relationship is nothing more than two factors - "external factors" and "internal factors". External factors refer to supply and demand, and internal factors refer to psychological needs.
Over the past few years, A Bao, Lingzi, and Miss Wang have maintained a delicate balance. Because the two women's needs are limited, and A Bao can meet their needs, life has passed so smoothly.
Before Li Li appeared, neither woman asked for much. Miss Wang is in charge of the outside, and Lingzi is in charge of the inside. The trade connection between Miss Wang and Mr. Bao is booming. The bosses who come and go on the Yellow River Road all know that Ms. Wang is the person who cares about Mr. Bao. Mr. Bao often comes to Tokyo to eat rice dumplings. This is the only tenderness Reiko gives him. Reiko is called the boss lady among the shop owners. The circles of Miss Wang and Lingzi do not overlap. They are both regarded as Mr. Bao's lovers in their own circles, so they are very satisfied with the status quo and live peacefully under Mr. Bao's wings.
The appearance of Li Li inspired the two women to be possessive in love. Even if their opponents are not each other, facing the same enemy is equivalent to setting up a virtual battlefield. They want to raise Li Li by stepping down. High myself, but never thought that standing at a higher altitude would also reveal the emptiness of the foundation. Because their demands increased, they saw the limitations of Mr. Bao's supply, so they began to worry about gains and losses, so they began to lose confidence, and so they began to suffer emotional collapse. The above is the breakdown of the supply and demand relationship of external factors.
Next I want to talk about internal factors - changes in mentality.
Over the years, the two women have been using excuses to numb themselves.
Miss Wang’s excuse is that she cannot fall in love on the 27th. She and Mr. Bao only have the purest revolutionary friendship, and the way Bao has maintained this relationship is to constantly provide business support to Miss Wang. Everyone said that Miss Wang and Mr. Bao were a match made in heaven. Although Miss Wang said, "We are not in that kind of relationship," in fact, she was very happy when she heard these words. She had already acquiesced that they were in that kind of relationship. , but she has been deceiving herself with her revolutionary sentiments. Whether she resigned or was reported, this was an opportunity for Ms. Wang to get rid of the ironclad rule No. 27, allowing this suppressed relationship to run wild like a wild horse, so she finally refused to give up and asked her uncle to send a message to the pork ribs and rice cake shop. They met once, but it was Mr. Bao's failure to make the appointment that made Ms. Wang understand that Mr. Bao could not give her the identity of his girlfriend. He said that he would not let her sell tea eggs. She thought at the time that it was because he was not willing to let her suffer, but in fact, it was because he could not sell tea eggs at all, let alone selling eggs with her.
Abao didn't understand why Miss Wang couldn't get over this hurdle this time, because in the past, as long as he gave her an order, all problems could be solved. Abao always thought that his order was the foundation for Miss Wang's livelihood. As long as he could give him this order, Miss Wang could be coaxed to accept it. So even though he knew that he had failed Miss Wang, he didn't really treat it as something unprecedented, so he simply thought that by taking care of the factory where Miss Wang was sent, he could wait until she changed her mind. However, Mr. Bao, times have changed. The career that Miss Wang wants to get rid of the shackles of No. 27 is not the career you gave her!
Mr. Wei's pursuit had a certain impact on Miss Wang. Although Mr. Wei is short-sighted, over-achieving, country-minded, and playful, his feelings towards Miss Wang are more positive and sincere than Abao. With this attitude, he immediately compares to Abao. When Mr. Wei loudly announced to the entire factory that Miss Wang had been slandered, at that moment, Miss Wang was really moved. Miss Wang couldn't give Mr. Wei a loving response, but she was at least moved by Mr. Wei, and therefore understood that Mr. Bao's love was actually a luxury. The emotional Miss Wang was finally defeated by reason, so she opened a new chapter.
The complaints between Linghong and Teacher Ge were like a knife, forcing Lingzi to face the fact that Mr. Bao could not give her a status.In the days and nights before, Lingzi always fantasized that she and Mr. Bao would continue to have an unclear relationship like this, but now she had to admit that Bao would one day marry the woman he loved more, and one day he would marry Mr. Bao. A woman younger than her.
Lingzi always knew that the love Mr. Bao gave her was limited, so she never expected to possess all of Mr. Bao, she only played around within the scope of her ability, and was even willing to help him appease Miss Wang. However, the words of the Night Tokyo Trio made her admit that if One Day Bao really found true love, then he would not leave any place for her by his side, just like Twenty-six thousand questions, just like he asked her Forgive my friend, Mr. Bao actually has no natural emotional trust in her. Love is cold and weak, and the bonds maintained come more from responsibility and cooperation. This is not what love itself is. Reiko finally sees it clearly and admits its deformity.
I personally think that the communication between Reiko and Mr. Bao is a little miraculous. The focus of Tao Tao's narration is probably on Ling Hong's extortion of money. After all, it is too ugly to directly say "Mr. Bao will not marry an old woman". Tao Tao will most likely beautify the wording of this sentence, so to be precise, Mr. Bao does not He completely knew where Reiko was feeling cold, and he thought simply, so he suggested forgiveness. But even if Mr. Bao knows the true content of the quarrel, Lingzi will leave. After all, Lingzi is not Miss Wang, and Mr. Bao cannot be deceived by sugar-coated bullets. When she sees her own heart clearly, everything will be settled.
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