rewatched the TV series "Double-Sided Adhesive", because it was an adaptation of the novel of the same name, I looked for the novel and looked at the novel. Basically, the TV series are more loyal to the original, but it seems that the ending has been changed. Although the ending of the book is a bit cruel, it actually feels more in line with the characters in the novel. Under the instigation of the mother-in-law, the son who lost his mind beat his wife alive.
The author did not explain what happened next, there is no need to explain, the son has to pay for the shaman, and the only thing facing her is the grandson who is waiting to be fed and the house that will be confiscated by the bank who has not paid off the mortgage, she can only live in her daughter's house , while the daughter will have to face Lijuan's family's pursuit of her husband's debt, and may have a lawsuit, that is, an old lady, a daughter and a grandson.
Several good families were torn apart by her, and it is estimated that she will spend the rest of her life in the haze of pain, sorrow, regret, and eternal life. This is God's punishment for her.
caused such a tragic ending, Objectively speaking, such an outcome cannot be blamed on one person alone. But the two important figures of are the most critical. One is Li Yaping and the other is Mrs. Li. I have to say, these two are too "bad", let's take a look at how they are "bad":
一, Li Yaping's actions indicate the failure of their marriage.
After watching the TV series and novels, I found that the hero Li Yaping is the most inaction and responsible. Although the "double-sided tape" is used as a metaphor for the role of a man at home, it can also be understood as a man who is angry at both ends.
After watching the TV series or novels, have you noticed that Li Yaping did not play the role of a double-sided tape from the beginning to the end. When his mother always provoked his daughter-in-law to be bad, he did not do it for Lijuan More than half of the sentence had a practical rebuttal, and when Lijuan was dissatisfied with his mother, he did not comfort and enlighten her from the perspective of a husband.
He has been indoctrinated by his mother's ideas, and he poured all his anger and resentment on his wife, always believing that it was Lijuan's fault. Maybe apart from his own job, his emotional intelligence was low, and his filial piety caused him to The final tragedy happened. The saddest thing about
is that Lijuan used Lijuan's love for him to have a baby for his dying father. An idiot who can only solve problems by force, ruined his beautiful life and his lover with one hand.
Let's take a look at what sighing things Li Yaping has done.
is a mother and father! I always open my mouth and shut my mouth and say good things about my mother and my father. I always feel that my wife should be filial to his father and mother. What about himself, is he crippled? It wasn't his wife who raised a pile of shit and urine, it was himself, but he could calmly watch his mother support his wife, just like a donkey or a mule bought by his own family.
Second is I don't know what it is! I won't talk about the fundraising. Seeing how he laughed and asked Lijuan for money to raise funds, I felt that he really had no common sense. Maybe it was because I had some understanding of finance.
has a short-sighted IQ, so after his father got lung cancer, he could only be slaughtered by a quack doctor. He did not listen to Hu Lijuan's advice, did not seriously understand the plan, and of course had no medical knowledge. He played a technical otaku who was not down-to-earth and did not understand life, and his acting skills were good.
The third is rectal cancer, impulsive man! His mother said that Hu Lijuan was not a human being, and he didn't know how to stop him, so he rushed to strangle his wife's neck. When Hu Lijuan was strangled to death, he knew that he insisted on calling the hospital to save his mother. And besides showing impulsiveness and anger, he basically has no meaningful actions.
Fourth is filial piety! His father said he lacked a grandson, so he went to sow. He was very superstitious, actually believing that the aborted child took away his father's health and his wife's happiness.
His wife's pregnancy itself is his plan, the purpose is just to make his father feel at ease and close his eyes, after his wife is pregnant, he ignores it and doesn't even hug him, and no matter how the wife arranges after confinement.
asked his cousin Yujie to take care of his daughter-in-law, knowing that his cousin and his mother are obviously not on the same level as pregnant women, and they don't get along at all, and they don't have the same living habits. He insisted on letting them take care of his wife.
Taking care of her is originally a pleasant thing, and it makes people feel that comfort is the first thing, but that Jade Sister obviously regards angering her wife as a pleasure, and chats with her mother-in-law played by Li Mingqi and as a pleasure.
This northeastern man is unaware of what happened at home. He only believes in his mother, even his cousin, and cannot see his wife's thoughts.
What's even more hateful is that they kept Lijuan in the room and suffocated, and they didn't let Lijuan touch the child at all, and the three of them were carrying the child, but he, as a husband, didn't go to the room to see his wife at all, and ask his wife's mean.
Dare to love a wife is just a tool for fertility. After giving birth to a child, you can throw it away and leave it alone! It's really chilling to see! As a mother-in-law, you should understand that when your son gets married, he has a small family of his own. He and his wife are "we". The two of them form a new family. In the future, the parents of both parties will be the guests.
She is wrong The mistake is that you shouldn't always think of other people's homes to occupy the magpie's nest, obviously taking advantage of others, but always want to change the lives of others who already have a tacit understanding, you must let others live according to her way of life;
and other generals It's because she stretches her hand too far. She must force her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law's family to take care of the affairs of her own daughter's house. There is no normal mother's mentality of wanting her child to be happy, but instead she has provoke her daughter-in-law in front of her son from the very beginning.
After her son and daughter-in-law had a conflict, she openly said that she would not be allowed to come back, and she did not mean to respect the life of the young couple at all. This behavior also made her son have no such awareness.
The daughter-in-law's family gave money to help buy a house, and even the old lady's daughter actively supported it when she needed money, and even paid Lijuan's father-in-law to see a doctor. These are all things Lijuan persuaded her parents to help.
But Mrs. Li, no matter how much her daughter-in-law has done, no matter how much her in-laws have helped her family, she never said a good word, which finally led to such an ending. I don't know if she yearned for it wholeheartedly.
The old lady is very good at acting, and she often acts in front of her son, but behind her back, so Li Yaping only sees that his daughter-in-law treats his mother "badly", not the old lady's torturing of her daughter-in-law. For example, the son eats meat at home, and the son eats leftovers when he is away. The old lady
is also very capable of doing this. The breakup of several homes can be said to be the culprit.
The old actor Mr. Li Mingqi played very well. She made the kind of rural mother-in-law who thinks she is very good and dedicated to instruct her daughter-in-law to do things at any time.
3. Hu Lijuan's soft-hearted hurt her indirectly
Finally, let's look at our tragic heroine, objectively speaking, she is also at fault, what is wrong with Lijuan as a daughter-in-law? From the very beginning, she clearly showed her hostility towards her mother-in-law. In fact, this is also related to her straightforward and somewhat naive personality. Her personality is very public and outspoken, especially when she clearly cares about others, but blindly shows a knife mouth tofu. Heart.
had several head-to-head confrontations with her mother-in-law. It seemed that Hu Lijuan had the upper hand, but in fact she just talked happily. The final winner was still her mother-in-law, and she made her husband hate her even more and stay away from her.
There are also things that are clearly beyond their ability and should not be promised to others. Knowing that her husband's family has no ability to do business, they still persuade her mother to invest money in Li Yaping's sister. As a result, her family's family is destroyed.
Her soft heart is also inseparable from her tragic ending. In fact, any normal woman would get divorced when Li Yaping strangled her to death for the first time. But Hu Lijuan didn't file for divorce, but she felt sorry for Li Yaping to bear such a family alone (doesn't think about the family's willingness), she couldn't bear to let him face it alone, and continued to live under the same roof with him with such a mentality.
later became pregnant, she knew that Yaping was just using her to give birth to a child to fulfill her filial piety, but she still chose to be obedient, still not divorced, and continued to aggrieve herself and let them do the trick, resulting in bigger and more conflicts .
Her soft-heartedness, her tolerance and withdrawal, the result of unprincipled obedience over and over again, the profit is what led to Yaping's final outburst. , On the contrary, she regarded her as an enemy, and even the thorn in the flesh was finally pulled out quickly.
All in all, Hu Lijuan's death is very scary! It also made the audience feel cold all over.
In fact, it is normal for two generations to have a generation gap. They have completely different consumption concepts and living habits. They should understand and respect each other, and minimize conflicts as much as possible.
This may be a revelation we can see from this, although the price of understanding it is so heavy.
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