Reid told Scarlett that you want two things in your life: one is Ashley, and the other is to have a lot of money.
01 Love Ashley
That's right, Scarlett of Girls' Generation fell in love with Ashley, even though she never got him, she still loves him as always, despite all the hardships she never changed her mind.
This kind of love has nothing to do with lust or marriage. This kind of love is ethereal, beautiful, and has nothing to do with reality. In a way, it's not love, it's just an illusion.
Perhaps because of this, when Ashley came to the front, instead of telling her the love she longed for, she was asked to take care of Melanie—his wife—her love rival she always hated and hated. Immediately it sank, but she still complied, and whatever Ashley asked her to do, she would do.
Scarlett told herself that she would sacrifice anything for Ashley.
In order to take care of Melanie who is about to give birth, Scarlett restrained her thoughts of her hometown relatives, gave up the chance to escape from danger, stayed in the war-torn Atlanta , and accompanies Melanie who she hates all day long.
During these difficult days, Scarlett overcame her inner fear as a little girl, but also controlled her inner disgust for her rival in love, and kept her mind in a cruel battle between reason and emotion every day.
This must be said to be a great spirit of sacrifice, not only the kindness of women, but also a deep emotional drive.
have to say that the power of love is great, it is the greatest passion of mankind.
Some people say that love is selfish, but sometimes, how great is love.
Therefore, Scarlett's love for Ashley can be described as a kind of fidelity, persistence, and great passion involving self-sacrifice.
Over the years, Scarlett has kept the beautiful phantom in her heart and can't extricate herself.
Sadly, when Melanie died, Scarlett discovered in an instant that not only did Ashley never love her, but she didn't actually love Ashley. What she loves is nothing but a phantom in the depths of her heart.
Because of this phantom, she wasted many years, turning a blind eye to Reid's care and affection for her.
At a certain stage of life, we often can't see ourselves clearly: we can't figure out what is the most important thing in life, what must be done, what is not important, which people don't care, what we love the most Who are people...
Scarlett too.
For a long time, she had always thought that she loved Ashley deeply, that she even lived by her love for Ashley in her heart, and that all her efforts and adventures were motivated by Ashley's love.
's so-called "one leaf can't see Mount Tai, and that's it."
That's it, Scarlett stayed in the phantom in her heart for a long time and couldn't extricate herself, but ignored the people she really cared about, even the people she really loved.
02 Ignore the people in front of you Butler
Scarlett: Sir, you are not a gentleman.
Reiter: You're not a lady either.
This is a comment between Scarlett and Ashley after they were overheard by Rhett when she confessed to Ashley. From this evaluation, the two are very similar and share the same values. Rhett can always stir up waves in her heart.
Before that, she had heard people talk about Rhett Butler's refusal to marry a stupid woman, and she had admired him. Although there was a bit of disagreement between the two when they met for the first time, there was a certain quality in this man that deeply moved Scarlett.
Scarlett got angry and married Charles, who she didn't love, because Ashley failed to court him. After marriage, Charles soon went to war and died of pneumonia. Scarlett became a widow overnight.
Widow's life is dull, boring and miserable: can't laugh out loud, can't wear nice clothes, can't participate in social events... can't even dance. At the
fundraiser in Atlanta, Rhett bought Scarlett the right to dance at a high price, and she danced as much as she wanted.
Since this day, Reiter has always been with youWith Scarlett. Scarlett gets excited every time she's with Rhett. Because with Rhett, she can do what she wants to do, say what she wants to say, Rhett doesn't look down on her just because she tells the truth, and to a certain extent, Rhett even encourages her to be her own. .
Soon, Atlanta fell into war. In order to take care of Melanie's production, Scarlett delayed the chance to get out of danger. At the last moment, Rhett found a carriage pulled by a thin horse for her. When Rhett confessed to her and kissed her, this was Rhett's first serious expression of affection for her.
However, after the confession, Reiter went to the battlefield. Although he saw through everything and knew that the Confederacy would lose, he still did the right thing like a warrior. Rhett went to fight at a time when the Confederate army needed reinforcements most.
Reiter goes to battle, and Scarlett returns to Tara Manor.
Tara Manor is deserted. Mom Ellen is dead and Dad Gerald is delirious.
Only then did Scarlett really understand what her father said to her: the land is the most important thing, and only it is worth fighting for.
At Tara Manor, Scarlett worked like a black slave, picking cotton, ploughing the fields... She did the farm work herself, and she had thick calluses on her hands.
But all the hard work still doesn't make $300 in taxes. If the tax is not paid in time, the Tara estate will be auctioned.
In desperation, she thought of Reiter and went to Atlanta to find a way.
She thought about marrying Rhett, even as his mistress, as long as he could give her $300.
Unexpectedly, Reiter went to jail.
Frustrated and disappointed, Scarlett turned around and married her sister's fiancé, the old businessman Frank, who received the tax to pay Tara Manor from Frank. After
married Frank, Scarlett discovered that Frank was not good at business, but could be a better businessman herself.
It happened that Rhett was out of prison at this time, so she borrowed money from Rhett to buy a sawmill and started her own business.
Scarlett did a great job, the sawmill soon became profitable.
One day, Scarlett was attacked by free blacks and Yankees when she was on the street by herself, and was almost insulted.
Frank, Ashley, and other southern noble men form the Ku Klux Klan to avenge her, but fortunately with Rhett's help, most of the men are rescued, only Frank and another man are killed and Ashley is injured.
Frank was dead at home, Scarlett blamed herself, and drank to decompress at home. At this time, Rhett came to the door.
Ritter proposes to Scarlett.
Scarlett initially refused. But in Reiter's violent kiss, she felt Reiter's powerful male strength and the awakening of lust, so she agreed dazedly.
That's it, a year after Frank's death, Scarlett remarried Rhett. It cannot be denied that Scarlett's married life is happy. First of all, Rhett brought her a huge and shiny engagement ring. The diamonds on the ring weighed four carats. After wearing it, Scarlett's fingers were bent. .
has endless delicacies on the table every day, as well as all kinds of fashionable clothes that can't be worn in eight sets a day, all of which make Scarlett satisfied.
She never has to go hungry again.
There is another point. Her daily conversation with Reiter is also very relaxed and comfortable. Although Reiter sometimes teases and ridicules her, she always speaks the truth. As long as she asks questions, she can always get real answers. Actionable advice.
Reiter gave her everything a woman wants, and all she wants is her heart.
However, she never gave it. Because Scarlett always thought she loved Ashley.
Later, Scarlett gave birth to a daughter, Mei Lan. Ruiter, like a treasure, spoiled Meilan as a little princess, and let Meilan ask for anything.
Scarlett is even a little jealous about this.
Reiter changed a lot of his habits for Meilan. In order to pave the way for his daughter, he turned into a loving father and became one with the poor aristocrats who he despised before, and even changed his political stance. to support the Democrats.
However, Meilan fell off her horse while jumping the hurdle and died. z4The death of z
's daughter drowned out all hope of Ritter's love and became the last straw that broke the camel's back.
Reiter's love for Scarlett dried up.
Then another thing happened in Scarlett's life: Melanie died.
Melanie has always been her sword, her shield, her comfort, her source of strength.
's brutal death finally made Scarlett realize that she had always loved Melanie, but she had never loved Ashley.
She thought she was in love with Ashley, but what she loved was not just an idol she made up, an idol without life.
However, Scarlett and Rhett's married life has entered a state of backwater.
After Scarlett realized her emotional misunderstanding, she was like a willful child and confessed to Reiter, but Reiter was exhausted at this time, exhausted her life's love, and decided to let go of his love .
At the moment of the final showdown between the two, Rhett said: Have you ever thought that I love you has reached the peak of a man loving a woman? Did you ever think that I loved you for years before I got you?
Scarlett is beautiful and invincible because of her youth. She has been surrounded by many boyfriends. The boys are vying to dedicate her love to her. However, she turns a blind eye. One bell.
Many times, people take what they already have for granted, and it is easy to turn a blind eye, but to those things that they have never got, they put on a beautiful fantasy!
Scarlett is also not exempt, which is true to the old saying: what you can't get is good, and what you can never get is the best.
03 Money girl
Wilde once said: When I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world. Now that I'm older, I know it's true.
Money does matter, it affects life too much. Like most of us, Scarlett has a modest desire, she wants lots and lots of money.
When she was a teenager, her family owned a large southern plantation. She was a lady, and lived a life of wearing clothes, reaching out for food, and opening her mouth. At this time, she didn't worry about money, because she had everything she wanted, and she worried about which clothes to wear to the dance every day.
The Civil War broke out, and overnight, Scarlett lost everything and had to work in the field to earn a bite to eat. However, she was not defeated.
In the evening, she touched the thick calluses on her hands and swore to God: God testifies, I will hold on, and I will never go hungry again, and I will never let my loved ones go hungry again. Even if I have to steal and kill, - God testifies, I won't starve any more.
After the war, a new era began, and while everyone around her was suffering from losing the sun, she was ready for a change. Abandoning the restraint of a noble girl, she bravely walked into real life, went to the field to pick cotton, looked for vegetables under the scorching sun, borrowed seeds,... In order to make a living and pay taxes, she robbed her sister's fiancé and bought a sawmill to run it herself , completely disregarding the traditional notions of high society.
There is only one thought in her mind: to survive and make money.
For this purpose, she threw away all the manners and gentleness of a lady, and quickly changed herself to adapt to this new world.
In the end, she did have a lot of money, and she no longer had to worry about life.
Scarlett told us: the goal is clear, pursue it firmly, every step is to achieve this goal. In the end, it is unknown whether we can find love, but money is sure to be available.
04 Written at the end
Scarlett wants two things most, one is a happy love and the other is a rich life. These are two different pursuits.
In a thick fog, she is a child lost at night, desolate, frightened, cold and hungry, scared to death of the danger lurking in the thick fog around her, she wanted to shout but couldn't. She seemed to understand at once that somewhere in the inexorable darkness around her there was aA shelter, where you can get shelter, help, and warmth. But where is it?
In the daytime, Scarlett is confident and brave, bossy, giving orders, and working tirelessly for survival and money. In her dreams, Scarlett is always lonely and afraid running in the thick fog, looking for a safe place, but always Nowhere to be found, every time she wakes up screaming from her dream.
It's a nightmare that Scarlett has so often, and in a way, it's even become a symbol.
What the hell does she want?
What she wants most is a sense of security in her soul, a destination for her soul. This is a kind of spiritual pursuit, which can be said to be the pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty. The pursuit of
points to Ashley because of the girl's infatuation and blind love in reality. Because of her blindness, she turned a blind eye to her husband Rhett, who has always been by her side to give her love and support. In the end, this pursuit turned into a permanent loss. This is Scarlett's tragedy.
Is Scarlett wrong? If
said she was wrong, it was also because she was too obsessed with her ignorant and illusory love. When she came to her senses, the true love she once had was exhausted, and Rhett turned her head and left.
Will Scarlett give up?
of course not.
Everyone who loves life as much as her believes that she will never fall down, her pursuit will never stop, even if Rhett really wants to leave and has already left, she will still wipe away her tears, He raised his head and told himself aloud:
I'll wait until I go back to Tara tomorrow to think about it. Tomorrow, I'll definitely be able to figure out a way to get him back. Tomorrow is another day.
This lovely swaying little woman, just as she used to rebuild her homeland destroyed by war, once again raised her unyielding head and stood up from the emotional ruins.
This is Scarlett who never gives up and never retreats!
No matter how hard the days are, she can make her life better!
She firmly believes that she can find her true love, so she continues to move forward confidently and optimistically.
Forever Scarlett, a wild rose that never fades!
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