"I'd rather sit on a BMW and cry than sit on a bicycle and laugh."
Many people may not know that this Internet catchphrase came from a female guest on a dating show 12 years ago.
The female guest's name is Mano.
Because this sentence is too extreme and realistic, she has become synonymous with "gold worshippers" overnight, and has been criticized and abused by countless netizens.
Time flies, 12 years have passed in the blink of an eye, Mano has changed from a 22-year-old young girl to a 34-year-old young woman.
Has she realized her "BMW" dream?
Before writing this article, a question to think about.
Is Manuo really a money-loving girl?
It all started from her childhood.
In 1988, Mano was born in a small hutong in Beijing. Although
was born in Beijing, Manuo is not a native of Beijing.
Her parents are from Anhui. Like many couples from Beidri, they came to Beijing from their hometown of Anhui to work and run a small fruit stand. The family of
relies entirely on this fruit stall to eat. Although their life is not rich, it is more than enough for food and clothing.
In order to make more money, his parents have no time to take care of Mano.
Because of lack of discipline, Manuo fell in love with puppyhood in the third grade.
The first love boyfriend is a single-parent family, and the family doesn't have much income. Usually, the two of them go out to play, and she pays the bill.
Unexpectedly, this relationship has only been in 3 months.
's first love boyfriend was having an affair with other girls behind her back. Mano got angry and proposed to break up. After
broke up, she studied hard and was admitted to high school.
Manuo is outgoing and extremely precocious, so there are countless boys chasing her.
In her second year of high school, she fell in love with an IT man who was 6 years older than her.
IT Boyfriend is old and he knows how to make little girls happy. After being with him, Mano is happy every day.
However, what she didn't expect was that this IT boyfriend was a miser. On
's 17th birthday, friends sent gifts one after another. Only IT boyfriend didn't buy anything, and he said affectionately:
"No gift is worth a sincere love for you."
Tolerable, the most unbearable thing for Mano is that this IT boyfriend is also having an affair with other girls behind her back.
Mano made another breakup.
Since then, she has made up her mind to stop spending money on men.
"Since men are the same if they have money or not, it's better to find someone with money."
looked at the appalling transcript, Manuo suddenly thought that his music was not bad, and decided to take the art test.
Finally, she was admitted to Beijing Contemporary Music Academy as an art student.
The private art school tuition is extremely expensive, 20,000 yuan a year.
's parents have very limited conditions, and Mano can only support himself by part-time work.
In 2009, the 21-year-old graduated from Manor University.
With her superior innate conditions, she became a plane model .
The model's job is far from home and it's very precarious.
Mano moved out of a suburban hutong to live at a cousin's house close to where he worked.
But my cousin also has her own life. After a long time, she can't accept an "outsider" coming in and out of her home.
In the late autumn of that year, her cousin kicked her out for inconvenience.
Unhappy at work and unsatisfactory life, which makes Mano more eager for money.
Coincidentally, at this time, the " If You Are the One " program group was selecting female guests in the national audition.
Under the recommendation of his friends, Manuo passed the audition all the way and officially entered the audience's sight.
model background, coupled with sharp words, Manuo quickly became a major attraction of the show.
"I hope the director can play "Freedom" and let him go."
"I knew you were coming, and I asked my mother to come for me."
"You haven't talked about as much as I have!" On
, Manuo's golden sentences appeared frequently. With such a true temperament, he was also sought after by many male guests.
And what really brought Manor to the fore was the next thing.
A literary male guest with a monthly income of 3,000 yuan likes Manuo very much, but he only has a small bicycle.
The literary male guest asked with a smile, "Would you like to go for a ride on my bicycle?" Sitting on the bike and laughing."
No one thought that this sentence completely changed her destiny. The ratings of
"If You Are the One" skyrocketed because of this sentence. That year, people all over the country remembered this "gold worship girl".
had a male guest who traveled all the way to the show, threatening to act for the sky and attacking Manuo publicly:
"You should go to a beauty pageant, because the people sitting below are either rich or rich."
"Don't say you are in a BMW. Tears, even if you're sitting in a Porsche with a runny nose, it's okay."
Manor on the field was embarrassed and couldn't say anything.
left a sentence at the end: "I'm not what everyone thinks", and left halfway.
However, things didn't end there, they just got worse.
In May of the same year, a post claiming that "mano large-scale photos leaked" went viral on the Internet.
Manuo was very angry after seeing it, and he took the communicator of the pornographic photo to court on the grounds of infringement of his reputation. The results of the
survey came out soon. The deity of the pornographic photo is an AV actress from an island country, her real name is Aya Koizumi. The defendant
used PS technology to graft some photos published by Mano.
Finally, the defendant apologized online and compensated ManoThe mental damage fee is 5,000 yuan.
One wave of unresolved, one wave after another.
In October of the same year, a piece of news about "The Meanest Woman in History" came out.
This is an article published by a car selling website in order to make a gimmick. After
Manuo found out, he sued the car-selling website again.
Unfortunately, this time the reputation infringement was rejected by the court.
The court judged that the defendant had only infringed on Mano's portrait rights, and finally compensated him for economic losses of 3,000 yuan.
netizens happily said: is an objective evaluation of a gold-worshiping woman, and there is no reputational infringement.
No girl is willing to live a lifetime under the label of "gold worshipper", and the same is true for Mano.
At that time, she said to the public, "I regret saying that."
So, does she really regret it?
As the saying goes, black and red are also red.
Manuo officially entered the entertainment circle with the label of "gold worshipper".
In 2012, she collaborated with Shawn Yue, Yang Mi , Xu Zheng " Chunjiao and Zhiming ", in the movie she played a freckled woman. The producers of
even used her as a gimmick for publicity, but before the movie was released, all her scenes were cut out.
is said to be because the label of a gold worshipper is too influential, and the filmmakers dare not take any risk.
Manuo was very unwilling, and decided to give up the cameo role in the big production and go to the leading role in a low-budget movie or TV series.
It's a pity that the roles she received afterward were without exception, the images of women worshipping gold.
For example, in " Belly Dad's Childbirth ", she plays a vain fake foreign girl;
For example, in " Goblin Don't Go Season 2 ", she plays a blind date who cares about material things...
Of course, these When the film and television drama was promoted in the early stage, it was still under the name of "the woman who worships gold".
Despite this, these small-budget film and television dramas did not stir up much water, and they fluttered quietly.
Netizens never watch Mano's movies, but the online violence against her never stops.
In 2019, Manuo, who was overwhelmed by the Internet violence, revealed the truth of participating in the dating show on social platforms.
To put it simply, she just regarded this dating show as a job, and it all had a script.
However, few netizens paid attention to these words, and Manuo's image did not change because of it.
To this day, the public's impression of her is still "a mean woman who worships money".
Manuo has long since left the entertainment industry.
She and a friend opened a clothing store in partnership, but under the impact of the epidemic, the physical business is not so easy to do.
In her spare time, she started the road to becoming an internet celebrity on the short video platform, showing off her body in various ways.
However, in the Internet full of little brothers and sisters, it is difficult for the 34-year-old Manuo to make waves.
Mano is contradictory.
On the one hand, she wants to tear off the label of "gold worshipper", and on the other hand, she uses this label to attract the public's attention.
But what she doesn't know is that there is no free lunch in the world, and no one can easily get what they want.
Whether Manuo worships money or not, everyone has their own judgment criteria.
At any time, people should not easily bow to life.
Because people are divided into groups, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will be with.
Rely on people and also have capital, the king can never be the backer of beggars.
No matter BMW or bicycle, only by getting on your own car can you not cry and have the confidence to fight against life.
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