Different from the novel, why does "The Disappearing Child" end like this?

's "Gone Child" is somewhat different from the ending of the novel "Sea Anemone".

Judging from the creation of the whole play, the play is quite faithful to the original work, and several lines and the previous situation and consequences of each character are fully explained.

even did a pretty good cinematic treatment on some plots and characterizations.

However, I didn't expect that at the end, "Gone Child" is like this -

is different from the original novel, everything points to light and warmth.

"Sea Anemone" is, in the end, the story of a bad boy.

all kinds of hints, kindness, is the initiator and behind-the-scenes of the whole missing drama.

Of course, this was also filmed in the TV series, but it was not shown at the end of the main feature of "Gone Child". The main creator of

explained that he still wanted a good ending to give people confidence.

is like "Dear Child", which is a bloody and cruel torture. In the end, everything is fine. Although

has reservations about this treatment, I have to say that "Gone Child"'s discussion of the original family and 's family education 's thinking are quite touching.

01 Yuan Wu: Doting and killing

Yuan Wu is probably the least likable character in the play.

He's so decadent.

is a famous university, with a good wife and daughter, why did you gamble on it?

Many people don't understand: why are you, you go out to find a job!

father is dead, why don't you call 110?

tossed for so long, moved bricks, hid corpses, lied, and finally leaked water. Thousands of dollars were spent on it. What are you drawing?

is right, in the logic of normal people, every choice Yuan Wu makes is so stupid and difficult to understand.

but in Yuan Wu's world, everything is reasonable .

He was raised by his parents, especially his mother, who did everything for him.

He can't communicate, can't fall in love. When

arrived at the university, her mother had to live nearby in advance to find out the situation of her roommates.

is about to have a blind date, and she needs her mother to come forward and practice all her rhetoric.

He was spoiled so much that he didn't have the ability to live independently, he couldn't think independently, he didn't know the world, and he couldn't handle the relationship between people.

In his world, there are almost only those few people, parents, wives and daughters, and nothing else.

Yuan Wu's only considerations and habits of doing things come from their .

Therefore, Xu Anzheng threatened him with the words of his wife and children, which made him almost make a big mistake.

But at the same time, thanks to the kindness and integrity of the people he was close to, who gave him the right guidance, he was able to find his way back later.

Yuan Wu's only main line is quite meaningful. The life of

is like a game of cards. Someone grabs a good hand, opens high and walks low for , and they play sloppy, while

grabs a bad hand, but they are calm and calm, and they can turn the tables against the wind.

Destiny is only responsible for shuffling the cards, we are the ones who really play the cards.

This is the only one, Yuan Wu said it neatly.

is what he finally realized after going through so much.

Like Wei Chen said, Yuan Wu is addicted to playing cards, not just escapism.

deeper reasons, he is looking for a break. When he plays poker, if there are good cards, he will indulge and forget the unhappiness of life.

And if his luck is bad, he'll be glad - my real life is good, not bad, compared to this bad hand.

Too many things must be learned to face.

The mother did not tell him how to face death and face his own departure.

's "Gone Child", one of the reasons why Yuan Wu didn't call 120 after his father's death was also because that year, when his mother was in a car accident, he called 120, but he still failed to stop her from leaving.

He has a knot.

, as the police officer suspected, just for money is not enough to answer why Yuan Wu concealed his father's death.

's more invisible motivation is that Yuan Wu doesn't know how to deal with the departure of his loved ones.

So, after going through all the life-threatening situations that we think are ridiculous, Yuan Wu finally completed his coming-of-age ceremony.

That's right, every child grows up by himself. No one else can replace .

02Chu Ping, wrapped in love, whether it is good or bad

Lin Chuping has many people who love her. His brother and his sister-in-law take great care of her.

When she encounters someone who is sexually assaulted, she can tell her brother without any scruples, which clearly shows the closeness of the relationship between and .

And the elder brother learned what happened to his younger sister, and silently investigated, trying to help her find the real murderer, and let her go through this period.

not only that, but the brother also feels guilty for not taking good care of himself. He gave Lin Chuping great support and reliance.

But you will be shocked by Xu Anzheng's confession when you see the episode of "Gone Child".

Chu Ping's lack of scheming under the care of her relatives has actually become a premise for her murder.

Xu Anzheng said:

"She easily accepts goodwill from strangers without speculating whether there is any other conspiracy behind it"

The theory of victim guilt is quite outrageous, but I have to say that Xu Anzheng did point out a The fact is that who grew up in a harmonious and warm family and beside loved ones who are full of love must be sunny, positive, kind and beautiful.

Only when a person receives enough nourishment from love can he give back and give love. The interesting thing about

is that Yu Wenwen, the actor of Chu Ping, admitted that if it were her, she would not be able to make such a brave move as Chu Ping.

And the reason why Chu Ping was able to face it bravely later, tell the police about what happened, and get out of the haze, has a lot to do with the help and encouragement of the people around her. In addition to her brother,

also includes a male colleague who admires her.

He was consistent with her and offered ideas to help her get through this hurdle.

Love is the cure for everything.

03 Good boy? Bad boy?

The most different point from the novel is that "The Disappearing Child" directly changed the intention of grace into an accidental tragedy. In the

drama, Enhuai just "screwed it up". In the

drama, the Yang Mo family, which was not harmonious in the original novel, was downplayed. After Yang Mo was lost and found, Yang Mo's parents seemed to have an epiphany and knew how to respect their children, not to force them, and to move in the direction of perfection.

Tong Dawei, who plays Yang Mo's father, said: "Love should not be restraint, but tolerance and acceptance."

But in real life, it's easier said than done.

"Sea Anemone" points out more truthfully: when 's day-to-day burnout hits, everything goes back to normal.

Of course, "Gone Child" still retains a dialogue between Father Yang and Enhuai.

that is: , no matter how good you are, it cannot replace Yang Mo. If Yang Mo is really gone, every time I see you, I will think of her.

This is true, and in my opinion, it is also a philosophical education for Enhuai: Everyone is unique, and no one can be replaced by another.

Looking back at the role of Enhuai, she has not enjoyed normal parental care since she was a child, and she is seeking a shelter of love.

makes people think of "Punishment"The fourth child, who went astray just to heal his unfortunate childhood. How do

treat their children?

don't have if you're not ready to raise kids. Not only the mother's preparation, but also the father and the people around him, whether they can help take care of and nurture the children, and whether they can provide a loving environment.

Otherwise, the mother will easily fall into depression.

Children cannot be well cared for.

Don't spoil it, pull the seedlings to help.

parents are just guides. Don't force your child to breathe.

The balance between cultivating self-reliance and giving love is extremely difficult to balance.

, whether it is the grace in the film or Yang Mo, gives a great warning.

are both parents for the first time, and they are all on the way to learn. Don't think that you are an authority as a parent .

This is the most important thing, what do you think?