TV series "Zhang Weiguo's Summer", the male protagonists are Huang Lei and Liu Yijun .
Huang Lei's Zhang Weiguo learned to sing in a theater school since he was a child. When he grew up, he went to work in a troupe. He broke his waist during a performance one year and was unable to perform on stage since then, so he did some chores in the logistics.
's errand income is enough to maintain a normal life. Fortunately, he is content and happy, and he doesn't pay attention to appearance. Among the
brothers and sisters, some people arranged a small-scale party in a high-end hotel. They have not seen each other for a long time. Except for Zhang Weiguo, these people have changed careers, and their development is not bad.
Zhang Weiguo rode his bicycle to the party, but was stopped by the security guard. The security guard picked up people with a "car". He felt that Zhang Weiguo didn't look like he was here for dinner, so he didn't let him put his bicycle on for a long time, but fortunately he was driving a limousine The elder brother came and relieved him.
Zhang Weiguo entered the room, a few people had already arrived, their attitudes were all indifferent, and they even ridiculed him for repairing props.
looked down on him a little. The
brothers and sisters sat and chatted, saying that they were waiting for a mysterious guest.
was talking, the "mysterious guest" arrived, and several people went up to greet him enthusiastically, which was completely different from the attitude towards Zhang Weiguo just now.
This person is their senior brother, Lin Hongnian played by Liu Yijun.
At the age of 20, he left Beijing and went to Nanjing, where he became a well-known TV presenter. Although he also encountered bottlenecks in middle age, his popularity was quite high before.
At the wine table, Lin Hongnian took out a group photo with the star for everyone to see. Several people even treated the senior brother like a guest, surrounded him and asked questions, and they all rushed to add WeChat with him.
During a meal, everyone was lively and lively, only Zhang Weiguo was left out in the corner of the table, as if there was no such person.
After eating, the waiter came up to ask who would pay the bill. Several people pretended to be rushing to pay the bill, but no one actually bought it.
The honest and honest Zhang Weiguo followed the waiter to checkout at the silver desk. His fellow apprentices staggered out and left without saying anything when they saw him at the checkout. Later, Lin Hongnian came out to pay.
This same-door friendship is not as good as plastic, it is really boring.
I have read a lot of articles about class reunions, almost all of them are like this, and there are basically three types of people:
One is a good mix, all kinds of bragging, talking loudly, for fear that others will not know what he has;
One is to get along well, eat quietly, try to speak as quietly as possible, and don't want to attract everyone's attention;
There is another type of people who use this opportunity to win over people, they like to hang around The people around me kept complimenting me, thinking that one day I would be able to use this relationship.
Many class reunions have almost become platforms for comparing and showing off, with few true feelings in it.
saw a story online.
It has been 20 years since the classmates graduated from the same class. The eldest male classmate among them misses the time of school and sent out an invitation in the group to organize a class reunion. As a result, everyone was either silent or busy. In the end, there were only six. Seven boys signed up to participate. On the day
arrived, this classmate was in a traffic jam on the road for a while, and he was the last to arrive. He thought it was his own age.The brothers must still leave the main seat to him as they did when they were in school, let him take the seat, and call him "big brother".
Who knew when he arrived, he found that it was not the case at all. One of the richest classmates in their class was sitting right there, leaving him the lowest seat.
The few people chatted very well. When they saw him coming in, they just said hello and continued to talk and laugh. Everyone who came here was doing well. They wanted to take this opportunity to see if there were any new resources to use. .
everyone arrived and started serving food. Although there were not many people, the atmosphere was very good and the drinks were very enjoyable.
After eating, a few people continued to chat with each other, only the eldest classmate could not talk. After waiting for a long time, no one wanted to pay, so he went to the bank to settle the bill and left silently.
That's why I don't like going to class reunions.
The adult world has its own rules. Maybe you want to continue the story in your youth, but if you want to buy sweet-scented osmanthus with wine, it's not like a youth tour.
My colleague Xiao Li often goes to party with a few high school classmates. He said that these eight people lived in one room when they were in school.
Last month, Xiao Li went to the class reunion again. After he came, he told me that one of their classmates had an embolism at such a young age and could not speak. He could only type on WeChat to tell everyone about his situation.
seven people laughing and laughing, teasing him in the group, saying that he can't drink with them in the future, it's a pity.
I ask, didn't you go to the hospital to see your classmates?
Xiao Li said, if you have time these days, I will find time to see him, and he will be discharged soon.
For many days, he didn't listen to him about going to the hospital, or I went to the doctor with a toothache, and he remembered his classmate's embolism, and said he went to see after get off work. But I haven't heard him mention it, and I guess I forgot.
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remembered something my best friend Xiaomin told me.
Her friend is the boss of a group company. She is in her 40s. She is supposed to be in her prime. Who would have thought that she had suffered a cerebral hemorrhage during a meeting. When she was sent to the hospital, her vital signs were already very weak. Heaven, still powerless, left without a word. On the day of
's funeral, there were a lot of people who went to see their friends for the last ride, and there were many of his classmates. Those classmates were busy greeting each other, making dinner appointments, talking and laughing, and few of them showed sadness. Think of the sentence: relatives or Yu Bei, others have also sung.
Yeah, human joys and sorrows are not the same. Moments like
, for close relatives, it is a pain that cannot be healed in a lifetime; for outsiders, you are a topic for a few days at most, and will soon be forgotten. There is a sentence in
" in the world of ": The farther
goes, the more knowledge. The more people you know, the more you can realize that there are only a few people in your life that you really care about and who care about you at the same time. These people are your whole world.
Yes, in our life, we always meet and separate. Everyone has their own goals and they are on their way non-stop.
Maybe, there will be lifelong confidants, but more people are just acquaintances with white hair as new.
The years are long, the mountains are long and the waters are broad, the heaven and the earth are high and far; the sea of life is full of joys and sorrows, and each is well.
is also good.
Author: Su Xin, columnist. Galloping the workplace, but also love writing. About the workplace, about life, about marriage and love, about women, I write my heart. WeChat account: Su Xin (ID: suxin98498). Author of "In a Hard World, Cultivating a Gentle Heart" and "Time is on the Left, Destiny is on the Right".
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