recently indulged in the TV series "Agarwood is like crumbs".
Every drama will have CP fans, and Chenxiang is no exception. And because of the sequelae of the drama, it seems that many people directly became fans of real CP. All kinds of express hints that the actor himself is very correct, and all kinds of propaganda are commented on.
really likes the CPs in this pair of dramas, so even people like me who don't care much about the actors themselves can't help but follow the crowd and want to chase a wave of real CPs. After
calmed down, I found that this kind of wishful thinking is also common in reality, and most of the time it is disgusting.
My first encounter with this kind of thing was in junior high school. Once, I went to a good friend's house with a few little sisters to stay for two days on the weekend, and I met the boy next door to her house. After returning to school, for some reason, rumors spread that the other party likes me.
For me, getting to know each other was an ordinary acquaintance, and it was not only me, but a few sisters who were introduced together. Other than that, there is no other intersection. After the rumors spread, although they were not disgusted and angry, they were inexplicable and confused. After all, at that time, I had already begun to reveal the true nature of a straight woman of steel.
What's interesting is that this kind of matchmaking event that left me scratching my head and couldn't trace its roots back to high school. The object of the scandal at that time was my rare friend of the opposite sex. Because our names collided with the homonym of the protagonist of a hit drama at that time, we were also directly used the CP name of the TV series. After
and work, the experience of being forced to introduce the object frequently, I believe more people have experienced it. When
is rare, we knock on other people's CP or get knocked on by others, mostly because of matching academic performance, or matching appearance, and cross-matching between the two.
When we became adults, we were matched by others, mostly because of our educational experience, status, and career achievements.
In the eyes of others, it is not important whether they have feelings or not, but more importantly, as outsiders, they think the parties are worthy or not.
And this "match" not only meets the real needs of the parties, but also meets the psychological expectations of everyone.
So, we have the doubts of our childhood friends, "You are all top students, you can't finish talking about the topic of study, you actually said that you have nothing to say to him, I don't believe it." "A beautiful, A handsome, it's a couple made in heaven." "Tsk tsk, you are a recognized couple in the whole grade. If you don't get together, I'm sorry for us CP fans who secretly support you"...
also had the advice of the elders later, "People need education. If you have an education, you want a job, and you have a job, what else are you dissatisfied with?" "You have similar studies, work, and even life experiences. Isn't this a good fit? Listen to me and look everywhere first." "I didn't talk about it earlier. Is it alright, why is it inappropriate again, I think he is the most suitable for you." ... When
was studying, maybe it was because of who he was competing with, and the fierce confrontation sparked sparks in the eyes of others. Or maybe I participated in an event or a show, and the tacit cooperation has settled tacitly in the eyes of others.
When they go on a blind date, maybe just because of polite politeness, they become full of joy in the eyes of others.
For actors, filming a drama is like a business trip, which is a work behavior. Having a good relationship with colleagues and completing work tasks should be the daily routine of every office worker. It is true that characters will give them special buffs, but this does not seem to be a reason for others to arbitrarily control their personal feelings. It's like in a dance party, it's obviously a random pair of dance partners, but because of their outstanding dancing and attention, they are coaxed together on the spot, that kind of embarrassment and speechlessness. After all, life is not a TV show.
"I'm all for your own good", a sentence"I think", can obliterate the wishes of the parties, it should not be. And when most people, such as a single dog like me, don't even have a clue about their own feelings, why are they confident that they have real feelings based on the cooperation relationship of actors? Fan's CP, if a real person can have a lover and finally get married, then he will bless it (it seems that there are more people who tear down the real person's CP than the blessing), otherwise it will affect the artist's later cooperation with others.
Although human nature is double standard, I hope we can be more rational. When you don't want to be swayed by others, don't sway others.
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