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Bai Luomei said that in this bizarre world, no one can live a life Gotta go through the clouds. But I always believe that those who have gone through the mist and rain of the Pinghu Lake, the mountains and rivers of the years, and those who have tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and clean. The third aunt of
is the woman who lives vividly and cleanly.
In this drama, whether it's Shao Shang, her mother, or even Concubine Yue, there are many times in life when you have to, as well as times when you choose and accept passively, but only the third aunt always takes the initiative of destiny in own hands. It is also an ability for
to prevent the words "fate to play tricks" in his life dictionary.
The third aunt did not make many appearances, but it was enough to leave an amazing impression. Her name is Sang Shunhua, the daughter of the owner of Bailu Mountain.
There is an academy in Bailu Mountain. In the play, it is the place where scholars from all over the world study. Yuan Shanjian, a great talent in the capital, is a student of Bailu Mountain Academy. Lou Yao also studied here. to study here. The owner of Bailu Mountain is equivalent to the current president of the university.
She has been engaged since she was a child. Her boyfriend is Huangfuyi, her father's student and Yuan Shanjian's teacher. It can be seen that this marriage is because of talent.
However, Huangfuyi doesn't think so, her appearance and talent are top-notch, but her fiancee is mediocre. This is a very important signal, indicating that when he was studying in the academy, he was indifferent to his fiancée.
For people in love, you can guess whether you love an expression or a look or not. Sang Shunhua understood Huangfuyi's knot, but he didn't break it.
Because she knows that men have the stubbornness of men, as long as Huangfuyi doesn't say it, it's not a problem.
For Sang Shunhua, the day has not yet begun to pass smoothly, so she first gave her a bizarre and let her experience all kinds of tastes.
Huangfuyi's family was wiped out by the previous emperor, he wanted to avoid disaster and go to a foreign country, which took seven years. Seven years was enough to change a lot of people and things, not to mention that it was still a few years of war and strife.
Sang Shunhua has not changed, the clansmen have let her break off the marriage, she sticks to the marriage contract, and also stands up to take care of Huangfuyi's family. Not only that, but also to endure difficulties from Huangfuyi's mother.
Does she feel wronged? In her eyes, perhaps this is not a grievance, nor is it unfair, it is her own choice. Because she could choose to break off the marriage, but she didn't, she chose to wait for Huangfuyi's return. After
became the third aunt, she never mentioned the hardships and hard work of the past seven years. Instead, it was her husband who fought for her.
respects his own choices and takes responsibility for his own choices, so there will be no so many grievances and entanglements.
Seven years later, the world will be peaceful, and Huangfu Yi also has a return date agreement. He wants to congratulate his teacher, Sang Shunhua's father, and get married. The double happiness is a good thing, everyone feels that Sang Shunhua has not paid in vain for the past seven years.
But, as Shaoshang said, Sang Shunhua waited for Huangfuyi for seven years, just to impress him and let him get married? No, from Sang Shunhua's point of view, she and Huangfuyi had a marriage contract. When he was in trouble, she was going to fight side by side with him. She did all the two words of love between husband and wife.
However, his father's birthday banquet was held as scheduled, but Sang Shunhua's wedding was not held because Huangfu Yi did not come as scheduled.
Sang Shunhua waited for a day and a night. She must have thought about a lot of things during the day and night. The most important thing is that she has figured out what kind of future she wants.
So, when Huangfuyi came back and wanted to explain everything to her, she was unwilling to listen. It can also be said that there is no need to listen, and Sang Shunhua must know the reason for not returning as promised.
What Huangfuyi can't figure out is that Sang Shunhua can wait for him for seven years, why can't he wait for the last few days late. He thought about this matter for many years and couldn't figure it out, until Ling Budo spoke it out for Sang Shunhua.
The reason for
being late is also very simple. For Huangfuyi, it was his savior's daughter who had an accident. He had to stay to take care of him, which delayed his wedding. This was a dilemma, and he chose to repay his gratitude. . This choice of
Huangfuyi seems to be full of human affection, but in fact it is cold and selfish.
He thinks that Sang Shunhua is too rigid in form and can't figure out Sang Shunhua's choice. In fact, he is kidnapping Sang Shunhua with morality.
's fate was to make fun of Sang Shunhua, but Sang Shunhua was not at his mercy, she jumped out. First, he refused Huangfuyi's explanation, then broke off the marriage, and then found a suitable person to marry.
A series of operations made Huangfuyi not only unable to understand, but also caught off guard, and thus lost a good story of marriage. Maybe at first, Huangfuyi just couldn't figure out why Sang Shunhua didn't listen to his explanation, but later he became obsessed with it, annoyed by Sang Shunhua's resolute divorce.
After hearing Ling Budo's analysis and Yuan Shanjian's persuasion, he regretted it even more. If he had made a decision earlier, he and Sang Shunhua would have a happy future.
However, Yuan Shanjian's remarks made him even more heartbroken. In terms of Sang Shunhua's current life, he is happier than being with Huangfuyi.
does. Sang Shunhua figured out one thing overnight that day, and that was that this orphan girl was an accident of her own making, and Huangfuyi chose to stay and take care of her.
once thought that no matter what it is, it should be made clear face to face, and only after getting a word from the other party can it be considered clear. But later I discovered that this is not the case. Many things do not need to be said. It is enough to look at the results and see the actions.
Even if Huangfuyi was in front of her, crying bitterly and telling the accident about the orphan girl, he had to do it, even if Huangfuyi repeatedly stated that he wanted to marry Sang Shunhua, he would not care about her appearance from now on . As Sang Shunhua, do
believe it or not? To believe, that is to tacitly admit that Huangfuyi's missed appointment is excusable, and if you don't believe it, what is the benefit of listening to these explanations.
So Sang Shunhua chose not to listen, she only looked at the results, the result was that Huangfuyi chose to postpone the return date for the orphan girl, and the orphan girl's accident was caused by herself.
Sang Shunhua chose to break off the marriage, not the result of emotional manipulation. If she was angry with Huangfuyi, she could choose to listen to the explanation and tell her grievance; it was not for any face. If she wanted to save face, she could let Huangfuyi come to the door again. He gave himself enough face. What is that for?
is to stop the loss in time and not let love and marriage become sunk costs . Because Sang Shunhua saw that she was not sure about their relationship, nor did she have any right to choose. There is a saying on the
online that the sand that cannot be held, simply raise it.
Sang Shunhua not only wants to break off the marriage, but also chooses a good marriage for himself. She didn't marry Cheng Zhi on impulse or because of her loss after breaking off the marriage. On the contrary, she chose the right person. Why does
say that Cheng Zhi is the right person?
Cheng Zhi said that he did not marry Sang Shunhua because of his appearance, but why? Of course it is Sang Shunhua's talent. At this point, Sang Shunhua can definitely feel Cheng Zhi's appreciation for her.
Admiration will give birth to love, love will put it in your heart, put it in your heart, then you will feel distressed, this is what love is all about.
Although Huangfuyi said that it was an idea to dislike Sang Shunhua's appearance when he was young, but we also know as well as Shaoshang that in the end he wanted to come back to marry her, which was more moved than admiration. Sang Shunhua sees this point
better than anyone else, the Huangfuyi's missed appointment just proves once again that Sang Shunhua is not that important in his heart . Such a person is not worth marrying.
Sang Shunhua has the ability to see through all this, it is not uncommon, her talent and wisdom are enough to support all this, what is rare is that she can alwaysThe ability to take the initiative in your own hands.
Seven years ago, she defied all opinions and took care of her fiancé's family by herself, which she could afford; seven years later, she decided to withdraw from this relationship, which she could put down.
People who can afford it will not feel wronged, won't be confused, and won't let themselves be passive. It's a pity that Shao Shang learned that his third aunt could afford it, but he didn't learn to put it down.
You can see that the third aunt chose to marry into the Cheng family. In the face of the stupid third uncle that Shao Shang said, she can live a lively and clean life.
Facing love, pick it up high, put it down gently, find the right person to walk through three meals and four seasons together, watch the sun rise and moon set.
(the pictures are all from the screenshots of the TV series "The Bright Star: The Moon Rising to the Sea", if there is any infringement, please contact to delete)
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