The vicissitudes and resignation in Dean Liu's words in "Their Name" are the deepest pains in her body

thought that the family of Dean Liu was unfortunate, but after getting to know Lei Li and Shen Jianan, they were able to get a good solution.

was unexpected. The accident came too quickly. In the car where the husband was raped, Dean Liu left.

The poor man has died, but the hateful man is still alive. Although he injured an arm and broke a leg, he spent the money left by his wife in a senseless manner. Friends of

who have followed the show " Their Names " know that Dean Liu is young and beautiful, with gentle and considerate speech, and a pair of powerful hands for scalpel , which makes people envious and jealous.

makes us normal people think that such an excellent woman must have a high status in the family, her husband will love her, her mother-in-law will love her, and her children will be well-behaved. She must be very happy.

Unexpectedly, behind Dean Liu's glamorous life, there is a domestic abusive husband who has been violent to her for many years.

Domestic violence , I thought it was carried out at home, but I didn't expect President Liu's husband to go to the hospital to make trouble, not afraid that President Liu would be seen by colleagues around him.

It's a pity that Dean Liu chose to remain silent, in exchange for her husband's intensified violence. In the end, when her husband was violent to her in the car, there was a car accident, and Dean Liu died on the spot.

It's a pity that Dean Liu left. If she throws her face aside and tells them the truth with Lei Li, Ren Duomei, Shen Jianan and the others, I believe they will definitely help her get out of this predicament.

But why did she choose silence?

1. There is no solid backing

President Liu is a distantly married daughter. She is not a local. Her family has several brothers and she is the youngest.

Her family is the opposite of others, she is the most out of favor in the family. Her family never contacted her. They only found her when she was sick and sought medical treatment, and asked President Liu to help give the green light.

After Dean Liu left, the people who came to offer condolences did not have a single family member, nor did they receive a bouquet of flowers from their relatives. It can be seen that the deceased people are not valued in their original families.

's mother's family was unreliable, and her husband didn't count on it. Dean Liu could only rely on his own strength to sit in the position of Dean.

Second, face is more important than life

Dean Liu, who lacks love and lives a humble life, is more likely to be disliked by her husband.

Her husband has been violent to her for a long time, but she has no idea of ​​divorce. As an intellectual, she should know how to protect herself with legal weapons.

But she didn't, she chose to forbear.

In the hospital's underground garage, Zhang Weichen and his younger sister Zhou Min saw that President Liu was being abused by her husband. Zhang Weichen wanted to roll up his sleeves and rushed to help, but was stopped by Zhou Min.

Zhou Min said: "If it's really her husband, it's Director Liu's family affairs, and it shouldn't be the first time. I've seen the Director's arm hurt twice, and they should have been beaten. "

and President Liu, more concerned about face, she was beaten by her husband, Lei Li and friends came to stop her, and wanted to call the police, but she said lightly: don't need to call the police, thank you . She got up and patted the dust on the white coat, picked up the badge on the ground, and returned to the office without looking back. It can be seen from

that Dean Liu is such a good face person. Colleagues know her situation when they see the scars on her body, but no one wants to open the scars, and Dean Liu doesn't want to be seen by colleagues when he loses face. After all, his identity is here.

She gave up her right to punish her husband.

all say that domestic ugliness should not be made public. It is wrong to use this sentence when it comes to domestic violence. Say it when it's time to say it, and it's better to make a fuss.

  • 1. When domestic violence occurs, remember to open the door, ask neighbors for help, and call the police.
  • 2. If you are injured during domestic violence, you must go to the hospital for an injury report.
  • 3. When domestic violence occurs, don't hide it from your relatives and friends.

women, you must remember that some face is not worth it, face can not be used as a meal, face does not give yourself a salary increase, put down face, as long as you live happily and comfortably.

Women, especially when facing the other half of the big and big, don't be afraid, let alone cowardly,Learn to protect yourself and live your true self.

Finally, I would like to give you a passage from the book:

When everyone is physically and mentally tired, everyone has tears hidden in their hearts, and everyone has a responsibility that cannot be relieved. No matter how strong people are, there are times when they are vulnerable, and no matter how open-minded people are when they feel wronged. Everyone longs for someone to hold an umbrella when it rains, someone to comfort them when they are wronged, and someone to take care of them when they hit a wall. But the reality makes us understand that no matter how far the road is, we must walk by ourselves, and no matter how difficult things are, we must do it by ourselves. If you are not brave, who will you show cowardice? If you are not strong, how can you learn to grow?

Life is full of vicissitudes of life, no one can give you what the future looks like. When you are afraid when you have no one to accompany you, you must learn to be brave; when you are distressed, you have no one to ask, you must learn to bear it; when you are tired, you have no one to rely on, you must learn to be independent; when you are injured, you must learn to recover by yourself. A lifetime is not long, the most tragic is to be confused, and the most absurd is to be confused. If you choose to be strong, you can take every step in the future with sonorous force and calmness.

woman, if you are not brave, who will be strong for you. Come on, in case of trouble, remember to take up the weapon of the law and protect yourself.