Introduction: In " Parents Love ", Wang Xiu'e, played by Liu Tianchi , is the first wife of the second male Laoding. After this woman gave birth to Laoding's fourth son, she died in childbirth, even if she was with Jiang Dehua In comparison, she is not happy. In fact, the unfortunate marriage of Wang Xiu'e is "responsible" to a certain extent by Jiang Defu.
Wang Xiu'e is Lao Ding's wife in a feudal arranged marriage in her hometown. She is diligent and simple, and she is a good hand both at home and abroad. I would be very satisfied with Wang Xiu'e, because in the countryside at that time, a virtuous and capable wife like Wang Xiu'e was already a very rare woman.
Even if Lao Ding became an officer, he has seen the world, and he still has a culture of 2 and 2. If there is no comparison between Jiang Defu's marriage, Lao Ding may be better for Wang Xiu'e. Lao Ding prides himself on being somewhat literate. He has seen the world, so he appreciates beautiful and literate women more. After he became an officer, he was indeed dissatisfied with his wife, Wang Xiu'e, and felt that Wang Xiu'e was not worthy of him and could not Communicate with him on a spiritual level.
However, Wang Xiu'e gave birth to several sons for the Ding family, and took care of the family and the outside of the house properly. Even if Lao Ding didn't love her, he should give her enough respect and care. But Wang Xiu'e's marriage with Lao Ding was actually cold to Wang Xiu'e. After so many years of marriage, they didn't live together for a long time, but even so, in Wang Xiu'e's words, she never got Lao Ding's marriage in her life. Soft words.
Although Wang Xiu'e has no culture, she knows Lao Ding's mind and he knows that Lao Ding likes a woman like An Jie. Old Ding, I really admire An Jie, but if An Jie didn't marry Jiang Defu, maybe he would just appreciate it from a distance. He wouldn't have the mentality of saying that the grapes are sour if he can't eat grapes, and he wouldn't be envious of them. Jiang Defu's marriage was secretly distressed!
's human nature is like this. He won't compare himself with people he doesn't know or know well. Instead, he compares himself with his siblings, or the people closest to him. Laoding is not an immortal, so naturally he is not exempt. Jiang Defu and Lao Ding are comrades-in-arms, and their relationship is very deep, but in Lao Ding's subconscious, he feels that Jiang Defu is not as literate as he is, and he may not be as handsome as himself. The name is close by.
But Jiang Defu married An Jie and lived such a happy and happy life. How could this make Lao Ding not jealous? Under such circumstances, Lao Ding will inevitably have a psychological imbalance. This kind of psychological subtle changes will actually be reflected on Wang Xiu'e. Maybe Lao Ding will dislike Wang Xiu'e even more because of this.
Wang Xiu'e actually understands these truths. Jiang Defu chose to go to the border and gave up the place to stay in the school to Lao Ding. Wang Xiu'e is very happy. It is not because she is too greedy for the superior life in the city. More importantly, Jiang Defu may have left. Will Jay's departure be far behind? Without the comparison between Jiang Defu and his wife, perhaps the marriage relationship between Lao Ding and Wang Xiu'e would be improved. This is probably the reason why Wang Xiu'e actively promoted An Jie to join the army later, and it was also the main reason why she was very happy about it?
What Wang Xiu'e didn't understand is that if Jiang Defu and his wife left, Lao Ding may treat her a little better, or at least his attitude will be gentler, but women need to have the ability to learn by themselves. She knows what kind of woman Lao Ding likes. , why not work in that direction? Even if you can't become An Jie, it's better to clean up your home and yourself a little bit, isn't it? In the final analysis, Wang Xiu'e's unhappy marriage is mainly her own, and she can't blame others. It's just that Wang Xiu'e does not have the ability to self-reflect and catch up with herself. What do you think?
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