Introverts don't have low self-esteem, Mao's success is also thanks to his introverted character

Before

's debut, Mao Buyi and were questioned, and his introverted personality is not suitable for the entertainment industry. In the

crowd, he is cautious, shy, shy, and habitually protects himself in the face of the camera...

seems out of place in social situations.

participated in a show, Liang Bo chatted with him, and Liang Bo also told him to "don't be shy". Then ask him, how was your rest last night? Did you sleep late last night?

Mao Buyi replied with only six words: "It's normal, it's okay." The host of

asked him, are you afraid to communicate with unfamiliar people?

Mao Buyi replied with only four words: I am not good at it.

can only fully open his heart when he is with true friends.

He said: "When I am more relaxed, I still hope to share happiness with friends."

Mao Buyi once described his youth:

"I am a person who has been walking outside the crowd, and I really can't be with others quickly. Melting together...but I'm not a maverick either, I know that after a long time, I'll always blend in, and maybe this process will take a little longer than others."

The youth that many people yearn for is dynamic and passionate of.

2018's " Infinite Ballad Season ", Zhou Junwei took Mao Buui to go horseback riding on the grassland, ride on paraglider , vertical and horizontal, so he happily said: "This is youth."


Mao Buui has a different understanding , he said: "You have to allow some people to have a quiet youth." Mao was not used to being busy, but he was also afraid of being alone. Many times he needed friends to accompany him, Li Xueqin , Li Dan, Guo Qilin ... They are all friends that Mao Buyi made after he entered the industry.

Mao did not like going out to socialize. When he was alone, he would make video calls to his good friends.



Regarding introversion, Mao Buyi has his own understanding : "Introversion is not a personality defect, it's just a type of personality. There is no need to force yourself." , so introversion is not a disadvantage. If you are also introverted, you should re-understand yourself.

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Mao Buyi's real name is Wang Weijia. He was born in Qiqihar, Heilongjiang in 1994. His parents are both civil servants, and his family's living conditions are not bad.

His family is a big family. He is young and low in seniority. His father is old and has children. He has been very favored since he was a child.

had an anime shop near his house, and anime became his childhood friend. When

was 6 years old, his mother sent him to an art interest class to learn to sing.

At that time, he felt that singers were artists, too far away from ordinary people, but music had already planted the seeds in his heart.



Northeasterners are used to decorating their homes with lanterns, which are festive and lively. Wang Wei's family likes to be quiet.

later met Li Xueqin, a fellow from the Northeast, and complained: "If the lights are not connected well, the light bulbs will flash for a night, and the thieves will be upset."

When he arrived at junior high school, Wang Wei's family changed his name to Mao Buyi. It means not changing.

Mao Buyi has two older brothers, one is studying in the Department of Economics and Management of Fudan University, and the other is a graduate of Central Academy of Fine Arts .

's family is very good at reading, but Mao Buyi's grades are much worse. He feels that he is too ordinary, and he is no better than others in any aspect.

's parents don't have high requirements for their youngest son, Mao Buyi, as long as he is healthy, honest, and responsible, so he doesn't have much ambition to get ahead.

When Mao Buyi was 17 years old, he was still in high school, and his mother got lung cancer.

Even though she was sick, her mother still wanted to cook for her son. She only remembered that her son had to eat one meat dish and one vegetarian dish for each meal.

is about to graduate from high school, and he has two choices: either stayIn the Northeast, or go abroad. When

was young and vigorous, he always wanted to see the outside world, and he was no exception, he wanted to go to the far south.

He has heard of Hangzhou and thinks it is a good place. When filling out the college entrance examination, he wrote Hangzhou Normal University .

His first choice is Chinese major, his second major is education and tourism management, and his last choice is nursing major .

, but his score was not enough, he was transferred to nursing major, and barely got into Hangzhou Normal University .

That's it. In 2012, 18-year-old Mao Buyi left the Northeast and went to Hangzhou to study alone.

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was assigned to the nursing major he didn't like. He was not interested and his grades were so-so, but he was also willing to accept the arrangement of fate. The boys in the same department as

are busy changing majors, and Mao Buyi also thought about it at the beginning.

But he is a person who can accept fate, and he needs grades to change majors. He thinks it is very troublesome. At that time, someone in the family happened to be sick, and he thought it would be good to know some medicine.

His hobby in college still stemmed from the musical seeds he planted at the age of 6. He participated in the competition of the top ten singers on campus, and also served as a judge of the campus singer competition.

reached his senior year, he began to practice in a hospital.

In the hospital, he encountered a lot of things that he couldn't do anything about. In the ICU ward, a seriously ill grandmother who was not easy to take care of, her family reluctantly gave up and could only watch the old man leave.

And this kind of separation of life and death also happened to young Mao Buyi, whose mother died of cancer.



Before his mother left, his father called Mao Buyi, saying that his mother was seriously ill.

Mao Buyi rushed home, but his mother said, "Why did you tell him to come back? My son eats one meat dish and one vegetarian dish every meal. Who will take care of him when I lie in bed."

Mao Buyi felt very guilty, but his mother didn't see He married and had children by himself, and he felt that he was an unsuccessful person.

And the hair at that time was not easy, it seemed to grow up overnight. After

graduated, he became a male nurse , and rented a few square meters of rental house, the room number is 203.

During the day, he faced life and death in the hospital, enduring the wailing and loneliness of the hospital. When

came home from the night shift, he bought a piece of fried rice and a piece of chicken feet at the roadside stall by the way, and then he lived in a rental house of several square meters, a feeling of loneliness spontaneously arises.



As a post-90s generation, Mao is not easy to inevitably encounter the troubles and pressures of the modernization process. In the face of drastic social changes, and in the face of rapid modernization and urbanization, how insignificant an ordinary migrant worker is in the city.

He felt confused and panicked. A college student, working in a job he is not good at. Where is the future?

He is very tired every day, has no friends, and is mixed with anxiety, sadness, fear and all kinds of despair in his loneliness.

and the only thing that can decompress him may only be music. When there is a concert by a singer he likes, he will ride for a few hours, crowd in the team, and seriously enjoy a concert.

At this time, he began to write songs, the life and dreams of ordinary people, and used music to record the ups and downs of a confused young man.

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In March 2017, " Tomorrow's Son " was launched, and Mao Buyi also wanted to break the ordinary life through this show.

has no professional training. He puts his competitiveness on the lyrics. He never thought that he would win the championship. He also joked: "If I can win the championship, how bad this competition will be."

participated for the first time. During the show, Mao Buyi was very nervous. In order to strengthen his courage, he drank a bottle of white wine. The

was also in a lot of situations when performing, and the microphone broke as soon as it came out, and then it was re-recorded three times. When I started to sing, I just sang the first guitar string broke again.



When the melody sounded again, with his mushroom hair combed, he sat on a high chair with a guitar and sang a song he wrote - "If One Day I Become Rich".

debutsMao Buyi did not give the teacher a good impression, Hua Chenyu criticized, your songs have never passed the test with me.

netizens also gave him two labels: "representative of diaosi" and "daydreamer".

Only Xue Zhiqian knows him. Xue Zhiqian saw his potential and has been supporting him.

Xue Zhiqian said to him: "If you only have the previous "Superstar" song for an album, trust me, you will die miserably!"

ended up in the third final battle, and Mao Buyi brought the original The song " eliminates sorrow ", this song Mao Bui used eight glasses of wine to spend an ordinary person's life.

Many people were sung and cried, Yang Mi asked him: "Mao is not easy, how many slaps have you been slapped in life, there are so many stories in the lyrics.

Xue Zhiqian said: "I have studied the lyrics for twelve years. , you wrote to make me kneel. "



Shu Qi , Wang Luodan and other stars were impressed by his lyrics.

is no accident, he became the most watched grassroots star in the summer of 2017.

Everyone can't believe that the champion of "Tomorrow's Son" He is an ordinary big boy who is a little timid, wears black-rimmed glasses, is timid, has small eyes, is quiet and introverted, and is speechless in the crowd.

His "Relieving Sadness" quickly spread on Weibo, and the singing video once It has been played more than 60 million times on the video platform and hundreds of millions of times on the music platform.

even commented that they saw a young version of Li Zongsheng .

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Mao Buyi was just an ordinary nurse without professional training. The lyrics he wrote can help him win the championship.

used eight glasses of wine to run through the whole song in his famous work "Sorrow".

a cup for the sunrise, a cup for the moonlight,

a cup for the hometown, and a cup for the distance ,

a cup toast tomorrow, a cup to the past,

a cup to freedom, a cup to death.

wrote from birth to death, this kind of inspiration is inseparable from the lonely time he spent in the hospital, he is used to seeing life and death, with his own eyes Witnessing the passing of his mother.

His personality is relatively introverted and sensitive, and he has a pessimistic mood in a lonely environment, but this kind of thinking situation gives him rich creative inspiration, which is a unique advantage of lonely and introverted people.

Many people are curious, what kind of experience did he have to write such profound lyrics?

Mao Buyi said: "The story in the lyrics has nothing to do with me, but it does have my feelings. "

's art is originally from life, he said: "The original intention of writing songs is to record life.

Xiao Xiao commented on him like this: "I like Mao Buyi's pattern, I heard heaven and earth in his "Borrow", I heard all living beings in his "Xiaoshou", and I heard in his "Like Me" I heard myself in "People". "



, even Xue Zhiqian, who is good at writing lyrics, admires it: "The lyrics and songs you write are weird, you can tell everyone a simple thing in a funny way, simple chords, and a philosophy. A netizen on

said: "The most touching thing about Mao Buyi is that he can always express his philosophy of life in simple words. "

", one meat and one vegetable " he created is the recipe that his mother cooked for him before his death. In the song, he wrote that his mother's busy hands warmed the time, but he forgot to see if she was crying .

has a music critic who commented that Mao Buyi has a talent for lyric writing. It is not the use of words that is superb, but the ability to express strong empathy with everyday things.

The "South Street" he wrote is to write about himself The image of a small county town, with a large road, trees on both sides, and small winds blowing pedestrians, is full of memories. At the same time, he also made no secret of the desire of an ordinary person to make a fortune. His lyrics "If One Day" I became rich" wrote:

If I become rich,

I will lie on the soft sofa,

eat and sleep, wake up and eat for another year.

I can leave everyone in By my side,

happily eats, drinks and chats every day.

zSomeone asked him on the 0z reality show, when was the most emotional ups and downs recently?

He said: "When the salary is paid. "

In "The Son of Tomorrow", Mao Buyi asked Xue Zhiqian what's the biggest trouble?

Xue Zhiqian replied: "Repaying the mortgage.

Mao Buyi asked in shock: "The superstar still needs to pay off the mortgage? ? ? "

Xue Zhiqian said: "You think superstars don't have to pay off their mortgage! "

Mao is not easy to be grounded and makes the audience laugh. This is the most real idea of ​​ordinary people.



He also does not hide the desire of ordinary people to become a superstar. He wrote a song " feels like a superstar ", in the lyrics Write:

I feel like a superstar, rich and famous, young, beautiful, talented and inexhaustible...

is young, but he is a person with a lot of stories, he is very ordinary, but he is afraid of being ordinary Live a lifetime.

So he wrote in "People Like Me":

A good person like me should have lived a brilliant life. How come

is still floating in the sea of ​​people after more than 20 years. Some people commented on

: He is so young, but the quality of sadness is so high.

he wrote in a song "Borrow": Borrow a piece of paradise to let him live, and lend him an ordinary life.

is only in his 20s and has seen through life and death, Fans describe him like this: There is an "old" soul living in a young body.

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Mao is not easy to be introverted and talented, but he is also a bit lazy, he can't move if he can, just as the lyrics say, when you have money, you lie down Eating and drinking on the sofa for a year.

In "'s yearning for life ", everyone asked him to try chopping wood, he walked over and chopped a knife, then walked back and sat down, it seems that he felt very laborious every time he walked.



his ideal career is landlord, because he can lie down and collect money, it is really too realistic.

also wrote a song "So I didn't wash my hair", I don't even wash my head when I'm lazy. There are netizens like this on

Comment on him:

Mao is not easy, he is lazy, mourning and stupid, and a little fat, and his values ​​are a bit tacky.



is not good at words, and Mao is not good at socializing, and he is not good at establishing people. No matter from the lyrics or the image, he It is to show the most real side.

has no advantage in his appearance, and his body management is out of control, but he never pretends to make himself delicate, handsome and perfect...

music producer Wei Wei commented on him: "True, frank, not Pack. "

doesn't pretend or set up a character, and shows the most real side to the audience. A real person, even if he has many shortcomings, can give people a sense of intimacy.

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Mao Buyi does not have his own life plan. I don't have much ambition. According to the arrangement of my parents, I want to find a stable job, find a wife, and have a child.

He is a person who is willing to accept the arrangement of fate, he said: "I have never been very fond of fighting against fate. what. "

also asked him: "If you can't write good works, will you compete with yourself like Piao Shu ?"

He said: "No, I won't make it very painful to create. If I can't create good works, I won't release songs."

said about being a star, "I think it's okay to be a star, but if you can't be, it's fine. Singing as a hobby has made me happy." "

was eliminated in " Singer. When the Year of Fighting ", the fans were crying, but he had a shy smile on his face, and he didn't care much about the result. If

had the day when Jiang Lang's talents were exhausted, Mao Buyi didn't want to continue in The development of the entertainment industry.

Mao Buyi said: "If I can no longer write songs that move everyone, I want to sell barbecues or collect rent, I just hope everyone remembers that there is a singer named Mao Buyi. "

accepts fate on the surface, but he is a bit lazy and looks negative, but he has an optimistic attitude in his heart. When

participated in " Adventure Life ", Aya sighed in the car, a trip about to turn 40She is quite inspiring. Mao Buyi next to

said with a smile: "Forty is still very young, so I don't think about it so much. Forty is the new twenty."

Competing people are often more painful, and accepting arrangements is also a good thing Its natural and casual. Whether he is famous or not, he does not insist, even if he sells barbecue, happiness is the most important.



Mao Buyi, who became famous and exploded, is really too ordinary. He is introverted, socially inept, and sometimes lazy. He was pessimistic and confused.

Mao is not easy to be introverted and looks out of tune with the entertainment industry, but introverts also have advantages that people who are good at socializing do not have.

Introverts spend more time alone, think more independently, and think more deeply. Introverted people are more sensitive and rich in emotions. Many poets in ancient times were very poetic in loneliness.

Mao Buyi was used to seeing life and death when he was a nurse. He also had rich emotions in loneliness. He used music to record the sadness of being alone. Such music is talent, and then amazed the music world.