Xiaowei is driving in the village and hangs a banner to ask for the dowry money video screenshot
Zhang Hao Cao Xuejiao, a reporter from Chutian Metropolis Daily
"I have been engaged to me for more than a month, and I have received hundreds of thousands of yuan in dowry from my family and will not return it... "Recently, a video of a young man in Shangqiu City, Henan driving a banner to ask his ex-fiancee to ask for the return of the bride price has attracted attention. On September 13, the client Xiaowei told Jimu News that the court had ruled that the former fiancee had to return 120,000 yuan of the dowry money, but the woman’s family had not paid back the money, so he used a loudspeaker to broadcast in the village where the former fiancee’s home was located. The money is still borrowed.
The woman repented of the marriage but did not return the dowry
The young man was driving and hanging a banner asking for
In a video, the young man was driving a car with a banner hanging on the car that read "×××, ××× give me back 180,000 dowry". There was also a loudspeaker on the hood of the car broadcasting: "I've been engaged to me for more than a month, lied to my family for hundreds of thousands of dowry gifts, and is unwilling to return it..."
On the 13th, the client Xiaowei told reporters that he and the woman Gao Hua (pseudonym) They are both from Shangqiu, Henan. They met through a matchmaker in February last year. At that time, he was 25 years old. He was an "older man" in the countryside. His parents were very worried about his marriage. After knowing each other for less than a month, they finalized their marriage and officially got engaged on March 1 last year. When they got engaged, Xiaowei's family first gave Gao Hua 160,000 yuan as a dowry gift, and then transferred 11,800 yuan to Gao Hua as a box-pressing gift. In addition, Xiaowei's parents also gave thousands of yuan for meeting and gifts according to local customs. The total amount of betrothal gifts is 179,000 yuan.
Xiaowei said that because he was a migrant worker, the two kept in touch through WeChat after they got engaged, and soon felt Gao Hua's indifference. "Sometimes she suddenly blocked me." Xiaowei said, in the end, the two of them couldn't talk anymore, and Gao Hua said to let him go to her house to get back the dowry.
In mid-April last year, Xiaowei went to Gao Hua's house to get back the money for the betrothal gift, but Gao's mother said, "I can get in with my daughter again."
"I didn't get the money back, and then the relationship between the two families completely collapsed." Xiaowei said, Gao Hua replied that he had bought a car for his brother with the dowry money, and then he couldn't contact her again, so he drove to the village to hang a banner. Begging for a dowry scene.
The woman was sentenced to return 120,000 yuan. The
guy applied to the court to enforce
Xiaowei and brought Gao Hua and her mother to court. In July this year, the local court pronounced the first instance judgment in the case.
According to the civil judgment that Xiaowei showed to reporters. The court held that if the parties to the engagement contract requested the return of the dowry paid in accordance with the custom, if it was found that the parties to the engagement contract did not go through the marriage registration formalities, it should be supported. In this case, the plaintiff Xiaowei and the defendant Gao Hua got engaged in accordance with customs, and the two parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities. It is stipulated that the dowry gift that the plaintiff gave to the defendant Gao Hua in accordance with the custom should be properly returned by the defendant. The court ruled that Gao Hua and his mother must return Xiaowei's betrothal gift of 120,000 yuan in cash. After the
verdict was issued, neither Gao Hua nor his family came forward to return the dowry money from Xiaowei's side. In August last year, Xiaowei applied to the local court to enforce the effective judgment, and the court has accepted it.
"I was originally a migrant worker, but I couldn't work well in my heart. In July this year, I went home to deal with this matter." Xiaowei said.
On the afternoon of the 13th, Xiaowei's mother introduced that the reason why Xiaowei got engaged in a hurry at that time was because he felt that his son was getting old, and the matchmaker urged them to make arrangements for the two children as soon as possible, so their family began to prepare for Xiaowei's marriage. bride price.
"Rural people can't afford so many colorful gifts at once. They borrow a lot from relatives and friends, so they are anxious." Xiaowei's mother said that after her son's marriage fell through, Gao Hua and her mother blocked them. Can't find it either.
"In the future, when Xiaowei is friends again, we may let them know more about the marriage for a while." Xiaowei's mother was very annoyed.
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