Zhang Zhilin's first talk about parenting in the program, I have an epiphany why people should read more


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今天是精读君陪伴你终身成长的第3262


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最近,《披荆斩棘的哥哥》正在热播,前几期的宿舍生活中,哥哥们话起Homely, chat about some unknown past events.


Zhang Zhilin knew that Lee Seung-hyun was debuting as a trainee, so he asked him: "Is it very difficult to train as a trainee?"


Lee Seung-hyun said: "It is difficult, every day I dance from morning to night, except for eating and dancing, just I keep practicing like this."



He admitted that he was a lucky one and made his debut after being a trainee for three years. Many people practiced for five or six years or more before making their debut, and some people have practiced for many years without a chance to debut.


Zhang Zhilin asked again: "Do you think that you can make your debut because of more effort or talent?"


Li Chengxuan answered without hesitation: "Work hard!" Yes, but effort is more important. To achieve achievements at the top of the pyramid, you must first have talent, and then focus on talent and put in more effort.


Zhang Zhilin's 15-year-old son Zhang Mutong has always wanted to debut as a trainee. In his opinion, as long as you practice hard, you can make your debut.


But this is not the case. Zhang Zhilin agrees with Lee Seung-hyun's point of view very much, and hopes that he can find a chance to have a meal with his son and tell Zhang Mutong these truths as a past person.



At this time, Chen Xiaochun also joined the chat group, following Zhang Zhilin's words, and chatted about the topic of parenting.


Everyone agrees that parents don't have to deny what their children want to do at once, they can help them, give them more experience, and find their talents.


Finally, Zhang Zhilin added: "(The premise is that the book must be read."


Especially Chen Xiaochun, because he has suffered from not reading, he can better appreciate the benefits of reading more.


He added that culture is the most basic cultivation, and a person with cultural knowledge has his own temperament.



Nowadays, Internet celebrities are in power, and the impetuous society has accelerated everyone's anxiety, making more and more young people eager for quick success and want to take shortcuts.


But whether it can go a long way on this road, in the final analysis, depends on one's own strength and character.


And all of these need to be obtained through reading.


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What can you learn from the above story?


① Garbage in, garbage out.


Intensive Reading Jun General Knowledge Dictionary mentions a word called input, which is a concept corresponding to output, referring to: any form of information that enters the system .


"garbage in, garbage out." It is an information theory point of view. The English text is: Garbage in, Garbage out.


This means that the input quality of determines the output quality of . You are what you read, you are made by what you read.


For example, for a contemporary ordinary person, the understanding of the specific knowledge of mobile phones is far more than the sages, such as Confucius , Socrates and so on.


The reason is very simple. Although Confucius and Socrates were smarter and wiser than us, they were limited to input. At that time, when mobile phones were not produced, naturally they did not know mobile phones, and it was difficult to imagine the motives of mobile phones.


②The premise of accelerated growth is the continuous high-quality input.


There is a " entropy increase law " in physics, which means: isolated closed system always tends to entropy increase , and finally reaches the maximum state of entropy, that is, the most chaotic and disordered state .


where " entropy " is a measure of how chaotic the system is. In other words, , if it is to remain in order, the system must remain open, meaning there is constant input.


is analogous to human self-growth. If there is no continuous high-quality input, individual growth will stagnate or even regress.


Yang Qihan has a point of view: "Your energy distribution reflects what level of people you are". In essence, what kind of input you put your time on determines who you are. Bacon said more classically: what is learned becomes character.


The "reading" mentioned by Zhang Zhilin in the program is actually a kind of input.


The reason why reading is important is that input is a prerequisite for accelerated growth. If a person cannot complete basic education, he will definitely encounter a lot of trouble in the future.



Actor Hao Lei once told a very "terrifying" story in an interview, Zhang Songwen told her that her friend's children were not good at studying, so the friend asked Zhang Songwen to send his children to the film academy .


They believe that being an actor is an easy and quick money thing.


And Hao Lei herself has such friends.


She said very excitedly: "How can people who can't read books understand the script, let alone present it? Are we very illiterate?" .


③How to enter?


"Apply what you have learned, learn first if you need it urgently, and use it now" is one of the input strategies.


means that if you encounter a problem at the moment, look for a knowledge solution to this problem.


This program, regardless of discipline, any discipline knowledge, as long as it helps to solve this problem, will be used, learn and use now.


The key here is,Don't rush to learn a subject systematically, but take the part of the knowledge that is helpful for solving the problem at hand.


This problem-centered, task-centered learning method is also a practice advocated in modern education. It can combine learning motivation, utility, time limit, feedback, etc. to complete the learning curve a typical process. If


is done well, it will improve our sense of achievement and self-confidence, and stimulate our enthusiasm for learning in the next stage, thus forming a virtuous circle.


Of course, this is just one of the input strategies, we can't just have this strategy.


More often, we need to keep thinking about what is the knowledge structure that we need to master in this life, and study it in a planned and systematic way.


input in this direction, our cognitive depth can be improved, and the pattern will become larger.


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