If I had to describe Ai Changan in one word, the first thing I would think of would be the words "Jagged Tenderness".
Ai Changan once was unable to drive due to psychological barriers and had to choose to leave Huaqi. However, just as he was about to leave, an accident happened. Huaqi's car broke down and broke down on the rails, and a train would arrive in a few minutes.
At such a critical moment, Xu Chi and others tried their best to make the car move. Ai Changan quickly found the problem of the car with his past experience. But he trembled and dared not start a fire. Until he heard Shen Xia calling his name...
Since then, Ai Changan's psychological barrier has been overcome, and he decided to stay in Huaqi, because this is the place he loves and there are people he likes here.
A man, whether he is a strong man or a warm man with tenderness, will be called a good man. And only a man who has both blood and tenderness can make people awe-inspiring, which is a rare personality charm.
Ai Changan is such a man. The three shining points in him are destined to be a successful man.
01 has great love.
Ai Changan loves Huaqi very much. After he overcame the psychological obstacle, his mother did not agree with him to stay in Huaqi, because the situation of Huaqi was not good at that time, and mothers naturally hope that their sons will have better development. But Ai Changan did not leave in the end, why?
On the one hand, it is indeed because of Shen Xia. He and Shen Xia's childhood sweethearts were in love with each other, and the two had already identified each other in their hearts. When he heard Shen Xia's promise to his brother Shen Chun to contribute youth and blood to Huaqi, he made up his mind to be with her. stay here.
On the other hand, he grew up in Huaqi since he was a child, and regard Huaqi as his home. He is very eager to use his own strength to make this home better and stronger. At the same time, the experience on the battlefield has also made him more eager to build a better car, which is the inner driving force of his decision to stay.
Here, Ai Changan's love can be seen as three parts, the love for Shen Xia, the love for Huaqi, and the love for the country and comrades-in-arms. There is little love and little love in my heart, but not only little love and little love, this is a very dazzling shining point of Ai Changan.
and during the test drive in the desert, Shen Xia got motion sickness, Xu Chi wanted the vehicle to stop, but if it stopped, all the previous efforts during the test drive would be in vain. Ai Changan rejected Xu Chi's proposal. He asked the test drive to continue, but he had already made adequate preparations for Shen Xia.
This is a very subtle detail. By comparing with Xu Chi, we can see the difference between Ai Changan. Xu Chi is also a very good man, and his feelings for Shen Xia are deep and sincere, but at this moment, Xu Chi only thinks about Shen Xia, while Ai Changan considers everything.
It is not difficult for a person to have only a small love, and it is not difficult to have only a big love. What is difficult is to balance the two, not to give up the big love because of the small love, and not to hurt the small love because of the big love. Ai Changan, did it.
02 is responsible.
Huaqi was once in a dilemma on the verge of closing the factory. In order to save Huaqi, Ai Changan went to Shen Xia's father. Mr. Shen is also a person who loves the factory like home. He would rather make mistakes himself than sign the approval for Ai Changan. Unexpectedly, this incident caused a misunderstanding to Ge Taiping, which eventually led to the death of Shen Xia's father.
After the death of Shen's father, Ai Changan took all the responsibilities on himself. He confessed to the Shen family that he killed Mr. Shen, which was the most direct reason that he did not see Shen Xia again for the next five years reason.
In the past five years, he actually knew that the person who exposed was Ge Taiping, but his reaction was only to fight with Ge Taiping without explaining it to anyone, and he also deliberately helped Ge Taiping. made a concealment.
The reason why Ai Changan did this was not for Ge Taiping, but he really felt that he had an inescapable responsibility for the affairs of General Manager Shen. will not happen. You see, his logic and thinking, is the logic and thinking of a very responsible man.
Many times, if ordinary people like us make a mistake, even if we dare to admit the mistake, we can't help comforting ourselves in our hearts, saying that our original intention was good.
Ke Ai Changan, his original intention was indeed good, and what happened to General Manager Shen was just an accident, but he dared to bear it, even if Shen Xia ignored him from now on, he never thought to excuse himself, this is his take responsibility. This kind of responsibility has also become the second very bright spot on his body.
03 has grace.
Both Ai Changan and Ge Taiping decided to run for the sales manager of Huaqi, but on the day of the election, Ge Taiping's mother suddenly fainted, and Ai Changan delayed the election time in order to send Ge's mother to the hospital.
Ge Taiping was hiding in the corner at the time. He didn't worry about his mother's safety for the first time, but thought that if Ai Changan missed the election, he would lose this strong competitor.
Seriously, when I saw this scene, I was very angry for Ge Taiping's villainy behavior, and I also felt that Ai Changan was not worth it. I think, if it were me, I would definitely never regard Ge Taiping as a brother again in this life.
Although Ai Changan did not miss this opportunity as Ge Taiping envisioned, he also failed to become a sales manager, but the two of them each led a sales team and continued to compete for three months. After three months, whoever has more orders will win.
Since the sales team leader can choose the team members by himself, Ge Taiping recruited all the people to his side, only He Xiaojun volunteered to help Ai Changan.
He Xiaojun expressed his dissatisfaction with Ge Taiping to Ai Changan, but Ai Changan said something to him:
Taiping did the right thing. According to the rules, Taiping should be the sales manager now, but now the factory has a The competition between the two groups, you think about it carefully, no matter how you look at it, it looks like you are favoring me, Ai Changan. Taiping didn't rush into my room and point my nose to scold me. It's already a lot of face.
You listen to this, how much tolerance and broad-mindedness do you have to have to have such a cognition and feeling? Obviously it was Ge Taiping who acted in the first place, but not only did he not blame him at all, on the contrary, he felt as if he owed him something. A man who can have this kind of tolerance will shine no matter where he is placed.
Conclusion:
A person's success or failure is never based on the moment, and it is never based on accidental luck. Because any unintentional action or choice you make is inseparable from your character, character and concept. What kind of character and character you have will determine which direction you will go.
A narrow-minded and self-serving person may achieve something in a short period of time, but he will eventually lose more; while a person with tolerance, great love, and broad-mindedness may experience some ups and downs, But as long as he doesn't give up, he can always reach the other side he wants to reach.
It is precisely because Ai Changan possesses such characteristics and conduct that he can become a man full of charisma and is destined to be a successful man.
About the author: meets Acacia, a woman who likes to read and write. She focuses on the creation of articles in the emotional direction of film and television and the analysis and answer of questions in the emotional field. I hope my words can accompany you warmly.
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