Text/Ms. Bovary
In the past ten years or so, "Wang Feng is not on the hot search" was once an enduring meme. At first, it was just a collective joke among the onlookers, but later it gradually evolved into a kind of metaphysics—— "Look, Dahong depends on his life, no matter how anxious he is, it's useless!"
It wasn't until May 20, 2024, that a miracle happened. Teacher Wang Feng, who has never changed his original intention, taught us a vivid lesson - no one has to complain about bad luck or unappreciated talents. As long as you don't leave the field, gold will always shine.
Yes, after all the trouble, this man finally became a hot search topic and went viral.
Then why couldn’t I access it before? Because before, “Wang Feng” was closely followed by “concert” or “releasing new songs”.
This is obviously not in line with the public's taste: firstly, if it is related to singing, it has to be "unsound" to be popular; secondly, there are a lot of "middle-aged uncles who can sing", can Wang Feng stand out with this? ? Of course not, only "a musical libertine who talks about falling in love" will do.
Only when people maximize their own advantages can they shine brightly. So this time, Wang Feng, who is full of "romantic bacteria", finally hit the right track. With a new relationship that lives up to expectations, in this day that exudes the sour smell of love, he has become the absolute number one male on the hot search list.
The heroine is in her early thirties, her stage name is Lin Linbei, and her nickname is Li Qiao. She is beautiful, intellectual, and elegant. Although she is an Internet celebrity, she is not an Internet celebrity at all. She fully meets the consistent standards of "Wang Feng's former echelon".
Since then, the voices of doubt and envy about "how does he deserve it?" and "why does he deserve it?" started to sound again, and rumors about "cheating", "betrayal" and "seamless connection" also flowed out.
Then, Teacher Wang got angry and started the "wife-protecting mode". He posted a clarification on Weibo at around 3:00 pm on May 20, saying that the two met two months after his divorce, and four months after they met. They only started dating each other 6 months ago, which means they only officially started their next relationship 6 months after the divorce. It is pure nonsense to talk about cheating and betrayal.
OK, but friends who always calculate the window period in years have said: It's only half a year, which is fast enough. The key is to "cultivate the right results" this time, and you will be married for the fifth time! Did you see
? Harvesting beautiful women and never ending love are the greatest strengths of Mr. Wang Feng.
No one should be dissatisfied. This is talent. Wang Feng deserves to be on the hot search this time.
It is better to learn than to question, so on this special day, in line with the growth principle of "learning from others' strengths and using them for my own use" and the simple wish of "trying not to be a dog in the coming year", this package will carefully sort out Teacher Wang's " Secrets of Love".
As the saying goes, the best way to learn is to learn to fall in love from the genius of love. You are right.
1. Talk more, don’t be too picky, focus on quantity first and then ensure quality. The
standard must still exist. The key point expressed here is: practice makes perfect in everything, and falling in love is no exception.
Wang Feng is not someone who can win beautiful women in kindergarten. He also got married three times before marrying the unparalleled international chapter. Rome cannot be built in a day. No matter who you are or what you do, you have to do it. There is a process of continuous improvement in practice.
If you want to write well in essays, you have to write more; if you want to serve Party A well, you have to be abused more; if you want to have a good relationship, you have to talk more.
There are no shortcuts in the world, young people, you can't just think about meeting Prince Charming when you go out or bumping into Liu Yifei around the corner. How can such a beautiful thing happen? If you eat a fat man in one bite, it is most likely the butcher's plate that is causing trouble.
When you are constructing the perfect object in your mind every day, don’t blame people with ulterior motives for painting an impeccable pie to lure you in. Remember, where there is perfect imagination, there is a poor and effective scam.
Thousands of worries can be solved only by taking action.
Get started first and meet real people. In real confrontations, you can see the advantages of others, clarify your own needs, and find a way to build relationships. If it doesn't work once, just keep coming a few more times, even if you have average talent. Diligence is enough to compensate for weakness.
Don’t sanctify love or turn it into an idol drama. Just listen to the saying “My beloved is an unparalleled hero, and one day he will come to marry me riding on colorful auspicious clouds.” This is such a beautiful and distorted picture. It is far less interesting than the full granularity of practical operations, and it is even less rewarding than establishing a deeply attached relationship with a stranger who has no previous interaction.
The interesting thing about the real world is that it is not that easy to advance anything. Because of this, if you achieve a little bit, you will be extremely happy.
2. Show more of your "comfort zone".
Many students are like this when they are in love. Because they are too rare for someone else, they feel more and more insignificant and pessimistic. They wish they could become invisible and embed themselves into the other person's world to see how colorful it is, and then put them into the other person's world. Dress up as he or she likes, with the main theme of "just follow the other person's fancy and lose yourself".
is stupid!
You are not the only one who is curious, others are also curious. Everyone is full of desire to explore the unknown of the world, and they are more or less bored with the environment and circle they have been in for a long time.
So instead of catering, it is better to turn from passive to active and show your home court to the other party.
Let’s see what Mr. Wang did: On their first date, he gave Zhang Ziyi a psychological test, and the results were so good that Ms. Zhang was shocked to realize that this person was like a roundworm in her belly. Afterwards, she still thought it was amazing when she recalled it. ——"He seems to have done something for me!"
Just imagine, if he told her things like "Customs and Customs Around the World" or "100 Years of Film History", would he still be able to achieve this miraculous effect?
You are just looking for death by doing tricks in a track that others are familiar with and good at. Apart from stimulating their competitive spirit and making them want to roll up their sleeves and compete with you, it is really useless.
Remember, we are not trying to cultivate a rival, but we are holding his hand and entering a wonderful new world, so that he can't stop wanting you. Teacher Wang Feng makes good use of his Cancer man's advantage here - mind reading.
3. Insight into the needs of the other party
There is a saying: If she has never experienced the world, take her to see the prosperity of the world; if she has experienced vicissitudes of life, take her to ride the merry-go-round.
In short, it is better to give accurately than to give too much.
Don’t always say “I don’t have money, I’m not good enough, I’m not pretty enough”... Although these hardware things are helpful to enhance a person’s competitiveness in the marriage and love market, in the emotional world, they are not actually effective. Not the most core element.
There are many people who worry that "money cannot buy love"; there are also many people who are not good-looking but have peach blossoms in full bloom.
Especially for ordinary people, after struggling to a certain extent, it will be difficult to move to a higher level in terms of material rewards and social status. It is not just that you can become Musk by folding your hands and making a wish. In contrast, obtaining the "mind method" is more practical, especially this one, which teaches you how to do subtraction - it is better to pursue high accuracy than precise sniping.
Before peacocking, you might as well treat the other person as a customer and think about what he or she lacks.
Zhang Ziyi is well-informed and has a successful career. In the thirty years before she met Wang Feng, she had accumulated enough experiences of being radiant and seeing things far away. What she lacked was a person who could reveal her vulnerability after taking off her armor. of harbor.
It is said that such a simple sentence pierced Zhang Ziyi's heart and made her decide to experience a "cross-field" despite the pressure.
As a "little genius in love", can Wang Feng be weaker than a director? He must have long seen through Zhang Ziyi's hidden fragility and deep-seated needs. In addition, he is also good at capturing people's emotions, so he can conquer the seemingly unattainable Kokusai Chapter has become a "dead-core love brain", the kind who will not hesitate to go against the whole world.
I can only say that the Thirty-Six Strategies are not as good as attacking the mind ~
4. Don’t be too obsessed with maintaining a beautiful image
Our classmates often have two misunderstandings: Either, I have a big deal, and I must not show that I am weak. Either way; either, idols carry a heavy burden and will never take the initiative or bow down easily.
The essence of these two manifestations is actually the same: they are too narcissistic, and they are too afraid of showing their "flaws", being laughed at, and then abandoned by others, so they either insist on being an almighty warrior so that others can look up to them and worship them, or they can be proud of themselves. Holding a noble head in the so-called high position of power, waiting for the other party to come forward and worship.
But the result is often: Seeing that you can do anything, you can do more work, and you will be exhausted; others see that you are so proud and difficult, and gradually lose their patience with you and leave.
No, to fall in love and fall in love, you have to talk, and in relationships, you have to interact! You can’t worry about your so-called golden body being broken every day!
You should show weakness. This will help stimulate the other person's feeling of being needed. Only after he feels needed can he find his own position in the relationship and be willing to play with you. Otherwise, he will have to play with others;
It's time to lick. You have to lick it, and to maintain customer relationships, you have to send text messages and gifts during holidays. Why is it that when you are in love, your own initiative and bowing your head to admit your mistakes become so precious? Although Ge Huijie,
's second wife, often criticized Wang Feng, she also confessed in the live broadcast: The reason why Wang Feng was able to pursue her in the first place was because he loved others.
All love masters must be able to bend and stretch, and they are not obsessed with being gods and goddesses in relationships.
hereby sincerely recommends that some gay men stop drooling over Teacher Wang’s new girlfriend, mention your ability to have fun, and change your laziness. Maybe you can also win a beautiful woman.
Summary
Okay, the above is this year’s 520 special course. Have you failed?
Please note, what I want everyone to learn is the technology that Teacher Wang Feng is good at, not the person Wang Feng. Building relationships and maintaining relationships are two different abilities. It's hard to say who is better between a person who has been married 20 times in his life and a person who fell in love from young to old in one fell swoop.
So we don’t create gods, we just look at which technology you need more and which problem you need to solve at the moment. If you want to be single, the glorious deeds of Teacher Wang Feng can indeed give you a lot of positive inspiration. How come
is not a technology?
In the long Weibo post that was just posted, Wang Feng described Lin Linbei like this: I felt her persistent optimism about work and life, and saw her integrity and kindness.
This serious wording, those who know it is praising the person, but those who don’t know it think it is a recommendation for party membership.
is indeed a bit too official. Is this really the reason why he likes Forest North?
Looking back on the past, I personally think that what Teacher Wang likes is actually a kind of person. Of course, it is not the kind of beautiful women who are persistent, optimistic, honest and kind, but all "pseudo-strong women".
looks angular and has personality. She is by no means a white and thin girl who can be manipulated by anyone, but in fact, she is a bit strong on the outside but strong on the inside. Look at Ge Huijie, she is so broken. Look at Zhang Ziyi, she looks energetic. In fact, the tear point is quite low.
They are by no means vulgar fans, but they are not as powerful as they seem. On the contrary, they are easier to see through than the "sweet sisters and wives" who pretend to be pigs and eat tigers. This happens to be Wang Feng's favorite prey - the high value is worthy of his desire to conquer, and the vulnerability inside can become an excellent breakthrough point.
Know yourself and the enemy, and then use your strengths, target accurately, practice repeatedly, and then form your own methodology. This is of course a technique.
For a master of love like Wang Feng, he may have formed a kind of path dependence in love, but it may have become a bit boring, but for most people who take notes while eating melon, This is just an opportunity to disenchant love - stop sugarcoating love, sincerity and routine can be integrated into one. The more you become a master of transformation, the less you can tell the difference between the two.
However, precisely because love is not so fantasy, you can start your own love journey just like learning a skill. come on!
Author: Miss Bovary, today is Wang Yuyan who is teaching the love class.
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