Anyone who has seen the movie knows that Ma Youtie is like a dispensable person in his third brother's house and in the village, and his presence is extremely weak.
has a particularly obvious plot. When the village cadres called Ma Youtie on stage to donate blood, the first reaction of the villagers in the audience was to ask each other: "Who is Ma Youtie?"
This shows that Ma Youtie Tie usually exists like an invisible man in daily life. At the same time, it also reflects from the side that apart from helping his brother's house, he hardly ever leaves the door, and has little communication with the people in the village. People like
are one of those lonely, marginalized people.
With the development of the plot, I learned from the neighbors that although he worked hard for his brother all the year round, he still couldn't get their good looks.
's feeling of being under the fence made him gradually lose his self-esteem and pride, and even if he had a temper, he became numb.
It is not difficult to imagine that before Gui Ying broke into his life, his life was like a pool of stagnant water, without a trace of turbulence, and even emotional fluctuations were difficult to express reasonably.
It can be said that when Guiying was with him, the iron heart gradually came to life, and life gradually became hopeful, and there was a light in his eyes.
Before Gui Ying came, he lived like a walking corpse, with no mood swings, and no plans for the future in his consciousness.
After Gui Ying came, he was like a small stone thrown into the lake, which activated Tie's inner expectation for life. At this time, he also gradually woke up from numbness and became a real person. a living person.
has a saying that we always save our worst emotions to those closest to us.
I speculate that You Tie suddenly lost his temper with Gui Ying because Gui Ying couldn't pass the wheat to him normally. There are two main reasons:
1. At that time, a scene was specially shown. He didn't stand firm, but the hostess of the house not far behind handed it over easily.
[It is undeniable here that there will be sourness in the heart of iron. This sourness is not only for myself, but also for Guiying's physical condition.]
2. Pay attention to food. For poor people like iron, the bumper harvest of food represents the income of the year. Even losing a few grains of rice is heartbreaking. And Guiying's instability will spill a lot, so at this time, the instinctive reaction makes Youtie suddenly lose control and pour his emotions on Guiying. I think this scene is easy to understand only for people who have actually experienced something similar. At the moment when
gets emotional, the grievances that have been accumulated for many years spew out, and even the best tempered person can easily get out of control.
is that everyone has a temper, we can't criticize him for his bad feelings towards Gui Ying just because of this.
What's more, even the best couple in life, there will inevitably be some small frictions.
Therefore, for this shot, I think the deeper meaning is to express, because of the arrival of Gui Ying, only with iron can you truly live like a person and truly have a home. Some people can talk, some people can talk, and some people can understand their emotions and dissatisfaction, and share their joys, anger, and sorrow. The
movie does not portray a good man, but instead highlights a real man with flesh and blood.
This man is not perfect. He has emotions and loses his temper, but afterward he can realize his mistakes and think of ways to solve it.
Gui Ying, who was angry with Youtie, didn't feel inferior because of it. She also has her own temper, so when Youtie coaxed her into the car, she ignored him.
But Youtie patiently continued to coax his wife, and finally successfully resolved the estrangement between the two husbands and wives. Because
attaches great importance to the relationship between the two, he is willing to take the initiative to solve it. Isn't that how a good relationship with
is maintained!
is such a scene that turns the numb and dead Ma Youtie into a living person.
It's not that he has no temper, it's not that he has no emotions, it's just that the oppression of reality made him hide himself.
In reality, why are those people at the bottom who are rushing for life?
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