I watched a housework variety show when I was bored. Variety shows like
are all very similar in content. They ask a bunch of second- and third-tier stars to show them doing housework.
If celebrities are not good at housework, they will call their parents and play some embarrassing games for a long time, so I gave up after a few episodes.
Until the latest issue, Jing Chao and Li Lin came. The whole film did not exceed 16 minutes. The guests in the observation room unanimously praised it, which made me interested.
It’s not that there is a renewed interest in the show, but it’s really rare for this low-key couple to get together.
Many people probably don’t know them very well.
Li Lin, the actor of "Du Bingyan" in "Marrying the Right Man in the Wrong Sedan Chair".
Jing Chao, the most famous role should be Ling Yunche in "Ruyi's Royal Love in the Palace".
From the perspective of the audience, there is no intersection when they appear on the screen, so it is difficult to connect the two together.
This is a relationship between a brother and a sister with a 6-year age difference. When Li Lin became popular, Jing Chao was just in the first grade of junior high school. After the relationship was confirmed, the heroine was the main character for a long time; judging from Li Lin's previous marriage , she has a bit of a love brain...
After refining the tags, it reminds me of Jinsha and her little boyfriend, who were much discussed before.
can have the same tag, but the audience's perception is very different.
Jinsha, like Xiao Li Lin, became famous early and holds masterpieces. They are both childhood goddesses and first-generation sweet girls.
In terms of relationships, there were many scandals about her in the early years. Although it is difficult to tell whether they are true or false, the image of "love brain" has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
and Yan Po were photographed holding hands while going to a nightclub and returning to the hotel. The man was getting divorced from his ex-wife Mei Ting, and she was also photographed holding hands with Han Han on the street.
Like Xiao Li Lin, she focuses on "no turning back" when it comes to relationships, which also affects her flourishing career.
What is even more similar is that the two sisters later talked about their younger brothers, all with the controversy of "eating soft rice".
was not welcomed by the market when he graduated from Super Nortel, which was equivalent to being unemployed after graduation.
didn't live a comfortable life until he met Li Lin more than a year later, with the heroine leading the outside and the male leading the household.
Sun Chengxiao, on the other hand, didn’t even have a transition period, so she could be milked by her girlfriend as soon as she graduated. Before the love variety show, there was no such person in the entertainment industry. Before the variety show ended, the celebrity status was already comparable to that of actors who have been working hard for more than ten years.
No wonder netizens joked that this young man didn’t want to go to class at all.
Sun Chengxiao is certainly self-aware.
He claimed that his greatest lack of confidence was that he was poor and had no money, but he also said that he wanted to buy some wedding hardware for Jinsha when he became rich in two years.
These words obviously touched Jin Sha’s heart, and she giggled happily.
But unfortunately, the audience did not accept his words, and obviously, except for Jinsha, the smiles of the guests at the scene were meaningful.
Similar "identity" issues did not appear in Jing Chao.
Not only does he not have the embarrassment or lack of confidence of a "weak side", but he is also quite open-minded about the idea of being a weakling.
took the initiative to talk about this topic. He didn't shy away from it, and his eyes even lit up. It was obvious that he was really happy.
later found out that during the time when he was not working, he had a good meal.
When I first read this interview, I thought to myself which fairy sister had treated him so well.
It wasn’t until the end that his wife showed up, and then I realized it was Xiao Li Lin.
has no face, but the whole person is translucent.
Let’s look at the love experiences and some details of the two parties’ relationship.
Jing Chao and Li Lin met on "Beautiful Couple". There was no so-called love at first sight, but love grew gradually.
In Jing Chao's words, there was a sense of stability in getting along with Li Lin, and his bohemian character in the first half of his life began to come into his own.
So the first step to pursue Li Lin was cooking.
cooked soup for Li Lin on the set.
Coincidentally, what attracted Jinsha to Sun Chengxiao was that she knew how to cook, and Sun Chengxiao had no basic knowledge of cooking, which moved Jinsha even more.
Although it was later revealed that Sun Cheng Xiaoai’s dishes included many pre-made dishes (bushi).
The love between Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao is like love at first sight in a novel.
The moment he saw Jin Sha, Sun Chengxiao was stunned for a minute or two, and Jin Sha, who was standing next to Sun Chengxiao, felt as if half of her shoulders were numb due to electric shock.
The scenes of the idol drama are copied into reality, and the audience's first impression is that of suspension. No wonder our little golden potato He Youjun directly asked: "Two minutes is a long time."
Perhaps the starting points are very different, so although the two pairs are both sweet , but not at the same level.
Jing Chao said that since the two fell in love, they hold hands no matter where they are, even when they sleep.
This is the daily basis with extra frosting.
Jinsha and Sun Chengxiao often use "death" and "five hundred million lifetimes" to compare.
This is equivalent to Wuxi people cooking (joking).
As for the views on marriage, the sweetness of these two couples is also very different.
Jing Chao once tried on a pair of rings while hanging out with Li Lin at the airport. Jing Chao bought it on the spot as a wedding ring, but Li Lin didn't realize it was a proposal at all.
Even the phrase "let's get married" was made up by Jing Chao on the plane, and it was extremely casual.
On the other hand, Sun Chengxiao was more cautious and meticulous, even considering whether to give gifts when meeting his parents. During the
program, he has always expressed his non-rejection of marriage.
is right, it is not exclusive.
Again, from the quality point of view, Jinsha’s pair is obviously more in line with the pursuit of drug addicts.
However, there are more voices on the Internet warning Jinsha to be careful.
Many people have actually pointed out Sun Chengxiao’s problem: pretending to be confused while pretending to understand, there is always a vague smell of tea.
However, I think the bigger problem is actually the theme issue in relationships.
In this relationship, it seems that the girl's balance is sinking, but in fact it is Sun Chengxiao who holds the initiative.
is like Sun Chengxiao being asked about her thoughts on participating in the show.
He didn't speak, and Jinsha spoke for the whole process: he is not very social and is quite socially anxious, but he is still willing to participate for Jinsha.
In Jinsha's understanding, he is the one who contributed. Without his sacrifice, the two of them would not be able to make the trip.
But who is the biggest beneficiary of participating in this variety show?
After all, no newcomer of the same generation is so lucky to be familiar to so many viewers at once.
This is how he introduced the age difference that Jinsha was most concerned about.
"This is my girlfriend Jinsha, 43 years old" "The year I was born was the year she became famous."
Jinsha didn't care about this, and still looked after her little boyfriend with loving eyes.
You see, he did everything just right, and what he did was not too great, but it made Jinsha grateful.
In contrast, Jingchao pair.
Li Lin had been married once before, to a senior and teacher who was eight years older than herself.
She was so in love that she never looked back. She married at the peak of her career, regardless of the obstruction of people around her. Unfortunately, she ended up getting divorced in about two years. It was widely rumored in the industry that she was saddled with huge debts after the divorce.
But when it came to her marriage to Jing Chao, she completely lost this sense of vulnerability.
Although she has now retired from being a good wife, she can always occupy the dominant position in the relationship.
I remember that in "Travel of Youth", director Wu Tong casually said in the game: "He and his wife can also end it." Jing Chao immediately became emotional and shouted "It can't end" twice.
This is different from what many celebrities say on the spot. It is more like a subconscious instinct, so I was deeply impressed by this episode.
also has the interview about "eating soft rice".
After Li Lin accidentally joined, while she was chatting with the host, Jing Chao had silently given up the best interview position.
Although Li Lin had been clinging to him from behind, it could be seen that Jing Chao wanted his wife to be seen more than he wanted to shine.
The age difference between siblings is inevitable.
What surprised me was that Jing Chao was always accustomed to putting himself in his wife's shoes.
In the interview on "Very Quiet Distance", when the host asked about the relationship between the two now, Jing Chao even asked the host, "What about the future?"
He considered the constraints of age on women.
The truth is evident in the smallest details.
is like Jing Chao cooking for Li Lin because he can't afford the salmon that Li Lin likes to eat, so he can only cook it himself.
At that time, because he was afraid of embarrassing Li Lin on the set, he simply cooked everyone's portion.
In relationships, Jing Chao always considers his lover's feelings, while Sun Chengxiao's first concern is how to face what outsiders think of them, or in other words, how the outside world thinks of him.
And Jing Chao also has a trait that Sun Chengxiao does not have, and that is sufficient concentration.
is the determination that takes time to get ahead after knowing your career direction.
When guests at the scene asked Sun Chengxiao about his career plans, he would always express his ignorance about the future with clear eyes.
As he would always say, he will be rich in two years.
Think about it from another angle. Men have always avoided the topic of "eating soft food". It is simply because they are incompetent but dare not admit it. They can only covertly say "love is priceless".
The essence that they dare not admit is that they do not recognize the value they can provide to the woman from the bottom of their hearts, or they know that they do not provide value.
The biggest fear in love is not giving too little, but being stingy in giving. Those who try their best to give will naturally know the weight of their every intention, while those who get something for nothing will feel guilty.
A detail seen in the interview:
Although Jing Chao always said that he was "eating soft food" at the time, in fact he just couldn't stably join the group and could only do guest appearances or part-time jobs. He did not enjoy the services provided by his wife with peace of mind. benefits.
He actually knew it well. Even though objectively what I can give is not much, it is really a waste of effort, so it is nobler than the "favor" of most men.
As long as he has this kind of self-awareness and self-consistency, he will not have any imbalance in this relationship.
During those "soft rice years", he and Li Lin created each other's memories in the rental house and weathered the adversity together. To them, this was priceless.
I suddenly remembered the scene in "The Shape of Water" where the mute woman feeds eggs to the aquatic monster.
This is the most critical moment for their shocking love to become possible:
The monster came to the surface, carefully recalled and made the sign language of the mute girl just now.
He is the only "person" in the world who does not know the flaws of the mute woman, but truly cares about what she expresses.
When a person experiences that his or her voice is fully considered, the love is irresistible.
On the other hand, if a person is so arrogant that he doesn’t even care what the other person thinks and only cares about his own reputation and dignity.
Then he is worse than an animal.
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