Don't look at any sister and brother love anymore, evenly matched love is more fragrant

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This spring, the Korean drama goddess Gong Hyo-jin received flowers at the wedding of her best friend Son Ye-jin this spring. The wedding was held in New York, USA on October 11, and he officially married the actor Kevin Oh, who is 11 years younger than him. Before and after the wedding, Gong Hyo-jin uploaded photos about the wedding on his personal Instagram.

Gong Hyo-jin, who was originally very free and easy about love, tied the knot with her younger boyfriend, which undoubtedly became a successful case of sibling love. In recent years, more and more female stars have fallen in love with the younger generation, and the topic of sister and brother love has been hotly discussed, so that "inspirational chicken soup" such as "as long as you take good care of it, your husband is in the college entrance examination" has appeared.

But is the love between siblings really sweet? There are new year dramas on topics like sister and brother love, every year.

To tell the truth, the concept of "nianxia drama" originally did not exist in China. It was more common in Japanese and Korean dramas. Before long, it was always full of a sense of taboo. If you think about the love between Qiao Erqiang and his master in " Qiao's Children ", you can understand that for a long time, a love that is too far apart in age has always been cast in strange eyes. With the opening of the times and minds, the love between sisters and brothers has been endowed with some meanings beyond love.

During this period, Jin Chen and Wang Anyu's new drama "Chi Dao" is also a "new year drama". Duan Yucheng, the male protagonist played by Wang Anyu, is a sports student (a little wolf dog with explosive hormones) and is good at high jumping; the female protagonist, Rona played by Jin Chen, is a teaching assistant in the sports department. The competitive soul has become the bond between them.

and Yang Mi and Xu Kai 's "28 Laws of Love ", who are wandering between broadcast and non-broadcast every day, can be regarded as enough to whet your appetite. The background of the story is that a female lawyer who is devoted to her work really wants to get a job opportunity in a top law firm, but the position she is applying for has a rigid condition for job seekers, that is, she is required to be married... From the introduction on Douban Look, this is a "long-lost" story of love after marriage. What kind of puppy is destined for a mature and intellectual female lawyer to meet? Are you satisfied with Da Mi Mi and Xu Kai's CP? In addition to

, the trailer for " Love is Only " was released shortly after the completion of the filming, national brother Wu Lei and Zhou Yutong with a cold image, this combination makes people feel fresh. The male protagonist is a student of the sports department, and the female protagonist is , a professional manager who is running around in the workplace. One is 22 years old and the other is 32 years old. The 10-year-old gap is very interesting.

Of course, the topic of sister and brother love in the play will never be as high as the topic of sister and brother love that female stars themselves talk about. From the perspective of the topic of sibling love, it is not difficult to see that there are some "special meanings" that people add to sibling love. For example, women are no longer "lambs to be slaughtered" by age in the marriage and love market. Women will no longer be disliked by men because of their age. For example, as long as they are excellent and attractive, they will not lose to young women... Sibling love has given women this beautiful self-affirmation.

However, after observation, it is found that most people think that the woman is a "mature sister" and everyone has a certain misunderstanding of "mature sister". Maturity does not mean meticulous care in life, it does not mean being a mother, but the dual maturity of mind and body.

Compared with sibling love, I prefer evenly matched love. ( didn't say that the relationship between sister and brother is bad. Through the relationship between sister and brother, people can see love regardless of age, let people see the charm of mature women, and let people understand that anyone at any age deserves the right one. People. ) Just imagine that the "values" of both parties are the same, the two people can more "converge in thinking and have the same goals" when they get along, and can feel the "comfort" of being understood and included. This is a kind of psychological deeper connections. Such love, the speed of fast food in the era of fast foodIn food and love, doesn't it seem more hot, more interesting, and more enjoyable for both body and mind.

When it comes to evenly matched love, it is even more exciting. It is hard for

to imagine that after so many years of her debut, she has a strong sense of CP with a person who has not made much sparks before. She is talking about her and Li Guangjie 's "" Savage Growth" ▽

what happened? Just addicted to mature men and mature women! what's wrong? It is to indulge in the strong and strong teamwork to exude a double-A breath!

Please, the sense of fit between these two is really surprising. I have to say that Li Guangjie looks like a big business man, and his vicissitudes and experience make people feel handsome. It's a good match for our businesswoman!

In addition, in the previous TV series: " You Are My Fortress ", the male protagonist is a criminal policeman and the female protagonist is a doctor. This kind of two-way love is not too good.

and " and try the world ", the male and female protagonists both bring their own vests, and both have double sides, one is the second highness of Yongzhou, and the other is the princess of Qingzhou. They are resourceful and have a sense of responsibility for the world. The two are of equal strength and status, and they both complement each other and collide.

Evenly matched is equivalent to the strong and the strong. The collision between the strong and the strong makes people feel even more refreshing, and there will be no discomfort. In addition, the combination of the strong and the strong is more enjoyable than what men are strong and women are weak, and women are strong and men are weak. Who would refuse super cool love!