Li Ruotong blew herself up and lost herself for 10 years. What has she experienced?


"He didn't want me to film, so I stopped working. He wanted me to become more mature, so I decided to give up the dress I liked." Liu Ruotong once gave up work and self for her boyfriend for ten years. She doesn't mind that the other party has a history of marriage and children, but she just falls into it and pays for the other party wholeheartedly. When her boyfriend was in debt crisis, she frantically paid for filming just to repay her debt for her boyfriend.


Many reporters asked her, you paid so much for him, why didn't he marry you? She said it was okay and didn't care that much about the piece of paper. She said that no matter whether her boyfriend is rich or poor, she will never leave her.


But in the end, her boyfriend still broke up with Li Ruotong . The ten-year relationship was announced unilaterally, and Li Ruotong's world collapsed all at once. After taking antidepressant medicine for three years, he could not get out for a long time. When you are humble enough to be in the dust, anyone can step on you.



Alyssa Chia in a marriage unprincipled indulgent husband also gave up work for love, humble as a slave. But in exchange, her husband cheated repeatedly and domestic violence because of trivial matters. Even if this was the case, she had been compromising for five years.


Little S announced at the engagement ceremony that I would like to be my husband's Filipino maid for life. Over the years, little S has often been accused by her husband, "Did you know that because of your relationship, the media reported our whole family like this". Recently, her husband was exposed to all kinds of lace news, and Xiao S still chose to forbear and said, "He is not a public figure, and I will not respond to his affairs in the future." Song Jia told Xiao S that her biggest feeling for Xiao S was that Xiao S did not love herself at all.


This reminds me of a sentence in the TV series " Who Said I Can't Get Married ": Sooner or later, we will understand that if there is a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, it depends on commonality, not blind dedication and hard work. Moral self-motivation. Yes, a lover can't lose his sense of proportion. Don't be reckless just because you get love and lose yourself, let alone lose your sense of proportion because you lose love, thinking that you are not worthy of being loved. Should I give up my career for love? My answer is clear, no. Because loving you would never say such a thing. The thinker Montaigne said that the greatest thing in the world is that a person knows how to be his own master. In this day and age, this is still not an easy task, because we are often affected by the environment and by the words of others. influences. What is a woman's top wisdom? I think it's about loving yourself and never giving up on yourself. If you agree, give it a like.