saw a very interesting topic on Weibo's hot search, and a netizen nicknamed Confession initiated: "Which one would you choose between career and love?"
netizens expressed their opinions, and their heartfelt speech made people sigh.
Some netizens feel that career and love are contradictory bodies of conflict. If you have to choose one, you must choose career, because it is difficult for love without material things to grow healthily.
There are also people who think that career and love are not in conflict, they are complementary relationships.
Just like the saying on the Internet, "Love is a meal, and a career is a rice bowl". If you want to chew slowly, you must keep the bowl right.
I think if one day I really face a choice, I will choose a career resolutely.
As for the reason, it's probably because I recently revisited the palace fighting drama " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", which has exploded for more than ten years.
choose career or love? The three protagonists in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", their choices clearly told me the pros and cons of the two.
Protagonist 1: Zhen Huan
The heroine Zhen Huan pursues love in the early stage and career in the later stage.
How many people envy the emperor's preference for Zhen Huan.
The emperor of the ninety-five honor, on Changjie, carried Zhen Huan all the way back to the palace, bestowed the noble status, the favor of Jiaofang, and publicly "showed affection" in the six palaces.
All of this is too rare, and Zhen Huan, who has just moved her heart, doesn't consciously regard the emperor as her lover.
However, behind this love is so unbearable. Emperor
's love for Zhen Huan was only because of "Wan Wan Leiqing".
How many viewers want to beat the emperor because of this sentence, and Zhen Huan, who is pregnant with Liujia, is also desperate for the emperor.
gave birth to a daughter, she asked to leave the palace, and she was willing to have a long life with the king.
She used the phrase "the love and time of these years, after all, it was paid by mistake" to end the love between the two.
If the family members far away in Ningguta were not plotted again, and the king of Guojun, who was in love at Ganlu Temple, was innocently murdered, Zhen Huan would never bring her twins back to the palace.
Zhen Huan, who has been reborn from Nirvana, has no love for her children and just wants to do her best to protect the people around her.
became the adoptive mother of the fourth brother, gave birth to twins, attacked Concubine Qi and An Concubine, overthrew the queen, and even single-handedly supported the fourth brother as the next king.
loveless and light, and finally Zhen Huan became the supreme queen mother. The moment
decided to return to the palace, Zhen Huan gave up a lot of things in her heart, such as love, including the nostalgia for King Guojun.
She is ruthless and ruthless, and when she goes back, she has a clear goal and gets what she wants. As for the rest, she doesn't care at all, and she won't be sad if she doesn't want to.
The hard-hearted Zhen Huan, who sees people and matters, has even improved her scheming and scheming.
It can be seen that sometimes, once they decide not to rely on men, women will burst out with different potential and brilliance, and even more successful careers than men.
If Zhen Huan still has some old love for the emperor, or can't bear it, then when the twins are investigated, Zhen Huan will die.
If Zhen Huan had the extravagant hope of not knowing the reality of King Guo, then he would be miserable. After all, King Guo doesn't seem to know much about avoiding suspicion.
Although she is also unforgettable, she knows what she wants and what her bottom line is.
Zhen Huan, who has a career, should not be too cool.
There should be a lot of viewers who watch "The Legend of Zhen Huan", like me, who only like to watch the first half and after returning to the palace, and skip the Ganlu Temple directly.
After all, after returning to the palace, Zhen Huan exudes an eye-catching charm, a proper Shuangwen heroine.
Protagonist 2: Queen Yixiu
One person, Queen Yixiu, who is above ten thousand people. When she was in the palace, she loved the prince who had not yet become an emperor. Before becoming a queen, all she pursued was love.
Yixiu is full of joy, waiting to give birth to a son and become Fujin. However, the arrival of her sister Chunyuan shatters her dream.
Qin Se and Ming's husband's love is transferred, and the position of Fu Jin no longer exists, the unborn son died unexpectedly, and everyone in the palace was watching Yi Xiu's jokes.
Yi Xiu, who lost everything, gave up his fantasies about men after a painful remorse.
Since then, she only has power and status in her eyes, and decided to "do a career".
, with the advantage of being proficient in medical science, killed his sister Chunyuan and the child in the womb, and robbed the position of Fujin.
After the prince ascended the throne and became the emperor, he did everything possible to maintain the throne of Empress Ulanala.
used tricks many times to kill concubines and children, and always maintained her own glory. Without children, she also got the third elder brother, almost inheriting the throne.
The queen's position, family glory, and even children, she got it. Even the emperor is not completely indifferent to her, and he will visit from time to time in reminiscence of the past.
Although later, the queen lost to Zhen Huan in the palace fight, she also cried to the emperor that "the ministers and concubines can't do it", and hated his dissent.
But when she was indeed on the throne, she was always the queen, keeping the queen of Ulanara .
means are a little dark, but in ancient times, a woman who was not valued could not survive without means.
If Yi Xiu was more cautious, if she hadn't been in such a hurry, or if she hadn't set her heart on putting Zhen Huan to death, her ending would not be bad. Just because she is Chunyuan's younger sister,
can make the emperor forgive many times with just this card, which shows her scheming and ability to understand people's hearts. Queen
will lose, not because of lack of ability. Her fighting ability is ruthless, and she is not defeated at all compared to Zhen Huan and the Queen Mother.
It's just that her defeat was also ruthless.
treats people and matters, leaving no room, killing as many people as possible, and breaking people's hopes. She seems to win over a lot of people, but she is taking advantage of others.
And when Zhen Huan employs people, in addition to interests, there is still a little sincerity, whether it is false or true, she has won the hearts of several people. Otherwise,
wouldn't have so many loyal people who help Zhen Huan everywhere. Without Liu Zhu , Jinxi, Xiao Yunzi , etc., Zhen Huan might not be able to win.
Aside from Zhen Huan's protagonist halo, if there is no one to help, the queen and Zhen Huan, whoever loses and who wins, may not be.
Throughout the whole drama, the first half of the queen has always been the winner. She is strategizing and calculating others. Although she is vicious, it also proves her ability. If
is a little smarter, it is not impossible to win the Gongdou champion.
Protagonist 3: Hua Fei
Hua Fei Shi Lan , as the woman who loves the emperor the most in this play, she only pursues love and only loves her young man.
But what happened to her?
As long as Nian Shilan is in love, she is calculated by her beloved: when she was in the palace, the child who was about to be born was hurt by the hands of others, and the boy was born innocent and aborted. The Huan Yixiang that the emperor
concocted by himself contains a lot of musk that damage the mother's body and cause infertility. She has used it year after year, and no imperial doctor dared to tell her.
These calculations are just because she is the sister of the general Nian Gengyao , the emperor is afraid of the children of Nian's family, and uses the power of foreign relatives to seek power and seize power.
The person next to the pillow is the one who has calculated his whole life, so that in the end, Concubine Hua died in despair when she hit the wall.
Concubine Hua has chosen love, she has always valued love all her life, and she is always the emperor, but it turned out to be just a big dream. How sad is her life?
Ru Ruo, Concubine Hua is not so "love-brained", giving up love and pursuing a career, with Concubine Hua's family background, it will not be too bad.
Moreover, the emperor still has a love for Concubine Hua, not only love, but also guilt. A woman, relying on guilt, can hold a man for a lifetime.
The choice of Concubine Hua seems to be the most sincere and the ending is the most tragic. Do you think love is really so important?
I didn't expect that one day watching a TV series would successfully cure my "z17"z "love brain ".
Compared with "love brain", it is wise to stay awake and pursue a career.
In life, similar examples abound. Those who choose love will lose in a mess, those who choose career will become
has a relative who, because of love, chose to marry far away and gave up a successful career in his hometown. After
got married, he only wanted her husband and family. Everyone in
persuaded her that she must be She has her own career, otherwise it is easy to be manipulated, but she feels that taking good care of her husband and having children and adopting daughters is also a career.
's love fantasy is always beautiful, but the reality makes her regret it. After
gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law disliked her for not giving birth. Boy, her husband dislikes her and only spends money.
's disgust and incomprehension day after day finally chills her heart.
chooses love, she has almost nothing, and ends up with scars all over her body.
looks at her sister , the wedding date is approaching, the man proposed to let her not go to work and take care of the family.
as a career-oriented woman, she turned her face on the spot, and after discussing with her family, she decided to break the marriage, and the relationship was in vain for a few years.
"Career is my confidence not to marry . " This is the reason why she dares not to get married.
Of course, nothing is absolute, not all love will disappoint people, but people's hearts are unpredictable, it is better to gamble on their own efforts than to gamble on their hearts. If there is return, love is not necessarily.
once saw in Xiaohongshu, a teacher of Lemon Psychology Class's analysis of "career and love".
"Women engage in careers to love themselves better. "
" Because career is more reliable, stable and less risky than love, career is always our own and will not fail our efforts.
agreed, and the book said: "First make a living, then make love." "The better you are, the more risk-taking ability you have.
likes a netizen's point of view on this topic.
"If I really want to choose, I will choose career. Love is just the icing on the cake, career is the fulcrum of life. With a good career, you will also wait for a better love. "
If one day you are faced with the choice between career and love, which one will you choose?
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