In the eyes of most people, Xiangtai Chen Lan has a domineering personality, a strong wrist, and his courage is not inferior to a man. On the contrary, Xiang Huaqiang is more like an existence with little right to speak.
Surprisingly, in front of Chen Lan, who couldn't rub the sand in his eyes, Xiang Huaqiang not only supported his ex-wife until now, but also gave his son Xiang Zuo to his ex-wife to raise, and Chen Lan even called him "sister".
Xiang Huaqiang's ex-wife Ding Pei What are the virtues and abilities? The story has to start from her love affair with Bruce Lee 10 years ago.
Ding Pei's real name is Tang, his real name is beautiful, his father has been a doctor for three generations, and his uncle is a famous young marshal, after a proper fame.
, Ding Pei, who is rebellious by nature, has no intention of reading, and likes to sing and dance since childhood.
At the age of 15, Ding Pei already had a clear goal in life and looked forward to becoming a dazzling star one day.
At that time, the Wanwan TV business did not have the prosperity of Hong Kong, and her dream was difficult to achieve, so she came to Hong Kong alone to become a "Hong Kong drifter".
Shortly after Ding Pei arrived in Hong Kong, with her beautiful appearance and bumpy figure, she was photographed by Shaw Brothers and gave her a customized development route of "Swallow Star", stage name: Ding Pei
Her legendary life began.
Before the age of 25, Ding Pei's life trajectory has been flat. He made several movies, and although the box office was impressive, it failed to become a big hit until he met Bruce Lee.
Bruce Lee signed a contract with Shaw Brothers after returning to Hong Kong, and the two hit it off at a banquet.
Ding Pei is very excited. In her eyes, Bruce Lee is a big star, not only famous abroad, but also a household name in China.
did not take long to become a gossip couple from a friend. Ding Pei never imagined that, as an actor, it was the first time he became so popular because of gossip.
Bruce Lee had a family at the time, but they still ignored everyone's questioning gazes coming and going.
It's a pity that heaven is jealous of Yingcai, and no one expected what happened later.
In 1973, after talking about cooperation, Bruce Lee went to Ding Pei's house to rest. He wanted to sleep to relieve his fatigue, but he was tortured by headaches and couldn't sleep.
Ding Pei gave Bruce Lee some painkillers, and he fell asleep. A few hours later, Ding Pei called him to eat, and found that he was unconscious.
She hurriedly called an ambulance and took the person to the hospital, but Bruce Lee died anyway.
Although the autopsy report shows that the cause of death is unknown and has nothing to do with Ding Pei, the media exaggerated the death of Bruce Lee on Ding Pei's bed.
For a time, the whole society cast abusive, questioning and accusing voices to Ding Pei.
Bruce Lee's fans even asked Ding Pei to "pay for his life". Ding Pei didn't even dare to attend Bruce Lee's funeral. His reputation and career were ruined overnight.
Just when Ding Pei decided to make up his mind, an old friend extended a helping hand to Huaqiang and gave herHope to live.
Xiang Huaqiang was afraid that Ding Pei couldn't think of it, so he took care of her meticulously. Behind Xiang Huaqiang was Xin Yi'an, and no one would dare to do anything to Ding Pei with his protection.
Ding Pei slowly came out of the Bruce Lee incident. Three years later, Ding Pei and Xiang Huaqiang entered the hall of marriage and gave birth to a daughter.
At this time, Xiang Huaqiang lost everything because of his previous investment failure. When he was penniless, he met the beautiful and capable Chen Lan.
Chen Lan didn't mind Huaqiang's past, and Xiang Huaqiang also confessed to Ding Pei that he had met the goddess.
Although Ding Pei married Xiang Huaqiang and gave birth to a daughter for him, in fact Ding Pei knew very well that instead of love, they were more about redemption and gratitude.
So Ding Pei voluntarily chose to quit Chengquan Xiang Huaqiang and Chen Lan, ending this 4-year marriage. Since then,
has not asked about world affairs, converted to Buddhism , and led to practice.
Although Ding Pei and Xiang Huaqiang are divorced, they have always maintained close contact because Xiang Huaqiang has been paying to support Ding Pei's mother and daughter for 40 years, until now.
Chen Lan also personally demonstrated what it is called: the ceiling of the relationship between the ex and the current
As a Xiang Tai, Chen Lan not only supports her husband to pay for her ex-wife, but also Chen Lan and Ding Pei get along very well, and they will call her sister Ding Pei when they meet. .
More importantly, Chen Lan handed over his own son Xiang Zuo to him to raise,
So what made Chen Lan make such a decision?
In fact, Ding Pei has never forgotten Bruce Lee. At that time, her thoughts about Bruce Lee were simply "infatuation".
On July 20, 1973, Bruce Lee passed away, and on July 20, 1984, Xiang Huaqiang's son, Xiang Zuo, was born.
Ding Pei has always been the most fascinated. She believes that in the past and present, she thinks he is here to reconnect with her, so she has a different "feeling" for Xiang Zuo. Zuo was handed over to Ding Pei to raise him, and he didn't return to Chen Lan until he was 5-6 years old, which can be regarded as a spiritual sustenance for her.
Ding Pei also lived up to Chen Lan Xiang Huaqiang's trust in her. She loves Xiang Zuo as much as her own daughter.
With the company of children, Ding Pei gradually became cheerful.
Ding Pei later said in an interview with Luyu :
They have always been good friends, like a family, and even treat Chen Lan's children better than their own.
The three of them are no longer rivals in love, but more like family, and love has surpassed everything.
Perhaps for Ding Pei, Xiang Huaqiang is the one who pulled himself back from the cliff.
From the heartache of knowing each other at the beginning, to the married life of mutual respect, this kind of feeling and company has long surpassed love but family.
For them, the other party is not only their ex but also their own relatives, and Chen Lan's sensible and generous is what keeps them together.The key to staying the same.
No matter whether Ding Pei can let go of the past or not, the name Bruce Lee seems to be engraved in Ding Pei's life forever.
Half a century has passed, and Xiang Huaqiang and Chen Lan are still in love so early.
Xiang Zuo, who was by Ding Pei's side, also set up his own small family, and had two children with Guo Biting .
And she herself is no longer in her prime, her obsession with worshipping Buddha made her understand a lot of things, and she gradually got out of the haze. There has been very little news about her in recent years.
Throughout the first half of her life, she has been in love, intoxicated, painful, and desperate. Ups and downs, she lived a wonderful first half of her life, and it is time to live out herself in the second half of her life.