watched TV, read the original book, and wanted to talk about his feelings:
1. Career
Only in work can you reflect your own value, prove your value, and use your achievements to write your own height in life. is like what Zhao Xiankun said, "Your worth is more than 8 million? Beat their faces with your grades"!
The road ahead is full of obstacles, thorns, and traps, but beliefs cannot be easily overwhelmed. The more setbacks are, the more courageous, the struggle against suffering, the disdain for failure, wipe away the tears, pat the dust and continue on the road.
Su Xiao's courage is admirable, her beloved boyfriend cheated on her, her cost division certificate was not issued, she was framed and left the unit, all these things that happened at almost the same time are difficult for ordinary people. The hurdle to cross. Su Xiao was also in pain and despair, but she got through it and it didn't take long, because she has a stronger and more tenacious heart than ordinary people.
2. Growth
Growth is a compulsory course for adults. Especially after entering the society, must grow up quickly and adapt to the rhythm of society, otherwise they will only be hit by reality again and again.
We are not Su Xiao, part of the heroine's wisdom is brought in by the genes, without the root of wisdom, if you don't work hard, can you go to the sky without being trampled on the ground? Professional ability must be strong, it is the cornerstone of growth, lack of ability, not even qualified to become a chess piece. While ensuring professional ability, please also learn another subject - relational .
Third, interpersonal relationships
This is the most complex and subtlest thing. If someone else acts like a businessman, it is either his character or the fact that your relationship is not close. The
rules show relationships. The cost engineer certificate has been passed, but no matter what Su Xiao says, the staff will not give it. Xu Feng said that if you want, I can get it back for you; Xia Ming said that after some procedures are approved, it will take half a year according to the normal process. , but it takes two months to find someone...
Some people have selfish intentions, and if they have selfish intentions, they have black box operations. wants to get everything he wants with justice, but he is either excluded or framed, even if he appreciates it. Once your leader touches his interests, he is also regarded as an abandoned child.
4. Trends
has a slogan: Standing on the wind, pigs can fly. As He Congrong's father said, China's real estate industry will be a blue ocean in the next ten years. Indeed, following the policy, even if ordinary people can't eat meat and drink a sip of soup, it will not be moisturizing enough, let alone real estate tycoons. Looking back, in " dwelling ", everyone kept calling everyone to buy a house. Except for just need, the people who sold the house caught up with the bonus, and they were already many steps ahead of others.
Don't just bow your head and work hard, look at the wind direction, the choice means the turning point of life and destiny.
5. Love
The purest love is on campus, right? Once you enter the society and get stinky with copper, the taste will not be so beautiful.
In fact, true love should be evenly matched, and there is a hearty feeling of rivalry.
Xia Yao has a family background. In terms of appearance and self-cultivation, the girls are also top-notch, and Xia Ming is really a match. However, inner feelings cannot be deceived. Su Xiao was not in his life plan, but it was her intelligence, justice, perseverance, and courage that fascinated him.
The love of adults will weigh the pros and cons and care about the pros and cons. Xia Ming and Su Xiao have both calculated in their hearts. Although they have each other in their hearts, they still open their hearts to each other frankly and express their intentions in the face of all kinds of reality.
So far, love is no longer the possession of the other party, but the fit of the soul and the freedom of thought.
Six, life
Su Xiao's life is enviable, but few people have her determination and integrity. On the contrary, Zhang Xiaobei is a representative of ordinary living beings, with limited ability and rushing for life. Coupons and provinces are the embodiment of the quality of life. In the original book of
, Wu Hongmei has already seen life at the age of 80 at a glance. She feels that life is hopeless and has no hope, and seeing her good friend Su Xiao rising step by step, she herself is no worse than Su Xiao, why is she always inferior to Su Xiao in every aspect ? She is envious, she is even more jealous and hateful. After feeling the care of the chairman by chance, she gave birth to a thought, a path that was more difficult in Su Xiao's eyes, but she herself had to fly to the fire - approaching the chairman. The original work of
did not say her result, but Su Xiao's words are worth thinking about by each of us: is better to hold his destiny firmly in his own hands than to leave it to others. Yes, you are your most reliable backer!
Seven, the resonance of people with the same frequency in the circle layer
. Your own value, the connections behind you, and the resources you have in your hands all reveal your status in interpersonal communication, either explicitly or implicitly.
squeeze, even if you enter a circle that does not belong to you, after a period of contact, when you cannot provide value to others and cannot exchange resources with others, you will gradually be eliminated from the game, or even become the prey of others.
people must understand after all, there is no unreasonable approach, and no unclear departure. Only when you have the ability to enter a higher circle will you win the appreciation of others. Keep moving forward, improve your aura, make yourself stronger, and a better circle will extend an olive branch to you.
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