's recent hit TV series " Big Exam " on CCTV and Zhejiang Satellite TV has attracted a lot of traffic. The drama is based on the outbreak of Wuhan in late 2019 and the family stories of several senior high school students in Jinhe County.
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Zhou Bowen is a senior in Jinhe County No. 4 Middle School. His grades are among the best. He is very self-disciplined. Parents worry.
Zhou Bowen learns self-discipline
Mother Zhao Shan gets up early every day to run a small restaurant. She is not afraid of hardship and fatigue. She takes on all the responsibilities of the family by herself.
On the other hand, Zhou Bowen's father, Zhou Meiren, plays games or mahjong every day. The small restaurant at home never helps, he can't afford it in the morning, and he doesn't sleep at night. The TV series
first attracted me to Zhou Meiren's father's rogue mode. Why is his mother, Zhao Shan, the backbone of the family, who is hard-working and hard-working, but Zhou Meiren, a father, can enjoy his wife's efforts with peace of mind, completely ignoring his wife and son. The son has such excellent self-discipline and clear goals, which is in stark contrast to Zhou's father who has nothing to do.
Is Father Zhou always like this? Or did something major go wrong? The latest plot of
has finally revealed the mystery!
When Zhou's father was young, he was a famous mason in Shiliba Village. He was good at craftsmanship and did a good job. People in the village would look for him to build houses, and some people would look for him to learn art from his apprenticeship. But Zhou's father is not good at expressing and communicating. He is too sincere. He doesn't like other people's poor work. Zhao's mother hopes that Zhao Bowen can go to the elementary school in the county. The whole family moved to the city and built a small restaurant. Zhao's mother runs the small restaurant. Zhao's father works with the decoration team, but because of his personality, he changed a few The decoration team also cannot have a good relationship with the workers. In the end, they made a fuss about going back to their hometown, but the house and land in the family were dealt with by Zhou's mother, and they couldn't go back. Going to the small restaurant to help is also a disservice, and in the end, I simply couldn’t go. Father Zhou’s decadent life began here! Playing games and mahjong every day puts the burden of the family's life on Zhou's mother! In
, the most distressing thing about Zhou's mother is the mantra of Zhou's father from childhood to adulthood: lie down wherever you fall!
A woman not only has to take care of her children who are still in elementary school, but also her husband who will never grow up. A person gets up at 4 o'clock every day to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and when he comes back, he has to prepare to open a shop and greet customers, 365 days a year, all year round!
Why does Father Zhou never grow up? Can an introvert who is not good at expressing escape his responsibilities? In the
comment area, some netizens left a message that Father Zhou saved the Milky Way in his last life. Only in this life can he meet a son who is so tolerant of his wife, who is completely self-disciplined and has excellent grades and does not need to worry about it!
In the face of difficulties, it makes a big difference whether a person lies down and escapes, or faces them head-on! In the
play, Zhou Bowen listened to his mother's explanation of his father's decadent life, and said that he couldn't make a decoration team by himself if his personality was different. Can't solve the problem? Peace of mind to let a woman prop up a home, or a man? Zhou Bowen also persuaded his mother to divorce his father many times. After he was admitted to university, he would be able to work a few years later, and he took his mother away from his father... Everywhere in his words, he despised his father and felt that his father was a drag on them.
If Father Zhou encounters difficulties, andIf the coworkers have poor communication, they can actively solve the difficulties, or they can find a few people who are compatible with each other to form a decoration team. Isn’t the problem of personality incompatibility solved? But Zhou's father chose to go home and live a decadent life, and he didn't care about the operation of the small restaurant. No matter how tired his wife was, if he couldn't help, he simply didn't help. He went home and lay flat, and he didn't try to learn to change, so as to reduce his wife's burden. Such an attitude really makes Zhou Bowen, who is growing up and distressed that his mother wants to shelter her from the wind and rain, dislike it, so there is the sentence in the play: I don't accept it!
As a parent, you need to support your child, shelter from the wind and rain, and become a light in your child's eyes, instead of retreating when you encounter difficulties, and in the end, you lose even the most basic self-survival ability, and even the father's dignity in the eyes of the child. All disappeared!
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