Xiaopan·Emotional Essay Series
Xiaopan Talking About Love Signing Author Original
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Recently, Liu Yifei was named a rising star in Hollywood and was the only Chinese face selected. As soon as this report came out, it was immediately searched. has always had no shortage of beauties in the complex entertainment industry. Many people have moved to the pinnacle of life for a while with their youthful beauty. But can you always be at the peak forever by virtue of beauty alone? Obviously not, Liu Yifei had thought of this a long time ago, so he has been constantly breaking through himself.
Liu Yifei has reached the pinnacle of her career since she participated in "The Legend of Sword and Fairy". Zhao Linger, who she plays, is innocent and has a sweet smile. She was once called "Sister of the Immortals" by fans. In fact, Liu Yifei didn't want others to think of her that way. She once said, "There are many in my personality who don't care about the image. Normal life is very big and silly, so I don't touch the gods or goddesses." In order to break this image, she later played a lot of immortal Character.
Yu Ji, who can sing and dance in "The Banquet of the Hongmen", the ruthless in "Four Famous Catchers", the killer Lingju and the peerless beauty Diao Chan in "Tongquetai", the more you go, the less fairy. It is precisely because she does not rely on her face to eat, but instead focuses on improving her acting skills, that she can reap today's success. Even if she is 30+, she is still a shining star in the entertainment industry that no one can ignore.
Working hard to improve yourself will always be the truth for survival in this world . But in reality, few girls can realize this. Despite the higher education, there are many beautiful girls who still want to fish for a beloved son-in-law based on their looks, rather than constantly improving themselves. My friend Xiaohua is such a person.
Xiaohua is fair-skinned and tall, standing in the crowd like a star. Huge eyes, tall nose, small cherry mouth, coupled with an always smiling face, are the goddess in the minds of many boys, and are recognized as school flowers. When we were in college, QQ and WeChat were not popular. When we confessed to girls, we mostly chose to write letters. Xiaohua always received the most love letters in our bedroom.
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At that time, Xiaohua's biggest wish was to find a beloved son-in-law, and then live this life carefree. So even though the "Prince of Poetry" in our school wrote hundreds of poems for her, she ran into the arms of her rich second-generation boyfriend without hesitation.
On the eve of graduation, we were busy looking for jobs and postgraduate entrance examinations. We got up early and tired like dogs all day long, but Xiaohua leisurely planted flowers and cut nails, watching idol dramas all day. A roommate with strong independence persuaded her to read more books. In this life, a woman can live on her own, so she can live with confidence.
Xiaohua smiled disdainfully, saying that her rich second-generation boyfriend would raise her for life. Later, after we graduated, Xiaohua and her rich second-generation boyfriend held a grand wedding for the job and the postgraduate entrance examination. It is said that the specification was later on the TV station at that time.
ten years later, at the gathering of our roommates. Xiao Hua was crying. From her intermittent sentences, we learned that her rich second-generation husband is about to divorce her. She naturally disagrees. In ten years, she has never gone out to work. She is either watching idol dramas or shopping online, or consolidating her appearance. She has forgotten everything she learned before, and maybe even herself They are not well taken care of. Fortunately, there is a son. Merchants value the offspring, so she threatens her husband with her son. She didn't know her husband said contemptuously, "You don't have a job, and you can't even take care of yourself. The court will definitely sentence the child to me. I advise you to die." When she heard this, she cried hysterically . The old saying goes well, marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat. Why did the man she married suddenly didn't want her!
"Over the years, I have been paying attention to maintenance. Why have I been abandoned before I am old?" Xiao Hua cried.
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The few of us looked at each other, and we couldn't bear to tell her that if a man sees her because of her beauty, he will naturally also see others because of her beauty. Besides, is not the only tool that produces happiness in marriage. But this is a bit hurtful after all.
So after I hesitated, I persuaded, "You learn from Luo Zijun in "My First Half Life" to find a job! Maybe you can still win the custody of your child."
"I, I can't do it."what! "Xiaohua cried out of breath. We were silent at
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In the end, despite Xiaohua's exhaustion, the rich second-generation husband divorced her. Because she was not able to work, the children were brought up. The right belongs to her husband. After hearing the news, I don’t know what to say. Xiaohua on the other side of the phone considers whether to dress herself up and find a rich person. She really can’t stand her poor life now. .
Xiaohua will succeed? Maybe! But she probably didn’t think about it, she will fail like this time. It’s undeniable that to a certain extent, the appearance can help you find your favorite lover. But if you want to To go far in marriage, you still need to rely on your own ability.
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No one wants to live in poor days, and no one wants to escape from hard times, but Xiaohua doesn’t know that if you want to get a good marriage, you must first make yourself worthy. To do this, it’s impossible to rely solely on beauty. In fact, not only women in marriage, even beautiful single girls, but also need to constantly enrich their abilities so that they will not be abandoned by the times and will be like Liu Yifei The same, living as a shining star. Even though time goes by, despite the vicissitudes of life, it is still bright as before, without the slightest dust.
Many women, are reluctant to reveal their age to others, let alone over 30. , As if 30 years old is a scourge, as soon as you step into it, you can no longer get the beauty of a teenager. In fact, is not, even after 30 years old, 40 years old, 50 years old or more, as long as you have your own business, you can improve yourself repeatedly You can still maintain the beauty of your youth.
is like Liu Yifei, she does have a high value that ordinary people can’t get, but to support her to achieve such an achievement today is not only about her appearance, but more about her self-consciousness as an actor Self-cultivation. In her acting career, she has done everything from high-level play, Diaoweiya, etc., and she can recite even the long lines. It is her persistence year after year that she can get today This kind of success.
will finally give a message to women aged 30+: your appearance will eventually die, and your ability will accompany you throughout your life. So instead of being afraid of going through a mid-life crisis, it is better to enrich yourself and improve your abilities now.
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