In " Dear Life ", what do you think of Li Junxiao, who became the attending doctor by relying on his sister to "help his younger brother"? It should be said that he has been working very hard and has a certain sympathy. On the other hand, his heart is also quite distorted. Because of poverty, he has low self-esteem and good face, and even interferes with his sister's emotional life for the sake of decency.
's girlfriend Du Di is so good, he still persuades her to give up her career, get married and have children. And Du Di has always been disliked by his grandmother and father because he is a girl. At the age of 18, she changed her discriminatory name Du Di. Du Di is the Caesar of her own destiny. Breaking up is so smart.
Studying medicine is very hard. A rural child with mediocre talent like Li Junxiao can only get out of it by redoubled efforts, without more experience to complete the adjustment of cognition. The original cognition in his concept is not only outdated, but must also undergo the baptism of "urbanization". The arrival of her sister is a test. There is nothing wrong with being diligent and thrifty in the countryside, but the hospital's system for the items left by patients is also necessary. After all, it is a high-risk area for viral and bacterial infection.
Li Junxiao felt that it was embarrassing for his sister to resell the discarded items, but her sister used a similar method to ensure that he finished university, so what could he do?
Every child who goes to college from a rural area does not owe a "debt of kindness" to relatives and neighbors. If you marry a city girl, even if you have no debt of gratitude, it is impossible to cut off the "local love". The cultural differences between urban and rural areas will directly lead to "cognitive conflict", and neither side is wrong. There is really nothing wrong. Nowadays, there are still "identity differences" between people, which is much better than the origin theory in the era of struggle. The peasant hukou is still different from the urban hukou. The social pension in the city cannot be implemented in the same way in the countryside. If there is raising children to prevent the elderly, there will be patriarchal preference. It is said that Li Junxiao is very scumbag, is it possible to leave some leeway? It is really difficult to go beyond the influence of the environment. When talking about friends, you must be clear that if you marry him, he is not a person, and he cannot be a person who is not related by blood for you. He has more people to repay, this debt is hidden, and you don't agree with him being ungrateful, right? There are not only hormones in marriage, but also the need for like-minded, mutual fulfillment ability (not just desire) is related to the quality of marriage in the future.
Li Junxiao's sister is a willing "brother-assisting demon", which sets Li Junxiao the clearest female yardstick. Li Junxiao's machismo is primitive, how can Du Di endure it.
Wu Congrui's first marriage is also very typical, and women start from worship is the most common one. The disadvantage is that it is easy to ignore some aspects that you should care about most, and one of the risks of marrying a scholar is "boring or indifferent". Scholars are too focused on their interests, and they will inevitably pay less attention to their wives.
Wu Congrui's husband may be a good person, but if it is boring or indifferent, can everyone endure it? Since it begins with worship, the husband must be a capable person, and he can definitely rely on it financially, and even gain something academically. The reasons for Wu Congrui's divorce cannot be said to be insufficient, but if he turns to Li Junxiao, it will most likely be even worse. In reality, at least in reality, differences and distortions of perception can be more deadly than dullness (or indifference). The conflict is even more terrifying because two people are right in their respective positions.
Wu Congrui is suspected of being surrounded by external forces, the blow of marriage failure, competition with Du Di, Li Junxiao's sweet words, the shadow of miscarriage, the desire for children... Wu Congrui is just like her husband said, kind-hearted, but not mature enough . In the judgment of
marriage and love, it depends on the "invariant". The longer it stays the same, the more reliable it is. What the family of origin has shaped for two decades is hard to shake. The so-called exposing the worst side to her is not as sincere as she imagined. After all, between two lovers, some things cannot be hidden.
Children like Li Junxiao have chosen to develop in the city, can't they marry a city girl? Not really.
The city is a contract society, and the meaning of starting a family is an "atomic" family. Talk to the girl about the principles of how you deal with relatives. With an account on the balance sheet, it is impossible to be ungrateful. Since you have chosenDoctors are also responsible for reminding each other of what they can afford, such as urban housing prices and education, and what they cannot afford.
Honesty is the foundation, if two people eliminate unrealistic desires. And have a plan for possible economic improvement opportunities, so that the other party understands you and understands you. Even if you draw "pie", let the girl distinguish the line between commitment and " painting cake ". People are good-looking, and they are already the attending doctor. If you let go of your burdens, there is nothing to feel inferior.
Du Di is quite fortunate. She has superb skills and has learned from famous masters. Of course, she won it herself. Not only did Du Di have a kind little best friend, but he also met a straightforward guy like Liu Nianbai.
Du Di is hot on the outside and hot on the inside, and they all say that her emotional intelligence is not high, and she often causes doctor-patient accidents. But she has a full sense of justice for maintaining the dignity of women. She seems to be cold in her persistent pursuit of Liu Nianbai, but in fact she has a degree of advance and retreat.
Liu Nianbai is like a kite in her hand, there is a distance, but she can always feel her tension. Arm-wrestling made the male doctor lose. He put on lipstick, and the "Tianshan Cloud Palm" he used to protect his best friend made Liu Nianbai completely "handsome". Of course, Du Di in the operating room is even more "handsome".
And when Liu Nianbai was heartbroken for his mother, Du Di also showed moderate tenderness. The charm value needs to be reflected in the focal length, exposure, etc., and everything is just right. The best display is to let the other party start from a misunderstanding and gradually discover your advantages. The more indirect the better, the best friend said that she must have excited Liu Nianbai for several nights. Men are so "cheeky". Du Di's strategy is worth learning.
Note: The pictures are from the Internet and are only original texts.
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