Nowadays, with the development of the times and the improvement of women's social status, some families will break the traditional "children follow the father's surname" after the child is born, and choose to let the child follow the mother's surname.
Especially in second-child families, if the eldest child takes his father's surname, many of the second children will choose to take their mother's surname.
Not long ago, Qi Wei was revealed to have given birth to a second younger brother, so far, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun have both children, becoming a celebrity couple that many people are very envious of. After the news of
came out, many netizens left messages to send their blessings. In the comment area, in addition to congratulations to the children, some people mentioned the surname of the second child, and said: As expected of Brother Qi, it is so cool to let the child follow his mother's surname!
As we all know, Qi Wei and Li Chengxuan have always had a very good relationship. After giving birth to their daughter Li Leqi, the husband and wife chose the family business model of "male lead inside and female lead outside". While Qi Wei continued to work hard on her career, Li Chengxuan stepped back behind the scenes. Take care of your daughter at home.
is also because of this, Lee Seung-hyun has also won the titles of "Super Dad", "Wife-loving Demon" and so on.
Qi Wei once admitted that before giving birth to a daughter, she and Li Chengxuan reached a consensus that if they had two children, the eldest would follow his father's surname, and the second would follow his own.
Now, Qi Wei has successfully given birth to a second child, and the child's surname has become a hot topic among fans and netizens.
In fact, regarding the second child's surname, some people say that as long as people who are not particularly macho will accept it, and as a Korean , Lee Seung-hyun has been influenced by Western ideas since he was a child, and there is no traditional "son follows father" in his bones. surname" concept of fertility, so it is easy for couples to reach a consensus.
There are also netizens who think that a man's acceptance of the second child's mother's surname is a manifestation of his love for his wife. When it comes to giving birth to a child, it is obviously the mother who has suffered the most. With a lot of energy and time, the husband agrees that the child will follow his wife's surname, which is actually a kind of distress and compensation to his wife.
Therefore, under the topic of "Qi Wei's second child takes her mother's surname", we can see a message like this:
"Let the second child take her mother's surname, Qi Wei is really cool, and Lee Seung-hyun is indeed a good man who knows how to care for his wife. "
" Congratulations, my daughter's name is Li Leqi , and my son's name is Qi Leli!"
" My family is the eldest daughter with my husband's surname, and the youngest with my surname. My husband and I both agree, but the elderly in the family have opinions. "
In the entertainment industry, it is not uncommon for children to take their mother's surname.
Sands once took his father to participate in a variety show. In the show, the father mentioned his daughter's surname. He said that his surname was Wu, and his daughter followed his wife's surname. Although this was contrary to traditional thinking, he was not at all. Do not care.
And as we all know, Jinsha has a happy family, and Jin's father is gentle and gentle. It is inseparable from the family atmosphere where parents love each other.
Of course, not all people can accept the "following mother's surname". Some netizens on
have listed some disadvantages that may occur when children are allowed to "take their mother's surname" in contemporary society.
First of all, in a social environment where the father's surname is generally adopted, if one of the two children in the family has the father's surname and the other's mother's surname, it is easy to cause unwarranted speculations by outsiders, thinking that this is a reorganization of the family or the man's marriage, and When the child grows up, it is easy to be asked about the surname, and repeated explanations will be more troublesome.
Secondly, young people have received higher education and are more comfortable with their children's surnames, but the ideas of the elderly at home are often deeply ingrained. If two children follow their parents' different surnames, it will inevitably cause grandparents to have different attitudes towards the two children. The eccentricity of the elderly is very detrimental to the growth of children.
Of course, "following the mother's surname" is beneficialWhether the disadvantages outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, it depends on the specific situation of each family. If the husband and wife are in a stable relationship and the other half is very supportive for the child to follow the mother's surname, then "following the mother's surname" is undoubtedly a very good choice. .
On the contrary, if you are in a family with deep-rooted traditional ideology, and only the mother insists on "following the mother's surname", it is easy to cause irreconcilable family conflicts.
This issue's topic
What do you think of Qi Wei's second child taking her mother's surname? Do you support children "taking their mother's surname"? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
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