"Gemini Killer": "As the years go by, we are all the best actors in our lives"

, once said: "Life is meaningless "right" and "wrong", it's just a choice. We often think about how good it would be if there are regret medicines in life. We travel back to our former self and make up for regrets. There will be a different life. But the fact is, even if we can really live again, there will still be all kinds of regrets."

believes that many people like me, if time can go back, save the thing that affects their hearts. Perhaps today is another ending. At first I thought that way, but later I found out that even if we can rewrite one, we cannot avoid repeating the same mistakes.

1, the young and old self

took the time to watch "Gemini Killer" directed by Ang Lee, and saw Will Smith actually meet the young self, which aroused my deep thinking about life.

Will Smith is an agent working for the federal government. After he performed his last mission, he applied for retirement. At this time, he was 51 years old. After

retired, he was chased by a mysterious assassin. During the shooting at each other, Will Smith saw the assassin’s face through the scope of the gun. He was actually a young self. He was surprised and resisted opening. gun.

discovered through subsequent investigations that Will Smith knew that this killer who was very similar to himself was cloned through his own blood, which made him feel very angry, and more wanted to save the cloned young self .

Later, the two of them met. The old Will told the cloned Xiaoke that you were from Kelong, and said his own voice:

is afraid of water, insomnia all night, and suffering all day. The only short-lived pleasure, "only at the moment when the trigger is about to be pulled".

Xiaoke was completely hit by Will Smith, struggling for a long time, and finally reconciled with the old Will to defeat the enemy. In the

movie, the old Will Smith is careful that young Kick is taking the wrong direction in life, so he has been giving him directions and suggestions, hoping that he can walk on the right path in life.

The young Xiaoke faced his old self with another questioning attitude. He was unwilling to follow the suggestions of people who passed by, and wanted to live and experience according to his own understanding.

Some people say that this is like a father educating his son, hoping that he can go on the right path, but that child insists on advancing in his own direction, more like the young and old self in our lives.

is like the movie said: "When I was a rookie, I thought I knew everything, and when I got older, my conscience would be revealed." Maybe we have not yet reached the age of looking back on the "conscience" of our lives, but we have reached the age of knowing what we are not The age of "all know".

2, will you succeed in your career or will you achieve nothing in the future?

How will you look like 20 years later? This is a topic that makes people look forward to the future. Maybe we can have a successful career, a happy family, and a happy family; maybe we can achieve nothing, be rejected by relatives and friends, and the family is not harmonious.

For the future we cannot predict what kind of life will be. Who will come first tomorrow and the accident? In this fast-paced modern society full of impermanence, everything becomes uncertain, which makes people infinitely sad.

saw such a story yesterday on Douyin. A young self and future self met. The current self asked the future self a question. He said how will I live in the next ten years?

The future self told him that you will have a successful career in the next eight years, and your family will be happy and harmonious. So the current self asks him why someone else is ten years old, and he is eight years old?

The future self said, "You haven't lived for ten years, and you had a car accident after a drunk driving. And said, while you are young, drink more, don't suffer your wife and children in the future. "

sees here I am full With infinite emotion, yes, if people don't take good care of themselves, in the future, they can only suffer from their closest relatives, including parents, wives and children.

Therefore, in the face of the future, the current self must learn to love oneself in order to give people who are close to him in the future a better life.

is like a line in the movie "Monga":

"Which direction the wind blows, the grass will fall in which direction. When I was young, I used to think that I was the wind, but the mostAfter being wounded all over, I realized that we were all just grass. "

3, the younger self, have more opportunities. Although 20 years later,

is a certainty full of unknowns. But what we will be like in the future depends on who we were 20 years ago, that is, who we are now. How is it.

is full of confusion facing the future, maybe we are now in a state of nothing; maybe we are full of denial of our own ability, but no matter what, please believe that now, everything is possible in the future.

I have seen such a story. A security guard who stands on guard every day sees the takeaway boy delivering food into the building. He is full of envy in his heart and can enjoy the scenery along the way while working; the takeaway boy delivers the takeaway to the white-collar workers. I am full of envy for her and can work in the office without having to endure the wind and rain; when the white-collar worker delivers the documents to the boss, he is full of envy for her and can have his own business; the boss is full of the landlord when paying the rent If you are envious, you can do nothing, and you can make money by collecting rent. It's not like you have to work every day for the company's big and small things.

But the landlord is full of envy for the young people, unlike how old they are. Can't do it.

In fact, behind everyone's envy, she will also envy others and has her own difficulties. Young is the best capital, we can choose to try and make mistakes, try to correct the direction, and find ourselves The way you want.

Being young is the biggest capital. We can choose the way we want to live and strive to become the person you want to be.

4, love yourself, work hard,

now, refuse to let go of the decadent life, refuse to look away The life of the novel, reject the life of staying up late. A friend of

told me such a story and I was very touched. Once, a female friend asked a friend to recommend a set of skin care products. She said that she had a budget of 1,000. Then the friend said: " Do you think you are still an 18 year old girl? The basic model is no longer suitable for you", "1000 yuan, buying a bottle of anti-wrinkle essence is not good."

can be seen, with the passage of time, to a certain age, all the vicissitudes of life will appear on the face. If not Loving yourself well, the future must be regretful.

We have to work hard to realize what kind of life we ​​want to live in the future.

I have heard one sentence that best explains effort: split the goal into concrete Steps, and then work hard to complete the steps, this is the meaning of hard work. There is a saying in the

movie "Gemini Killer": "As the years go by, we are all the best actors in our lives"

hope you and mine are the future , Is full of excitement, I have never regretted it.