down?
Zhou Shihui did not pursue Rose, and parted ways with Guan Zhizhi, resigned from his job, sold his house, and returned to his hometown.
At this moment, being able to make choices and bear the consequences is the best way for adults to live a decent life. For each of the three of them,
is just a small comma in life, which has come to an end for the time being.
The road of life is still so long.
From now on, everyone will cherish each other and be happy.
The author of this article: Luo Moli.
Wild writers born in the 1980s work in the workplace during the day and write for self-entertainment at night. They feel with their heart, express sincerely, live freely, and grow old calmly. Reviews of popular and classic dramas are updated one after another. Welcome to follow and watch dramas with you to talk about life.
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