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How can someone be so beautiful?
Even the hair is beautiful.
I was watching Liu Yifei's TV series "The Story of a Rose" recently, and I was amazed by her beauty again. "The Story of a Rose" is adapted from the novel of the same name by Mrs. Yi Shu. I have read this novel two or three times. When I was reading the book, I was thinking, if domestic entertainment can find someone to act in such a beautiful rose, Who is suitable?
seems to be the only one with Liu Yifei.
Liu Yifei, who was born in 1987, is already 37 years old. What is so strange? She played the role of Huang Yimei, a 22-year-old female college student, without any sense of disobedience. The 22-year-old Rose is so playful and so beautiful, she looks like a star among the stars wherever she goes. Boys have always been chasing each other to deliver flowers to their homes. Whenever someone calls in the Huang family, they are definitely looking for roses.
is pampered by her parents and brothers at home, and is sought after by many members of the opposite sex and even the same sex at school. Wherever the rose goes, everyone will be attracted to her. A beautiful girl like her would probably not be emotionally hurt. But feelings are fair to everyone. Once you fall in love and all yourself, you will be easily hurt.
Being hurt is the first step in self-growth in love. If you have never been hurt or crazy, how can you really love?
The first man Rose fell in love with was Zhuang Guodong.
Zhuang Guodong was handsome and 1.9 meters tall. Rose saw him at a banquet and could not forget him. She originally thought that Zhuang Guodong had no intention of her, but Zhuang Guodong was just pretending to be cold. He had already been attracted by the rose. Love in the 20s is very hot. After learning that the man she loves also likes her, the two passionate hearts of Mei Mei and Zhuang Guodong collide.
Their love progressed very quickly. As soon as they opened their hearts, they communicated and had a relationship.
Huang Meigui, played by Liu Yifei, is really bold. It is hard to imagine that a girl from an intellectual family would be so eager to have a one-night stand when she fell in love for the first time. But there is nothing wrong with this in itself. You are willing to do it, and it is normal for young people to boldly experiment with sex.
Zhuang Guodong is a veteran in love, not a child like Rose.
Rose is still too young. She is too confident in love and thinks she can completely control Zhuang Guodong; but Zhuang Guodong is more of a "desire" for her. Every time Zhuang Guodong saw her, he wanted to have physical contact with her. Even the way he apologized was through forced kissing, hugging, and banging against the wall. He also regarded Rose as a little girl who was having a bad temper and didn't take her seriously at all.
Zhuang Guodong annoyed Rose twice: The first time was when he met his mother by chance, and Zhuang Guodong lied that Rose was his colleague; the second time was when Zhuang Guodong was on a business trip, and Rose accidentally discovered that Zhuang Guodong accepted the offer from Paris, and she collapsed.
Some viewers don’t understand, why did the rose collapse? Isn’t it just exotic love? As for making such a big fire?
Because she is a rose, she has never been emotionally frustrated. She has always had a sense of control over everything about herself. She thought she could completely control Zhuang Guodong, but who would have thought that there was no such thing in Zhuang Guodong's world? Pass her.
For the first time, she tasted the pain of love and the taste of betrayal in an intimate relationship.
Liu Yifei's acting skills are so good, she is Huang Yimei, so natural, and she feels like she is crazy. If you are 30 years old, you will definitely not understand why Rose goes crazy; but if you are 20 years old, then you must have been crazy about love, especially when you really fall in love with someone.
People are irrational when they encounter love. This is a very normal physiological phenomenon.
We meet someone we like very much, and he happens to like you too. When the two of you are in a good relationship, you are like a dog-skin plaster. You don’t want to be separated for a second, and you can’t wait to be stuck together all the time. The initial sprout of love is very Warmly. It is no exaggeration to say that in the beginning, you will not be able to see the other person at all, your eyes will really shine like stars, and you will shine when you look at each other.
Love so fiercely, will you go crazy when there is a misunderstanding between you, especially when you can't contact the other person? When you call him countless times, you hope he will give you an explanation, but the phone used to be turned off, will you collapse? Emotions were completely out of control at that moment.
I understand very well why the 20-year-old Rose lost control and smashed Zhuang Guodong's house when she collapsed. That's how
can relieve your hatred, but I suggest you not to do this.
Rose can do it because she is beautiful and can do whatever she wants. The audience and Zhuang Guodong will forgive her.
Rose's emotions didn't get out of control all of a sudden.
At first, she pretended to be calm and asked Zhuang Guodong for confirmation. She cared so much, but Zhuang Guodong didn't take it seriously. She was angry because Zhuang Guodong's attitude did not take her to heart, so who was she? Her love is nothing. When she wanted a result, Zhuang Guodong just wanted to escape, and the conflict broke out, and her emotions reached the highest point.
Rose has always been the only one to reject others, and Zhuang Guodong was the first man who dared to turn off his phone to her.
Rose's expectations for their love were too high. She loved her very much. She thought Zhuang Guodong's love for her was equally passionate. But no, Zhuang Guodong just regarded her as a beauty. She was so beautiful. What man wouldn't want her? Woolen cloth? What he loves is not the person of Rose, but the appearance of Rose.
Zhuang Guodong's love is very selfish, and it is destined that he and Rose can only be a tragedy.
Only Rose in her 20s will fall in love with Zhuang Guodong, Rose in her 30s will only see through him and will not be fooled by him.
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Speaking of going crazy for love, most boys and girls who have truly loved each other should have had the same experience.
When I was young, I also had a bad temper, and I couldn't bear the loss of contact with my boyfriend. It's baffling that even though he's not by your side, he can hurt you with just one word, and then you start crying. You want to ask for a result and want to know an answer, but he just won't tell you. It's really irritating.
The most serious quarrel between the two of us was probably when we were traveling in Taiwan Province in early 2016. On the bus on the Suhua Highway, I received a call from my family. His mother had done something very outrageous. I became very emotional and couldn't control myself. The bus stopped along the road, and we started to make a noise as soon as we got off the bus. The noise was so fierce that the traffic police uncle came to ask me what was wrong.
During the fight for the mobile phone in the car, the screen of the mobile phone was broken due to excessive force.
Fortunately, I controlled my emotions later. Looking back now, it was quite dangerous.
But at that moment, I was really angry and reached the point of collapse.
In love, you break down and do some very out-of-control things, right?
is wrong, but no one is very mature and they all need to constantly adapt and grow in love.
At the beginning, we only love passionately, with thorns all over our body. We hope to get a sincere response from the other party, but when the disappointment fails, the negative emotions will attack you, and you will easily lose control. what to do? Forgive yourself for being out of control and immature. Every contradiction and conflict is a time of self-growth. After the conflict, you have to realize your mistakes and make corrections.
If you lose control every time and use your loss of control to hurt others, then sooner or later you will lose the person who tolerates you. No one will pamper you all the time. Don't take yourself too seriously in love, and don't sympathize with and expect too much from love.
Only in this way can we suffer less injuries.
In fact, there is no need to escape. Conflict and harm are not necessarily bad.
People love some people, marry and have children with other people.
Those who get married may not necessarily be lucky; those who don't get married are just passers-by.
We are destined to fall in love with him, and we are also destined to be separated. Everything seems to be a destiny of destiny, which has been written from the moment you two met.
Don't be too pushy, learn to grow, every love is self-growth.
If you love more, you will know everything, and you will not be hurt again.
Rose's road to love is long. When she feels pain for love, she also grows.
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Author: yibao, original emotional author, millions of emotional bloggers, marriage and family counselors, writes warm emotional things in this world through personal practice.