Zhen Huan's first change in the emperor's emotional attitude: how the relationship between people faded


She not only regarded the emperor as her husband, but also boldly gave the emperor a nickname "Shilang", because Zhen Huan really loved the emperor as a man, and the emperor also replied to her with " Huan Huan" " nickname.


ah~ it's all the sour smell of love.


It's a pity that the good times didn't last long. The crisis of Meizhuang's fake pregnancy caused Zhen Huan to lower her love appeal to the second place. , what is the difference between me and others?!"



Even though Zhen Huan values ​​love so much, in the face of survival and safety, love must give way. Therefore, she recommended An Lingrong to the emperor.


In Vanity Fair, there is no true love.


Immediately after, Zhen Huan was disappointed with the emperor for the first time on an emotional level, she took Liu Yan to see the emperor to avenge Meizhuang, and pointed out that Huafei was the mastermind behind the scenes.


Zhen Huan thought that the evidence was overwhelming and the emperor would definitely punish Concubine Hua severely. Unexpectedly, the emperor's first reaction was to suspect that Zhen Huan had deliberately framed Concubine Hua in order to save Meizhuang.


For the emperor, Concubine Hua cannot be moved, because Concubine Hua's status in the harem cannot be shaken because Gengyao is in .


In fact, this is also the first time that the contradiction between Zhen Huan and the emperor has clearly appeared , the emperor valued his relationship with Concubine Hua more than Concubine Hua's political interests. So Zhen Huan now denounces Concubine Hua, which is harming his political interests.


But in Zhen Huan's view, the emperor only cares about the overall situation and has no sincerity with her.



She thought that the emperor's love for her was the only one, but when she watched Concubine Hua bring the imperial doctor out of the prescription to treat the epidemic , the emperor laughed and said, and she realized her weight in the emperor's heart But so.



So Zhen Huan is very disappointed, her love expectations have failed.



The most basic of love is mutual trust and delivery, and Zhen Huan really felt that the emperor did not trust her.





If you don't even have basic trust, how can you talk about "one-hearted people"?


If Zhen Huan was disappointed at this time, then what completely overwhelmed Zhen Huan's love expectations was her attitude towards Concubine Hua after her miscarriage.


She even started to doubt herself, am I pursuing it wrong? Am I being too stupid? I expected to have a trace of pure emotion and warmth in this palace.




According to the explanation of the whole plot, a small birth should be the first huge setback in Zhen Huan's life, the huge grief of losing a child, and the strong hatred for Concubine Hua... needs the most care, comfort and When accompanied, the emperor did nothing, he disappeared.


Zhen Huan's depression after the miscarriage is actually because she still has expectations for the emperor, expecting the emperor to take the initiative to appease her. But the emperor did not, and was still blaming Zhen Huan for not understanding him.


After the humiliation on the long street, Zhen Huan began to wake up because she realized that in the vanity fair of the harem, romance is too extravagant, and survival is the first priority.


As she said: "I used to look forward to being one-hearted people, never leaving each other, but now it's just infatuation." So, in her relationship with the emperor, she gave up the appeal of love.



She finally sees clearly that the emperor is the emperor, not an ordinary man who can satisfy her emotional demands, "...I only know what it means to be delusional. I can only use my mind to get what I want."




Cui Jinxi knew Zhen Huan best, she explained to Zhen Huan: "Little master has been ill for so long, and my heart has been suffocating, now it's better to say it out, no worries, I won’t suffer myself any more.”


means: you just need to think clearly, recognize that the emperor cannot be your single-minded person, and you will no longer have unrealistic expectations, nor I will torture myself again.



The so-called "no worries" means that there is no love expectation, Zhen Huan began to become an emotionless harem workplace worker. Hey, it's a shame, Zhen Huan used to be such a beautiful and beautiful person...


If Zhen Huan wanted to be "in love, but go deep"; after the miscarriage and reincarnation, what she wanted was to hold the emperor's heart , and as the means above, use strategy.



So, how can we hold the emperor's heart?


Zhen Huan used to provide the emperor with erotic value, such as companionship, warmth, and unique emotional interaction experience, and now it has transformed into a practical political value for the emperor, helping him to do things and relieve his worries from the emperor's point of view. The most representative of


is what Zhen Huan did in the incident of Prince Dun's beating of the official, which won the emperor's evaluation that "in the harem, only you can solve my problems".




For the emperor, "you love me" is worthless, only "you are useful to me" is valuable.


Zhen Huan also changed quickly, she quickly adapted to treating the emperor as an ally or a boss.


Many people would think that the emperor had arranged Zhen Huan to Penglaizhou before cleaning up the turmoil between Prince Dun and Nian Gengyao. Don't be a prisoner.


If you have watched the American drama " House of Cards ", you will know that is the result of the deep political interests of Zhen Huan and the emperor. .


is a very inappropriate analogy, this is like a husband and wife, the wife has no emotional expectations and requirements for her husband, but she feels that her husband is capable of earning money to support the family and taking care of the children, so she continues to operate well marriage.


The relationship between people is multiple, and the emotional appeal is not single. In general, after the first growth breakthrough, Zhen Huan's attitude towards the emperor changed from passive to active, from desire for high-quality emotional interaction to high-quality survival benefits.


Zhen Huan's feelings for the emperorThis change in attitude is very painful. It is the enthusiasm that is stifled a little by disappointment and suspicion, the hopelessness and numbness that have been cultivated after the failure, and the helplessness forced by life.


People always like to say "people are best when they first meet", that's because many people ignore "how the relationship between people fades".


The last Zhen Huan was completely bruised and bruised, the emperor even wanted Zhen Huan to call him "Shilang", he was so selfish and so high above. From this perspective, his death was well deserved.

included in the collection " Zhen Huan Biography " Drama Review

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