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writer Tonghua said: "The happiest thing is to marry a good wife. The thing I want to do most is to be able to accompany her to grow old day by day." Appropriate.
You are no stranger to Guo Da's name. He looks so naive in the sketches. Almost every year, you can see his wonderful sketches on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
In the sketches, Guo Da played a good man who was honest and dutiful, a little cute and stupid. In real life, he was also like this. He and his wife Wu Fang have been together for decades. Guo Da once said that he was the most proud thing in his life, to marry her.
If a successful man can evaluate his wife like this, one can't help but wonder what kind of woman she is?
What charm does she have? Let's talk about their stories together today. Not everyone can do it as well as her.
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As we all know, Guo Da had a relationship with Ni Ping before he met Wu Fang.
The two of them met Yu Wei. They were both talented and beautiful. They cherished each other. They were each other's first love.
But first love is mostly bitter, and this relationship was killed when it failed to bloom in the end.
As for the reason for the breakup, it is said that Guo Da's mother felt that her family was in a special situation, so she objected that they broke up.
sounds like a mandarin duck, how special is Guo Da's family?
In June 1955, Guo Da was born in Xi'an, Shaanxi, and has an older sister. This should have been a happy family of four.
But the untimely death of his father left his mother alone to bear everything.
A woman needs to support a family and raise a pair of children by herself. Those who have not experienced it are unimaginable.
Guo Da and his siblings watched their mother work hard for the family since they were young, no matter how hard or tired they were.
At that time, what they thought most in their minds was to grow up quickly, make money quickly, and share the worries for their mothers.
But Mother Guo is a very strong woman, she gets angry every time she hears such words from her children.
She hates that iron cannot become steel. She worked so hard to earn money for them to go to school, but she didn't let them drop out of school early to work. She hoped that they would love, pursue something, and be successful.
Guo Da never met his father at birth. As he grew up, he was curious about what kind of person his father was.
Guo's mother told her son that his father is a person who loves art and likes to read. He has a very elegant temperament. He can listen to a favorite play without eating for three days, just to save money.
At that time, Guo Da did not understand that a person could not eat just to listen to the play, how could he have the strength to listen to the play without eating?
It was not until he later embarked on the path of art that he realized his father's love for drama. When
Guo Da's father died, he left behind a octagonal hat and a violin .
Maybe he inherited his father's artistic gene. He loved to play the violin since he was a child, and his mother wanted him to develop from this aspect.
But because of an accident while playing basketball, Guo Da's hand was injured and he missed the violin.
But Guo's mother is a mother who is good at discovering the bright spots of her children. During Guo Da's recovery, she found that her son likes to listen to cross talk, and he can talk along, and even create a second time, which is more interesting than talking on the radio.
Mother Guo seems to have discovered a new world, and she hopes her son will develop in this direction.
Guo Da originally listened to the radio to pass the boring time, but he didn't expect that he still has this talent, and found joy in it. He planned to be admitted to the drama troupe.
But the situation was unstable at the time. At the age of 15, Guo Da was assigned to repair the railway. Later, because he was too young, he was assigned to feed the pigs.
Guo Da was alreadyHe found his love, and he did not give up his studies during the days of dealing with pigs.
God will not disappoint everyone who strives to make progress, and Guo Da's efforts have also been rewarded.
In 1974, 19-year-old Guo Da was admitted to Shanghai Theater Academy , where he received three-year professional drama performance training. During
's school days, Guo Da continued to carry forward the spirit of hard work. He not only completed the homework assigned by the teacher on time and according to the amount, but also secretly increased the amount for himself.
He cherishes this opportunity very much. It is not only his love, but also the expectation of his parents, which may completely change his destiny.
Guo Da has lived up to himself. After graduation, he was admitted to the Shaanxi Provincial Theatre with excellent grades. This stay is ten years. During the ten years of
, Guo Da has rehearsed 30 plays, and has won numerous performance awards in Shaanxi Province and in the northwest region of .
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From a pig-feeding worker to a well-known drama actor in the Northwest, Guo Da's fortunes are changing dramatically.
along the way, how much suffering, how many tears, how many eyes and ridicule encountered, only he knows in his heart.
Fortunately, in the process, he met a little sweet.
Guo Da met Ni Ping, who was admitted to the Shandong Repertory Theatre at the time, because of his work relationship. The two were like-minded and fell in love at first sight.
They were each other's first love, and they took this relationship seriously and ran for marriage. However, this relationship ended because of their family relationship. After
broke up, Ni Ping's love road was bumpy. First, she lived with Chen Kaige and for five years without success. Then she married Wang Wenlan and gave birth to a son under the introduction of others. However, it ended in divorce eight years later, until she and Yang The director of Asian ties the knot and reaps the ultimate happiness.
Guo Da was lucky than Ni Ping. After breaking up, he met Wu Fang, a clothing designer one year older than him.
Speaking of which, Guo Da is also quite brave, and he also worked hard to catch up with Wu Fang.
At that time, he always approached Wu Fang intentionally or unintentionally. Because of the age difference between the two, Wu Fang never thought that the two would have different feelings.
But Guo Da is different. He gets to know Wu Fang better every time he gets close, and he has more affection for this elegant and intellectual woman.
He can't help but pay attention to her. If he wants to care about her, when he walks into her, people's hearts are made of flesh. It's not that Wu Fang can't feel the difference between him and herself.
And in getting along with her, she also discovered that although this man is simple, he is motivated and responsible, and he is a person worthy of trust.
It's just that as a girl, she always has to be reserved.
was also Guo Daxian who finally expressed his love, and the two were naturally together, fell in love, got married, and had children.
writer Liang Xiaosheng said:
A good woman exudes a wonderful and indescribable breath like spring breeze and rain. She is the indomitable force of a good man to find himself, to go to himself, and then to bravely go towards life.
A broad-minded and broad-minded wife will encourage her husband to make progress, stand with him through thick and thin, share weal and woe, and help him achieve life.
As far as Guo Da is concerned, Wu Fang is like this. After
got married, she became his virtuous wife and gave him great support and understanding for his work and love.
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In 1987, Guo Da's life ushered in a new lucky year. Since his marriage to Wu Fang, his career has continued to rise.
This year, he received an invitation from the Spring Festival Gala, and partnered with Yang Lei , Gao Lancun , and Zou Xiaoqian to star in the sketch "In Front of the Maternity Door".
In order to perform this show well, Guo Da made a lot of efforts, and Wu Fang also blessed him, and he played his role on the stage.Out of clothes, she tailored for him.
's ten years of polishing on the stage of the drama and the unconditional support and encouragement of his wife, wearing the shirt she made, from the small stage to the big stage, Guo Da's acting career has reached a new level.
made a hit with "In front of the maternity door", because the two had a tacit understanding and the performance was exceptional.
In 1988, Guo Da collaborated with Yang Lei again on 's " A Clean Official Difficult to Interrupt Housework ", which was on the Spring Festival Gala for two consecutive years, and Guo Da's acting career ushered in a peak.
As his wife, Wu Fang is sincerely happy for him, but Guo Da's pressure is increasing.
Because sketches need to be constantly innovated and polished, while Guo Da has to perform, create, and face rising stars and various competitors, he has no skills. During the
period, Guo Da did not appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for several years. It was Wu Fang's encouragement and support that kept him going.
At the same time, she is also like a needle for calming the sea, keeping everything in the house in good order, so that he can rush forward without any worries.
In 1993, Guo Da and Cai Ming made a comeback with " Huangtupo ", and once again amazed the audience with his wonderful performance. Every year after
Spring Festival Gala, Guo Da and Cai Ming can be seen co-starring, and the audience named them a CP named "Cai Buli Guo".
Guo Da in his memory is back. He and Cai Ming achieved each other on the stage, from mother and son, father and daughter, to lovers.
In life, they are good friends and have a deep friendship. The
audience never thought they would break up, and they never saw them together on the same stage again after the 2010 performance of "'s Graduate ". After
, there were rumors that Guo Da retired from the Spring Festival Gala. At that time, Guo Da was only 55 years old and could still act.
Then there were rumors that it was Cai Ming who broke up with him, but it wasn't.
Cai Ming explained the truth in an interview with Kefan. It turned out that Guo Da chose to quit because of his health.
's desperate youth, irregular work and accumulated pressure over the years made Guo Da's body collapse.
His heart is not very good and his blood pressure is high. He has been taking medicine for many years, and he often gets dizzy during rehearsal. He has been insisting on it all these years.
Maybe, really tired, Guo Da wants to give himself a vacation.
When he found Cai Ming and asked her if she could find another partner, his eyes were full of tears and he was full of reluctance.
can't do anything about it, he's old, he can't accept his old age, his health is not good, and the Spring Festival Gala is too stressful, he doesn't want to bear so much anymore.
, as an old partner and good friend, how could Cai Ming not know that even if he is reluctant, his health is the most important thing.
That's it, Guo Da tearfully bid farewell to the Spring Festival Gala stage.
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Indeed, looking back on Guo Da's years in the arts, he not only brought joy to everyone on the Spring Festival Gala stage.
has also brought many wonderful roles to the audience in film and television dramas, such as Diao Guangdou in starring He Bing , Diao Guangdou in , " don't take bean bags as dry food " , Ding Xiaohan, ;
, and the movies "I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry", "Raise your hand" and so on.
And over the years, Guo Da has focused his energy on artistic pursuits, ignoring his family. In his later years, he wants to spend more time with them to make up for what he has lost over the years.
Guo Da is grateful for his wife's dedication to him. She has given him great trust and understanding in addition to her family and life for decades;
also has a consensus with him in her career, as long as it is what he wants to do, she will do it. Support and fulfillment have allowed him to realize his ideal, so he can't be so selfish, and he can't always make the other party pay.
On the parent-child relationship, Guo DaHe is also deeply guilty of his son Guo Xiaoguang. In his early years, he was busy with his career and seldom accompanied his son. He could not hug him several times a year. He smiled and said that his son grew up with a hundred family meals.
Later, his son went to the UK to study alone at the age of 15. As a father, he not only missed his son's childhood, but also paid little attention to his son because of his busy work.
And these all fall on his wife Wu Fang. As a mother, although she often tells her son that his father loves him, as a son, Guo Xiaoguang cannot understand this kind of love.
Until he became an adult, he also participated in the work, and he also became a companion with his father. He somewhat understood, so the relationship with his father also changed from estrangement to closeness.
Guo Da once commented on Wu Fang:
My wife is a person with rich and delicate feelings. Sometimes when she sees other ladies receiving flowers, she will say, how good you look, she has a desire.
He understands her desire. In the early years, he ran around for life and did not pay attention to these rituals; after
became famous, he had no time because he was too busy, and he retired. In the years that
did not appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, Guo Da did not completely give up his pursuit of art. He still filmed and acted in dramas, but left more time for his family.
He said that the most proud thing in his life is to marry Wu Fang as his wife, of course, he should cherish it, accompany him, and love him.
Looking at Guo Da's life, it is not difficult to find that behind his success, in addition to his own self-motivation and hard work, the help of his wife Wu Fang is indispensable.
Although she is ordinary, she has never been star-studded, but she follows him all the way with love and companionship, illuminating his life like a beacon.
There is a vast sea of people. Meeting such a good wife is a man's greatest blessing, and it is worth respecting, cherishing and loving.
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