" Zhen Huan Biography " the whole drama is down, Zhen Huan gave too many things, so big that he gave the throne to the fourth brother; Duanfei , Jingfei gave his daughter; Su Peisheng gave his daughter-in-law... small to Send bonsai to concubines; send warmth and care to eunuchs and palace maids.
Zhen Huan gave every gift just right, which made people convince, and helped her step by step, and finally became the champion of palace fighting. Counting these gifts fully reflects Zhen Huan's interpersonal methods, different people, the importance of gift selection, and the key to gift-giving timing, and each time she can benefit from it.
did not hesitate to send Luo Zidai to be favored by the emperor
Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang are two sisters who are bound by interests. The two formed a small gang in private, and negotiated to compete for favor together. Of course, in the eyes of the emperor, the two are sisters with deep love . When Meizhuang was banned from her false pregnancy, the empress dowager, who had always had high expectations and love for Meizhuang, was very angry. The emperor took anger at Zhen Huan because of this. Zhen Huan asked to see the emperor several times but was rejected.
At this time, Zhen Huan realized the seriousness of the problem. There were three thousand beauties in the emperor's harem, and she forgot about her after a few days of seeing her. If she fell out of favor, it was impossible to save Sister Mei from turning over. "Meeting three points of love", the emperor must think of her and take the initiative to see her.
At this time, Zhen Huan thought of Aunt Fang Ruo. She was a person who walked in front of the royal family. She stayed by the emperor's side all the year round. share.
So, Zhen Huan found Aunt Fangruo and gave her two things: the gold bracelet that she carried, and a box of Luozidai.
What needs to be noted here is that these two gifts from Zhen Huan represent two meanings: Aunt Fangruo has no shortage of gold bracelets, but she took it from her own hands and sent it out fresh and warm. Luo Zidai is very precious and rare, only three boxes of tribute are paid a year, only the queen, Hua Fei and Zhen Huan have it. Aunt Fangruo is also a woman, how can she not like it.
These two gifts are: affection and preciousness.
Aunt Fangruo had been in the palace for several years, and she was most at ease by observing her words and figuring out the holy will, and she naturally understood Zhen Huan's intentions when she saw things. In this way, Aunt Fangruo just used Luo Zidai to make her eyebrows, and then walked around in front of the emperor a few times, so that the emperor with unique aesthetics and discerning eyes saw it, and then remembered Chunyuan , and immediately read Zhen Huan, and realized that It's really not right for him to anger Zhen Huan.
is like this, Zhen Huan is once again favored. Rely on this gift to save yourself from danger.
One gift at a time and three birds with one stone turn passive into active
"Whether it can be tolerated by a mother, can be tolerated by a mother is a concubine's ability!" Zhen Huan confronted Concubine Hua head-on for the first time, and it was also the first time that she took the plan With Concubine Hua, it was Concubine Hua and Cao Guiren secretly to frame Zhen Huan, but Zhen Huan was already prepared, since she gave Cao Guiren a gift, it was her set.
Zhen Huan also gave Cao Guiren two things this time: an apron for her daughter Wen Yi, and a box of honey. This is a gift on the surface. When she gave the gift, she showed weakness to Cao Guiren on the surface, but actually meant to win over Cao Guiren. Cao Guiren and Zhen Huan were originally two rival groups. She was also very careful about the gifts Zhen Huan gave. Naturally, she threw away the bellyband, but the honey box incense was too precious. People like Cao Guiren who didn't have any favors didn't have such good things at all. . She didn't want to throw it away, but she used it.
Because Cao Guiren started to use honey box incense, Zhen Huan smelled the incense from Huanbi again, so she knew that the ghost beside her was Huanbi, and she knew the reason why she had been tricked before, and speculated that they would be next small movements. So Zhen Huan decided to do it, and instead let Concubine Hua fall into her trap.
If it wasn't for Zhen Huan's arrangement in advance, this time she secretly went to see Shen Meizhuang, and she would definitely be taken by the emperorThe idea that she is the accomplice of Meizhuang's false pregnancy will never be washed away. It was this time to give gifts to Cao Guiren. First, it made the inner ghost Huanbi around him show its true shape; second, it attracted Cao Guiren; Therefore, although this honey box incense is precious, it is worth it no matter how you look at it.
gift-giving on the surface, in fact, secretly check the environment away from right and wrong
Zhen Huan sent An Lingrong a lot of gifts, clothing accessories and earrings, etc. Most of these things are meant to win over, until finally Zhen Huan returned to the palace from Ganlu Temple, and An Lingrong After the complete confrontation with the Queen, Zhen Huan only gave An Lingrong one gift, and this time it was almost a life-and-death contest between the sisters Xiri.
An Lingrong was taken by the queen to take advantage of her risk to conceive a child in order to save her father, who had been mischievous outside the palace. Because An Lingrong had done too much contraception before, it was impossible for her to give birth to a child. This pregnancy was also triggered by medication, and the child was destined to abort in a few months. The queen wanted to blame Zhen Huan for the child's death.
Zhen Huan had long been vigilant about the calculations of the queen and An Lingrong. She hardly ever went to see An Lingrong alone, but she stayed far away. She brought several gifts: jade called "pigeon's blood"; a fan. Judging from these two gifts, they were "chosen with heart", just to let An Lingrong know how little Zhen Huan paid attention to and didn't want to see her. Others explained that what Zhen Huan gave was "cutting blood", and the fan indicated that it was getting cold. It's also very interesting. In short, this gift is not expensive, has no intention, and has a bad meaning.
However, this time Zhen Huan went to see An Lingrong, and the second thing she wanted to do was to find out the truth. Zhen Huan brought his own special imperial physician Wei Lin, and also asked Xiao Yunzi to inquire about the place where Anling Rong Fangxiang was located. In the end, Wei Lin brought back the information that An Lingrong was already burning mugwort, indicating that he was about to have a miscarriage; Xiao Yunzi brought back aphrodisiac incense, which confirmed the fact that An Lingrong used incense to confuse the emperor.
This gift, she did not do much on the surface, except to make An Lingrong unhappy; more to inquire about the environment, look at the facts, when she knew that An Lingrong's child could not be born, she was even more convinced Oneself to leave the place of right and wrong. In addition, she also took the initiative to use An Lingrong's aphrodisiac incense and finally killed An Lingrong herself.
and Zhen Huan learn gift-giving wisdom, how to apply it in real life
Zhen Huan's request for Fang is like aunt Luo Zidai, she is really asking people to do things. In real life, we have many similar situations and often don't know how to choose gifts and deal with them. We can learn from Zhen Huan, first of all, we must not be stingy with the value of gifts, secondly, we must meet the other party's preferences, and the most important thing is to let the other party move smoothly and not be too difficult.
Situation 2: How to make friends, deal with feelings, how to give gifts?
In fact, the most important thing about giving gifts is not that when asking someone to do something, it is too utilitarian to exchange one gift for another, so daily communication is very important. In the process of getting along with people, Zhen Huan always attracts her partners, and always thinks about the favor, so that she will eventually become the winner. Seeing that Concubine Hua and Cao Guiren were on the brink of death, she gave Princess Wenyi to Concubine Duan, so that Concubine Duan also had the joy of family relations, and Concubine Duan was also the person who helped Zhen Huan the most; My brother cried bitterly, so he asked Imperial Doctor Wen to treat the disease, which made Xiao Yunzi grateful and loyal to serving him all his life. It can be seen that nothing is given away for nothing.
So, whether you say that Zhen Huan is well-intentioned or that she is kind-hearted, she has benefited a lot from the help and small gifts in these daily interactions.
Situation 3: How to give gifts to elders and superiors?
Zhen Huan's elders and superiors are nothing more than emperors and queensAnd the queen mother. For these three, Zhen Huan's gifts were very thoughtful. The empress dowager prays to Buddha all the year round, and Zhen Huan went to copy the scriptures for the empress dowager. In fact, the empress dowager wanted to see if the young concubine could calm down. Zhen Huan was very quiet. It can be seen that gifts to elders and honorable people do not need to be expensive. They don’t have any good things. In addition to expressing their hearts, they also reflect the advantages that their loyal counterparts want to see.
gave the queen a gift. Zhen Huan knew that she wouldn't like anything she gave, and it was already a secret comparison, so she would give beads to felt flowers as soon as possible. Just do it.
sent the emperor, Zhen Huan chose personal items such as bedclothes and sachets, mainly because she regarded the emperor as a close person. This is also very in line with practical needs, and just right.
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