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After analyzing where Yang Mi’s acting skills failed, I heard a lot of voices like this in the comment area:
“Participating in publicity activities, that arrogant and impatient attitude made me particularly unpopular.”
” She now looks like she doesn't want to be in Class B. "
Arrogant, mean, and impatient are the second "black spots" that Yang Mi has been criticized for in recent years, besides her acting skills. Just, not only is she lackluster in the play, but she is also not very smart outside the play. Not only is she not smart, she often exudes the aura of a villain, rolling her eyes or taking a picture with her cell phone.
Under the fan filter, she looks like a cool queen, but in the eyes of passers-by, there is only full of discomfort - "What, who are you showing off to? I don't owe her any money?!"
Yeah, what is she being mean about?
I have summarized it, and it mainly manifests itself in the following two aspects:
First, she loves to quarrel with others, loves to interrupt others when they are talking, thinks she is smart and dominates everything, she seems to be the smartest, and everyone around her is a fool.
In the Kuaishou live broadcast more than a year ago, the host was a typical victim of autism due to her bullying. During the cue process honestly, she said, "No need, really no need." Just when the child was embarrassed, sister Nili Mi actually started to break the fourth wall and complained: "Your host is so serious, I don't even know How to answer the call?"
later came to the stage of making and issuing cards. The host suggested being a fan, but Yang Mi also refused, with the reason: "Don't control my life." Emma, just doing a small thing of issuing cards, rose to the level. Is it this high?
Actually, after watching the whole process, what did the host do wrong? To put it bluntly, he is just a junior, with little experience, and a bit unfamiliar. But in Yang Mi's eyes, this person seems to be useless and full of flaws. He does nothing wrong and has to be corrected and criticized for everything he does.
We don’t know whether it’s because she’s used to dealing with human beings and is prone to having level 10 stupidity disorder at any time, or because she’s used to finding ways to show off her intelligence by correcting other people’s mistakes.
The second one is perfunctory, impatient, uninvested, and careless, which is what everyone calls "always looking like rushing to get off work."
It was the same live broadcast. When it came to the question and answer session, she started reading directly on the teleprompter; "What they said on the teleprompter was that because they were on the set all the time during filming, a leisurely and exquisite breakfast became very luxurious. In fact, No, I have something to eat. "
Well... if I were the organizer, I would have a black question mark face. Are you sure this isn't trying to cause trouble?
Also, when I recorded a vcr that was similar to New Year greetings, I also looked like I was in a hurry to leave after memorizing the manuscript, which did not give me the slightest sense of joy as it was a big holiday. One of the recent speechless things about
is that during the live promotion of "Fox Fairy Matchmaker", the host asked her what she thought she had in common with Tu Shan Honghong. After a moment of silence, she replied: They are both women.
Well...she doesn't think she is very humorous, does she? Since we are here to promote the movie, let’s talk about the characters, or does she think it’s superfluous for me, Yang Mi, to just sit here and talk about the characters with the appeal of one against a hundred?
To sum up, you can’t see awe and love from this person, but only unconcealable arrogance and a little tiredness.
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There must be students who want to refute: Why are you so arrogant and why are you not in awe? She has always been humble and courteous to all the senior teachers. Also, "When you are below others, treat yourself as a human being, and when you are above others, treat others as human beings." This is a famous saying from Mi Mi!
Yes, she was very cooperative and well-behaved when she participated in "The Venus Show". She even took the initiative to give up the camera to Zhang Ziyi when she went to Cannes some time ago, but her humility and politeness in the face of seniors and celebrities can erase her "touching deeds" of talking on the phone and rolling her eyes. What?
can't. On the contrary, the coexistence of these two points shows that her emotional intelligence and thoughtfulness have such a sense of direction. The most I can say is that she has a flexible body, an understanding of facial features, and a discerning eye.
As for those "famous sayings", young people, rather than listening to what she says, it is better to watch what she does.
Moreover, it is not uncommon for her to be inconsistent in language and slapped in the face personally. For example, she said more than once that she should get out of her comfort zone and break through herself, but one day when the host asked her, she Answer: Who defined the "comfort zone"?
hereby quotes Li Chengru’s evaluation of Guo Jingming’s skill in setting selection criteria: is really about turning your hand into clouds and turning your hand into rain.
If you laugh at her inconsistency, maybe she is proud of the way those in power turn a deer into a horse—no matter what logic or facts, she is the queen, and whatever she says is what she says.
This is the source of Yang Mi's meanness. She knows how to be a "successful person".
In fact, she is not a golden heroine. She has experienced ups and downs along the way. As she said, there were times when she was inferior to others. When she was a child, she was beaten by the director on the set, and she also experienced being replaced. .
She has clearly seen the snobbishness and cruelty of Vanity Fair since she was a child. This "sobriety" has given her the motivation to climb all the way, and it has also restricted her vision to a certain extent.
"Bullying is a naked reality. If you don't want to be bullied or left out, then become the successful one who has the right to speak." This is naturally true, but after being in this environment for a long time, she can easily subconsciously think, There are only two roles in this world: the superior and the inferior. The reward for climbing up is being able to boss around those below, and being submissive to those above is the unchanging way of survival.
So she can always identify which one is higher and which one is lower at a glance, and then output the corresponding treatment method.
After all, people are creatures of learning. When the people above me treated me like this, now I have learned to treat the people below me in a similar way, and at the same time, I can vent my hatred and grievances from being bullied.
Another notable label of Yang Mi is that she "likes to flirt with men". She will fall into Eric Tsang's arms with a smile, sit on Nicholas Tse's lap in full public view, and casually pick up the straps on Hua Chenyu's clothes and play with them. She would call the rapper next to her "Little Fresh" and ask him over and over again to compare with her...
Some people say this is inappropriate, and some people argue that there is something wrong with having an open style, but in my opinion, this is not the point.
The above are not to the extent of being immoral, nor to the height of challenging tradition. What I see is only the showoff of a female competition winner and the obedience of a social person to the established rules.
naturally sticks to the boss, which shows that I am one of my own without being coy or confrontational, so that I can get opportunities; at the same time, this is also a survival and self-preservation strategy, that is, I strike first and behave like a "sophisticated" person. At one point, the big guys can't do anything.
is making love to Xiaoxianrou. It’s my turn to do the obedience test for others. It doesn’t matter if the other person is not so cooperative. Anyway, my charm is undoubted. My main thing is that I can’t help but show off my spontaneity and pride as a powerful person. .
In short, no matter how you look at it, she is a person within the rules, and she can always accurately assign her and others' positions according to the rules.
But are rules everything?
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This world is not only about what is, but also how it should be. It is a fact that the three, six, and nine levels are equal, and it is a matter of course that everyone is equal; it is a fact that the winner is the king and the enemy is defeated, and peaceful coexistence is the way it should be. The existence of
is reasonable, but it may not be correct, and it may not always exist. Everything about what should be sounds out of place, but the development of human civilization is triggered and promoted by their repeated leveraging of reality. Just like what Lu Xun said - "This has always been the case, is it right?"
When you see what should be, you have a third party's eye other than success and failure, superiors and inferiors, and you also have a third perspective that is not coerced by the environment. Three possibilities.
would like to cite a positive teaching material that I think - Lin Chiling.
First of all, she and Yang Mi have something in common. They are both beautiful female celebrities. Both have personal labels that are greater than the works themselves. They both believe in the survival of the fittest and take the initiative to make themselves conform to the rules. They are both visible at a glance. A great example of being a good person.
But at the same time, their differences are also very obvious:
Yang Mi is said to be mean, but Lin Chiling has been as warm as spring for 20 years. Even her friend Cai Kangyong lamented that there is really no flaw in her;
Yang Mi is said to be mean. Although Lin Chiling is perfunctory, she is as high-energy as ever. She always dances and is full of energy when talking, and seems to be full of infinite emotions. When Xu Zhiyuan interviewed her, he was shocked by the scene of Ms. Lin hugging a child before she could say anything.
At the beginning, everyone said why she was so fake, but time passed by, and when she was still like this, the most demanding viewers couldn't help but write a big word "admit" in their hearts.
What makes them different?
Maybe it is, Lin Chiling has the third eye, but Yang Mi does not.
Lin Chiling said that her original career plan was to be a teacher or an art museum curator, but after accidentally entering the entertainment industry and becoming popular, she found that she had so many resources, and she was wondering how to use these resources. Do more valuable things.
Regarding the so-called value, she has her own answer, which is to convey kindness and joy. When Xu Zhiyuan questioned whether this kind of kindness and joy would be superficial, she replied firmly, no, when you are sincere enough, others will definitely be able to feel it.
"Sister Zhiling" is her identity that conveys kindness and joy. It is also her most satisfying work since she entered the industry, at least she has always thought so.
Sister Zhiling, who looks cute and coquettish, actually has her own value system that is different from the entertainment industry and vanity fair. That’s why she can always smile without being snobbish, and she can hold her own until she is in her forties before getting married. She did not give in easily to the pressure from the media and her parents to get married.
So although she has always been famous for her beauty and figure, you can't see showoff or prostitution from her.
Maybe as she said, when you are sincere enough, others will definitely feel it. In the past few years, when I listened to her talk, I really felt that the world was really beautiful at that moment. I seemed to have been convinced by her persistence. She She is the angel sister who is determined to spread peace&love to the world. The "third eye" that
can be so alienated and determined at the same time is indispensable. It allows her to have a height beyond the environment, and also allows her to have a vision of using rules rather than being bound by them.
is in a high position as a successful person. She feels more and more that she should do something with the existing resources, while Yang Mi - "I am already at the top, what else is there to pursue and conquer? I can just deal with it." Come on." Then, the feeling of exhaustion overflowed the screen.
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So how to have the "third eye"? With or without, it depends on the way and degree of education in the initial stage of life.
Yang Mi has been on the set since she was very young, while Lin Chiling went to Canada to study alone in her teens. Early experience in social universities can certainly prevent the birth of nerds, but it can also make children become 100% products of the environment.
And reading can provide a barrier to isolate the surroundings from the outside, and implant a should-be system into him in advance. Perhaps this will add some idealistic undertones to the whole person, but he can also have the ability to jump out in the face of chaos and become a person who examines and controls the rules, rather than an accessory to the rules.
So after reading to the end, you will find that this is not actually a gossip post, but an educational post. When a person is a blank piece of paper, whatever he comes into contact with will become whatever he comes into contact with. It is difficult for everyone to transcend their own personality and cognitive background. It's okay for
to become Lin Chiling or Yang Mi, but I want to say: It is definitely wrong to say that reading is useless.
Author: Miss Bovary
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