We don't talk about native family education here, the core is an inspirational topic for young people. People accumulate blessings, or they accumulate resentments, do you rely on your parents and elders or yourself? How can parents and elders help their children accumulate blessings?
A large number of media believe that the original family education determines the environment in which children grow up. Therefore, after adults, too many defects and too many regrets are ultimately attributed to the family.
But under the premise of "adult", if you are still obsessed with the "scar" left by the original family and don't let go, it will make people look down.
Today, let's take a look at what happened to the two children of this famous international movie star, and hope that the brothers can understand the truth.
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famous international movie star Jackie Chan and Miss Asia beauty pageant champion and famous actress Wu Qili have an illegitimate daughter - Wu Zhuolin , who studied in an international school in Shanghai when she was young, and then immigrated to Canada.
According to media reports, despite being keen on public welfare and film and television careers, Jackie Chan, a warm, cheerful and kind-hearted eldest brother in people's eyes, ignores one of his daughters, Wu Zhuolin, and treats him like others.
and Wu Zhuolin's biological mother Wu Qili, eventually declined. When the child is very young, the violence adds up, often either beating or punishing to stand. The relationship between mother and daughter was tense and tit-for-tat, and even as a daughter, she even reported to the police that her mother had been drinking, drug abuse and abuse all year round.
For this reason, the daughter once committed suicide. In such an environment, my daughter grew up slowly. More than 20 years after
was born, the media recently photographed that Jackie Chan's daughter was so embarrassed that she lined up in Canada to receive free relief food. In 2018, he was photographed homeless, and even moved out of his star father Jackie Chan to talk about things in order to be taken in by the owner.
Compared with her father's popularity in the international film industry, and his enthusiasm for public welfare, this daughter's ending is sad.
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Jackie Chan and the famous actor Lin Fengjiao are the original couple and gave birth to a son - Fang Zuming .
Lin Fengjiao stayed in the United States since she married Jackie Chan. After giving birth to Jaycee Chan, she took care of her children at home. Jackie Chan was filming in Hong Kong to develop her career. Because her father rarely came home, Lin Fengjiao often cried with her son behind her back.
Relying on his father's reputation and his own talents, Fang Zuming became a famous actor and singer in the Chinese film and television circle.
He was very popular in the entertainment industry, he participated in " Mulan ", and was nominated for the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actor. His popularity in the film and entertainment industry is very high, and his influence Power is also great.
However, in August 2014, Jaycee Chan and Ke Zhendong were arrested in Beijing on suspicion of drug use. Because he surrendered himself, he was given a lighter punishment and was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of 6 months and a fine of 2,000 yuan.
Jackie Chan was very shocked when he heard the news, so he called and told the attorney directly: "You slap him twice for me first." When Jaycee Chan was released from prison, Jackie Chan stood at the door of his house and looked at him. Later, Jackie Chan said: "It would be better if my son was in jail a little longer."
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For Jackie Chan, a much-anticipated international star, his sons and daughters have all gone wrong in their life.
Most people will boil down to, "the law of good news". In other words, according to the laws of the universe, everyone’s blessings are quantified. The number of blessings you have cultivated in several lifetimes is as much as you have in this life. Whether it is overdrawn or not has nothing to do with the family you live in.
then parents really didn'tfor? Are parents and elders really doing nothing to accumulate blessings?
After becoming an adult, parents cannot replace the child's life direction. As for their blessings, of course no one else can interfere except themselves.
However, at a very young age, parents can actually create an environment that provides a foundation for their children to grow their blessings, and may even help children realize the importance of cultivating blessings and accumulating virtue, so as to increase their initiative.
On the contrary, indifference, lack of education, using money instead of body and words, children naturally have no environment to accumulate blessings.
After becoming an adult, life will be deviated and the blessing will be overdrawn, and various unacceptable endings will naturally occur.
At this moment, I can't regret it, and I don't even have the chance to make a blessing.
For parents, if something goes wrong with their child, they will naturally become the creditor, which is endless entanglement and worry.
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During the period of the Ming Dynasty, Yuan Liaofan, who had been ruled by fate for 20 years, was really disheartened, so he visited Yungu Zen master , and obtained the "method of changing his life", which is like a treasure. From then on, he was promoted, had sons, got heirs, and later added officials and titles.
What's even more amazing is that he did not extend his life to the end of his life as fortune teller said.
At this time, he did not ignore the younger generation of the family and indulged in his own career. On the contrary, he took this as a lesson and left a huge spiritual wealth to the family. A model for educating children for future generations.
This ancient family motto is the method of accumulating blessings that he left behind for future generations.
Correspondingly, Zeng Guofan praised "Liaofan Four Instructions", after reading it, he established the title "Disheng", and achieved "Three Immortals for Meritorious Service, Virtue and Words, as a teacher, as a master and a perfect person". Since then, Zeng's family tradition has not declined.
This is the power of family culture. Perhaps, every parent of us is very busy, busy making money for the family, busy with public welfare affairs, but don't forget, including your own family, they are all cells of society. Handling your own family affairs well is also contributing to the larger society, which is the greatest public welfare.
Many Buddhist disciples often make a mess of their families, but outside, they are plausible, releasing animals, chanting, almsgiving, and doing good deeds everywhere. It's incredible...
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