's newborn baby, his every cry, every murmur, is the hope of the whole family.
's recently popular domestic drama " Dear Life " allows us to witness the various joys and sorrows of mothers. Mothers gave birth to new lives and experienced a game with death.
However, the more I look at it, the more I feel that many people wishful thinking for their families, but they can't get the ending they want.
1. Feng Yuanhang, who loves Wu Congrui more than her new boyfriend
Feng Yuanhang is young and promising, and is an excellent director of the neonatology department of Shengji Hospital. He also has an identity, the husband of obstetrician Wu Congrui, married for 5 years. As soon as the couple
appeared, I felt that the way Feng Yuanhang loved Wu Congrui was entirely based on his personal feelings.
Wu Congrui likes children very much. This is her original intention as an obstetrician. Therefore, it is her biggest dream to have a baby of her own. Even, in order to have a child, she can start from scratch as a doctor.
When she learned she was pregnant, she was ecstatic and ready to put her career on hold.
but her husband is not happy at all. He advised Wu Congrui to not have children now, and wait for the competition to be hospitalized, so as not to let his career plan stagnate for too long.
Wu Congrui was unmoved. In her opinion, a child is the best gift God has given her. No hospitalization or career planning can compare to the joy that a child brings to her.
Unfortunately, during an operation, Wu Congrui was pushed by a friend and fell down, and the child had a miscarriage. She was so unhappy that she even regarded the child whose mother had left in the hospital as her own baby.
's husband Feng Yuanhang was very worried, but she could only let her be. But against his will, he agreed to Wu Congrui's request to have another child. What
didn't expect was that Wu Congrui had just stepped out of the shadow of bereavement and put on the most expensive pajamas. When he wanted to have another child, Feng Yuanhang gave her a blow: he was ligated!
This is a shock to everyone, everyone is asking: why?
But, he didn't say anything. In the face of Wu Congrui's divorce request, he could only cooperate silently.
This makes me feel that he really doesn't love Wu Congrui. Perhaps, he is already a director, and his wife is just a small grad student, he thinks his wife is not worthy of him, right?
that's not the case.
Because of Wu Congrui's physical condition, once she becomes pregnant, she has to stay in bed to protect the fetus, and give everything for this little life. That is to say, career and children, Wu Congrui can only choose one, and it is very likely that it will be empty in the end. Only two people know about
: Director Huang, Wu Congrui's teacher, and Feng Yuanhang, Wu Congrui's husband.
After the divorce, Feng Yuanhang was ostracized by the entire obstetrics department. What struck him was that Wu Congrui and Li Junxiao, the attending physician, fell in love, and half of them entered the marriage hall.
She and Li Junxiao both like children very much and plan to have several more.
looked at Wu Congrui who was in high spirits, Director Huang couldn't help telling her the truth, and also told her that the reason why Feng Yuanhang did the sterilization was to protect Wu Congrui. In his eyes, his wife is the most important, and he doesn't care if he has children.
but it's too late. For Wu Congrui, her feelings for Feng Yuanhang have become a thing of the past.
Feng Yuanhang thought about Wu Congrui wholeheartedly, but never thought whether this was what she wanted.
concealed it wholeheartedly, waiting for Wu Congrui to find out the truth, it has already brought her double pain.
loves someone, shouldn't they respect her choice?
Although Feng Yuanhang really loves Wu Congrui, I have to say, I didn't see it, I only saw him willing to be a scapegoat and wishful sacrifice. It's just an unresponsive sacrifice.
2. In the ward of
, an internet celebrity lawyer who keeps saying that she loves her husband and wants to leave a child for her husband, internet celebrity lawyer Gao Ying refuses general anesthesia surgery because she is worried that her physical condition will not wake up from anesthesia and die on the operating table.
She has been a child of someone else's family since she was a child, went to a famous school, became a lawyer, and was at the pinnacle of her life.
When she was 30 years old, she was diagnosed with congenital heart disease and was not suitable for having children. Her husband left herGetting married, and the work that I am proud of is also precarious.
Her life fell from the cloud to the bottom.
However, she has the determination to bottom out. She met her second husband who loved her again. In order to repay her husband's love at all costs, she decided to have children for him.
She knows that her body is not suitable for having children, but with her super-high learning ability and retrieval ability, she knows that there are cases of heart disease as serious as hers in foreign countries and successful birth of children. She firmly believes that she is better than others, and naturally she can have her own baby like those successful cases abroad. After being rejected by several hospitals,
chose Shengji Hospital, an industry leader, and recorded her entire admission experience online.
This brought herself and the medical team of Shengji Hospital to the forefront.
God favored her. Just when she was about to have heart failure, she gave her a heart source so that she could change her heart after cesarean section.
However, she is not satisfied, she still wants to do it. Despite her husband's hard pleas, she felt that this heart was not as good as her original one, and insisted on continuing to change her heart. She also dictated and asked her husband to record her mental journey and post it on the Internet.
keeps saying that he loves her husband, but she has brought her into injustice.
Then she stopped the anti-rejection medication at her own discretion.
Her lungs were infected with , which affected her heart. In the end, the rescue failed and she died, leaving her husband a baby to be fed.
This is her unexpected ending. She's not that great, and she wants to leave a memory for her husband. She just overestimated her ability and felt that the entire hospital was on the hook, and the hospital would do its best to save her.
Probably, except for her, everyone thinks she must die, right?
Is this love husband? I didn't see it.
She died, the whole hospital gave her back, and her husband was injustice. I really don't want my wife to get pregnant. There are other methods. The target of all the criticism on the Internet has become her husband.
Maybe her husband really loves her, but I really don't think she loves her husband. What she loves is just the fluttering confidence under the touts of the traffic!
just in the end, this confidence turned into a joke.
3. In order to make his father treat his mother kindly, Du Di, who lied that his mother was pregnant with a boy, grew up in a family that favored sons over daughters. Her father and grandmother, because Du Di was a girl, complained about the mother and daughter for a lifetime.
After Du Di worked, he didn't keep in touch with his family very often. He also tried not to answer calls from home.
usually gets along with his parents and grandmother, that is, the mode of nagging nang nang.
The second child is open. The 50-year-old mother Du has a second child at the strong request of Du's father.
The old couple coerced and lured, and Du Di must tell them whether they were pregnant with a boy or a girl.
Du Di was heartbroken and told them that he was a younger brother.
She thought that if her mother was pregnant with her younger brother, she would not be disliked by her father and grandmother, and she would be able to live a good life.
But she underestimated her grandmother's desire for her grandson and her ignorance.
Grandma did not let her mother take blood pressure medicine, saying that it would affect the child.
Grandma obstructed Du Di from treating her mother everywhere. She cried, made trouble, hanged herself, and asked Father Du to change the hospital for Mother Du who was in labor. When Mother Du got out of the car, she was hit by the car and turned into a vegetative state.
In the end, the vegetative mother gave birth to a younger sister, and she passed away without seeing her own child. Leaving Dad Du, who was already mad, sue Du Di for fetal identification without permission, resulting in the death of his wife.
Is Du Di innocent? Not innocent.
She knew early on that her parents had only one goal, to have a boy.
50 years old, 4 months pregnant, Du Di already knew that she was his younger sister.
She wanted her mother to terminate her pregnancy from the very beginning, because she was getting older on Mother's Day, high blood pressure diabetes made it extremely difficult for her to have a baby. Since
is in such a difficult situation, it's really for the good of mother, it's not a big deal to tell the truth.
I don't think a baby girl who is born without a mother but has a patriarchal father in her 50s will have a good life.
It is normal for the mother to terminate her pregnancy and save her life.
, but Du Di is not. She wants to give her mother a good life for the last few months.
also got two lives: mother and grandma.
is this worth it? What is
ending with
called Hello?
It's just from one's own point of view, in the name of thinking for the other party and doing some puzzling things, I think it can only be morally kidnapped.
Some people's tragedies are really self-inflicted.
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