"If you want to defeat her, you must become her."
Due to Zhao Xiuli's "pathological" desire for control, Chen Ruohua ended up living the way she hated most.
After graduation, Chen Ruohua returned to his hometown, neither taking exams nor going to work, and spent all his time and thoughts rebelling against his mother, Zhao Xiuli.
But no matter how hard Chen Ruohua resisted, he could never break free from the shackles of his native family, nor could he get rid of Zhao Xiuli's control.
Therefore, in order to leave Zhao Xiuli as soon as possible, Chen Ruohua no longer rejected the blind date arranged by Zhao Xiuli and began to choose a suitable marriage partner according to his own standards.
For Chen Ruohua, marriage is the shortcut to get rid of Zhao Xiuli.
However, among all the people who have been on blind dates, no one Chen Ruohua is satisfied.
Until she met the thirty-one-year-old Li Zhong, who had excellent conditions in all aspects, and coupled with Li Zhong's sincerity and directness, Chen Ruohua was shaken.
Chen Ruohua and Li Zhonggang hastily set a wedding date not long after they started dating.
Although Chen Ruohua wanted to get rid of her mother, Zhao Xiuli, by getting married, she didn't plan to be so anxious.
If Zhao Xiuli hadn't suddenly appeared, Chen Ruohua wouldn't have set the date in anger.
The reason why Li Zhong’s parents are so anxious for Chen Ruohua and Li Zhong to get married is:
First: Although Chen Ruohua’s family conditions are ordinary, he graduated from a prestigious university and is excellent in all aspects. This is indeed what Li Zhong’s parents want. The perfect choice.
Second: On the surface, Li Zhong seems to be sincere and straightforward, and he is a reliable person. In fact, Li Zhong’s private life is chaotic. The things Li Zhong did have long been spread. Li Zhong’s parents, in order to avoid damage to their interests, also To protect one's own face, one would choose an easy man to marry Li Zhong.
In fact, to put it bluntly, Chen Ruohua and Li Zhong just get what they want.
Li Zhong wants to rely on Chen Ruohua's gentleness and virtuousness to stabilize his image, while Chen Ruohua wants to use Li Zhong's family and resources to get rid of Zhao Xiuli.
But Chen Ruohua would not have thought that Li Zhong tried every means to please her and was anxious to marry her just to cover up his own scandal.
A few days before her wedding, Zhao Xiuli heard some gossip related to Li Zhong and kindly reminded Chen Ruohua.
But Chen Ruohua was already extremely disappointed with Zhao Xiuli and didn't want to say another word to Zhao Xiuli.
Chen Ruohua said angrily to her mother:
"I'm getting married in a week. What else can you do if you tell me this now except to cause trouble for me. You want to do that with me again, don't you? Break me up with Zhou Kaize It's not enough, now you have to mess with Li Zhong, are you doing it for my own good, or are you looking down on me?"
In Chen Ruohua's view, Zhao Xiuli said this deliberately because she was dissatisfied with Li Zhong.
In fact, after Zhao Xiuli learned about the harm she had caused to Chen Ruoxuan, she had realized her own problems and really wanted to ease the relationship with Chen Ruohua. Zhao Xiuli said this for Chen Ruohua's good, but it was too late.
Chen Ruohua was anxious to marry Li Zhong. In addition to showing off to Zhao Xiuli, she also wanted to prove to Zhao Xiuli that the man she chose was not wrong.
But what Chen Ruohua didn't expect was that when she came to the wedding room happily, she would bump into Li Zhong and other women fooling around in her bed.
The strange thing is that when Chen Ruohua saw this scene, he was not surprised or crying, he just felt disgusted and angry.
In other words, Chen Ruohua already knew what kind of person Li Zhong was before agreeing to get married.
The reason why he was angry was not because he broke Li Zhong's scandal, but because Zhao Xiuli's reminder confirmed it so quickly.
Li Zhong and Chen Ruohua are sincere in getting married, but this does not mean that Li Zhong will be loyal to Chen Ruohua.
Li Zhong said:
"Ruohua, I don't want to lie to you, everyone has a past. You are a smart girl, smarter, more mature and rational than most girls I have ever met."
Obviously, Li Zhong will marry Chen Ruohua because Chen Ruohua is calm enough when encountering problems, will not easily make trouble, and can bear what others cannot bear, and endure what others cannot bear.
Just like Chen Ruohua said:
"Be good to me While living your life, also live a good life with others. What you call maturity and rationality is the ability to withstand disgust and ugliness. "
Actually, Chen Ruohua had expected this. She and Li Zhong only met three times before they started talking about marriage.
Even if Li Zhong fell in love with Chen Ruohua at first sight, how long can this feeling last?
See Chen Ruohua was angry, and Li Zhong mocked:
"I don't understand, are you so angry now because you find that I don't love you enough? But obviously before today, you have already suffered such a result. Now you're accusing me of being disgusting and immoral, right? Okay, if I don't have this problem, do you love me? Isn't it disgusting that you don't love me and you still want to marry me? Is this moral?
In our marriage, each has his or her own needs and wants. When you go on a blind date in front of the form, are you pursuing love? If you don’t love me but want to marry me, it’s because you want to escape your mother, you want to have a job, you want to have a shelter. We must admit that we are working together to run a marriage sincerely, love it It’s not the first factor in the first place. If you don’t love me and you still want me to be loyal to you, what is the point of being loyal to you? your love? "
"If Running Is My Life" A passage from Li Zhong, who has a chaotic private life, reveals Chen Ruohua's unbearable situation.
Li Zhong said when he and Chen Ruohua were on a blind date that he also had a scoring table in his heart, and Chen Ruohua was her ranking on the inside and outside The first person.
In other words, for Li Zhong, Chen Ruohua was just the most suitable person to marry him.
At that time, Chen Ruohua already knew that her marriage to Li Zhong only had interests and no love.
But now, Chen Ruohua's Anger betrayed her vanity.
Li Zhong's words also exposed Chen Ruohua's unrealistic illusions about love.
Chen Ruohua wanted to defend herself:
"I just thought about an ordinary job, the job you found for me. , I can return it to you.
Li Zhong said sarcastically:
"An ordinary life is good. If you have the courage, you can just find a job, rent a house for a few hundred yuan, be independent, and be separated from your mother?" Can you do it? You want face, you want posture, and you want to be relaxed. In essence, you don’t want to give anything, and you still think that everything you get is natural, right? "
Chen Ruohua and her mother Zhao Xiuli have been fighting wits and courage for a long time, but they have never succeeded. Rather than saying that her mother Zhao Xiuli is too strong, it is better to say that Chen Ruohua does not have the courage to resist Zhao Xiuli.
It is Chen Ruohua's cowardice and connivance that makes Zhao Xiuli surpass In the drama "If Running Is My Life", Liu Jingwei once said to Chen Ruohua:
"I think you are trapped by yourself. "
The person who really trapped Chen Ruohua was not Zhao Xiuli, but herself.
What do you think of this?
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