TV series "The Big Exam" has come to an end, but there is one question that deserves deep thought.
Wu Jiajun's father was lying on the hospital bed, and he told his daughter-in-law Hua that he wanted to have a second child like Zhou Meiren, but Hua's expression suddenly became serious, and he spit out a word "go away" at Wu Jiajun's father !
After watching the whole drama, I really want to know why Wu Jiajun's parents and Zhou Bowen's parents have such different views on the second child?
Zhou Bowen's father, Zhou Meiren and Zhao Shan, decided to keep the unintentionally pregnant child, and Wu Jiajun's father just mentioned it and was pushed back by his mother. In fact, the reason behind is not the word "poor" That's it!
The situation of these two families is the same as that of our real family. Wu Jiajun and Zhou Bowen are both only-child families, a typical family of three. Both children are college students of the same age. Such absolute differences.
Let's take a look at the differences between these two families first. After reading it, you will know how correct Brother Hua's decision not to have a second child is!
First of all, let's analyze, although the two families are a happy family of three, there are many differences hidden here.
first, the family environment is different.
Wu Jiajun's family conditions are very good. His parents have good jobs. His father is a traffic policeman and his mother is a lobby manager. Look at Zhou Bowen's parents again, Zhou Meiren is an internet addict husband, lazy and not motivated, he has broken through the bottom line of a man again and again! I can only rely on my wife to work hard to run a small restaurant for the family to eat.
Second, the children's grades are different.
Wu Jiajun wanted to be admitted to an art school. When the college entrance examination was the busiest, he still wanted to participate in the competition by painting! Do things with your mother. Zhou Bowen is a recognized scholar, and he has never let his parents worry about his studies.
Third, the relationship between parents and children is not the same.
Wu Jiajun's parents are a combination of tiger mother and cat father. The mother's management of Wu Jiajun is very strict, and she has a strong desire to control at home. Therefore, Wu Jiajun and his parents belong to the relationship between chickens and dogs.
Zhou Bowen is a child who reassures his parents. In fact, it's no wonder that Zhou Bowen doesn't let his parents worry, because his father has been lying at home for many years and doesn't care about the family, so he can only be obedient and obedient, and doesn't want to cause trouble to his mother. .
Therefore, Zhou Bowen's family relationship is relatively worry-free.
Fourth, Zhou Bowen and Wu Jiajun's parents have different ideas.
Zhou Bowen's mother felt that her son was admitted to college and the family was empty, so she wanted to keep the second child. Although Zhou Meiren was afraid that it would be difficult to raise, he was still very good at "practicing the trumpet", so the husband and wife were two I did not give up my second child because of the general family conditions.
Wu Jiajun's father just mentioned it to his mother orally, but he was not really pregnant. What's more, for Wu Jiajun's mother, she knows how worried her son is, and she has serious Hypertension is indeed not suitable for elderly women.
Fifth, the personalities of the members of the two families are different.
Wu Jiajun is a sulky child who gets into trouble with his mother and chooses to run away from home naively, which shows that although he is a high school student, his mind is not too mature.
Wu Jiajun's father is a peacemaker, and as a traffic policeman, he has work arrangements every day and has no time to take care of his family.
Mom is grumpy and strong, her heart is on her sonShe has put all her sustenance and hopes on Wu Jiajun, so she forced her son to take the 985 test and have a good job and future.
Zhou Bowen has been sensible and stable since he was a child. His mother has a gentle and virtuous personality and controls the basic necessities of life for the family.
's father is an honest man. He used to play games, but then he started to work hard to make money to support his family. They educated their sons to be so worry-free and excellent, so they think the second child should not be bad. If it's a girl, just make up the word "good".
The above five points are the differences between the two families, which will affect a family's decision on whether to have a second child.
In fact, there is another point. Brother Hua is getting older, and he doesn't want to "practice the trumpet" again when he is over forty years old. He has no energy to do this anymore.
Besides, she has worked hard for her family for most of her life, and there is no need to relax a little and return to the pre-liberation period. Therefore, Brother Hua has made the right decision for her own state . The matter of
having a second child is not a trivial matter, it is a major matter of increasing the population of a family.
Friends who support children will know that raising a child is a laborious and expensive thing. If the family's economic conditions are not good, you will never dare to try it.
Unless the family concept is still very feudal, no matter if the family has money or no money and must have a son, it will not take risks and make life more difficult and devastated.
According to national policy, the third child has been approved, so is it really difficult to have a second child?
I also have parents who gave birth to a second child, but her family situation is a bit complicated. She is from a rural area, she is 48 years old, and is in a second marriage. She took a daughter and married her current husband, but she married Her husband is the first marriage, and she is eight years younger than her.
That year, when her daughter was already in middle school, she felt that marrying her husband should give him a child, no matter if she had a boy or a girl, she should give her husband an explanation, so she took a risk and became an older maternity. The husband gave birth to a son.
is now almost 50 years old, and he has to hold a little boy by his side every day. Others think they are coaxing children for their children!
From her body, I think it's easy to have a second child if you want to, but sometimes you need to consider many aspects.
After all, giving birth to a child means being responsible for the child to the end, fulfilling the obligation of a parent and raising a child, requires adults to have plenty of energy, time to take care of the child, and to educate the child well.
Some people think that although the only child is a little lonely, but the treatment is good, the parents will give all their love to a child, no need to fight or make trouble .
With good living conditions, children can live a better life, have better conditions to live a comfortable life, and save money to see the outside world and gain knowledge.
Some people also think that a child is too lonely in the end. If the second or third child is born, not only the family is lively, but also allows the child to have a companion. Parents cannot accompany the child for a lifetime, so the child can have one or two parents. Brothers and sisters are also good, at least you don't have to worry about leaving your child alone in the world.
There are also some people who say some truth, think that having a child, everything will be fine when there is nothing, but if the parents are sick and hospitalized, how can a person be so busy!
So there are different opinions on whether to have a second child or a third child.
In fact, in the final analysis, you still have to consider the problem from your own perspective. Starting from the real situation of the family, as long as you have the strength, it is not a problem to have a second child or a third child!
what do you thinkWith the current situation, what is the biggest factor hindering the birth of a second child and a third child? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area, remember to follow me, don't forget to like and comment!
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