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李易峰嫖娼被抓，这两天引爆全网。
a top class suddenly collapsed, which is really surprising.
Now, many people may have two big questions in their minds.
The first one:
is a top-notch superstar, why go to prostitution?
This question puzzles many people.
The second one:
Why would a prostitute be ruined?
This question seems to have an answer, but most people think wrong.
Today, I want to talk about my answer.
If we can have a deeper understanding of this society after eating melons, this melon is not for nothing.
01Li Moon Moon☽
Let me start with the first question:
Why does Li Yifeng want to prostitute?
As we all know, in recent years, many male stars have been ruined by prostitution.
Huang Haibo , Wang Quan'an, Li Yundi, Li Yifeng... go on and on.
And throughout the world, there are countless male stars who have been exposed to prostitution scandals:
Japanese actor Sonomachi Takashi , British "public lover" Hugh Grant , Canadian pop singer Justin Bieber ...
even The well-known "Titanic" male protagonist Leonardo was also revealed to be a "reciprocal whoring".
When the police searched prostitution dens, they also found intimate photos of him and several prostitutes.
You know, no big star is reluctant to go public with his prostitution.
So they must be cautious and careful every day.
But even so, the unlucky ones get caught from time to time.
shows that this behavior is 80% common.
As the old saying goes, whatever exists has a rationale.
If it is common, it may be close to normal human nature.
means that "male stars who visit prostitutes" may be a very normal choice.
This seems confusing.
But if we list the specific doubts and analyze them one by one, we will be surprised to find that:
is indeed very reasonable.
Let's think about from their point of view (please ignore the disrespect for women for now) :
Why don't they find a good girlfriend?
- some star companies do not approve of artists dating.
But that's a secondary factor.
More importantly, they are not satisfied with just one female partner.
Even if this woman is beautiful.
Luo Zhixiang 's girlfriend Zhou Yangqing , Wang Quanan's wife Zhang Yuqi , all belong to the top beauty.
But that doesn't stop them from fucking outside.
Many men's attitudes towards sex are very similar to children's thoughts on toys:
Even if they have the best in the world, they still want to play with things they have never played before.
Ordinary men are okay, even if they are a little restless, but in reality, they look around and find that there are not many opportunities and little temptation, that's all.
but the male stars are different.
They have powerful abilities, they can get more, and they are surrounded by Yingyingyanyan.
You have to let him stay alone, it does need superhuman concentration.
Before Wang Leehom collapsed, I wrote a saying:
"rich, good-looking, single-minded" these three things, the same man can have at most two.
I'm not sure this statement is true, anyway, now Li Yifeng has verified it again.
In short, don't expect a woman to satisfy a male star, it's hard.
Then comes the second option:
The male star has many admirers, how many people dream of being close to them.
If they want to, and they don't pick and choose, why should they go whoring?
This thing is not reliable after a little thought.
Admirers have deep feelings for you, and they will go through fire and water for you even if they have never met.
If this is in bed, that's fine.
You want to sleep on your side, but she can't help herself.
how much effort you have to spend on the aftermath.
And the star lacks energy the most, so they don't dare to provoke fans easily.
If there are not enough girlfriends and no fans, then there are basically only strangers who can solve physiological needs.
There are two kinds of strangers, buddies and prostitutes.
gun friends do not break the law, but it is too difficult to find those who meet the needs of male stars, and it is easy to be exposed after the fact, leaving future troubles.
And high class prostitutes are less of a problem. The
star circle is similar to those of the girls, and it is easier to find.
And then they have skills and spirit of service, they can do what their girlfriends can't.
And they themselves know that the money they make is illegal and dishonorable, so they are not very good at talking about it themselves.
For some male stars, this may be the most worry-free and precise choice.
Of course, the above is reasoning "why do they go to prostitutes", rather than agreeing that they all go to prostitutes.
Prostitution is illegal and must be opposed.
For male stars, my opinion is:
You may indeed have certain needs that are not being met.
But no way, no one can satisfy all their needs.
If you enjoy fame, fortune and scenery, you must bear the corresponding restraint and suffering.
You've got enough, you can't keep thinking about wanting and wanting more.
When people should endure, they still have to endure.
Otherwise, once it crashes, you will regret it.
02 Li Moon ☽
Now comes the second question that needs to be discussed:
Why do male stars get such a heavy punishment for visiting prostitutes?
Or take a step back and say, why is prostitution illegal? In fact, the issue of
has been actively discussed in society.
Some people think that the existence of prostitutes has a positive effect.
For example, if a single man has nowhere to express his desires, he may go to rape.
But if they can find prostitutes, maybe they'll spend some money to fix the problem.
also seems to have a little bit of truth.
But the opposition is undoubtedly louder.
Regarding the dangers of legalizing prostitution, most people would say the following:
- is immoral.
- spreads STDs easily.
- harms women's rights.
- People can't sell their bodies.
has a certain truth, but I don't think it's fundamental.
Let me analyze the possibility of "legalizing prostitution" for a while.
may cause some discomfort.
But everything is clear.
Know more, and the ability to understand is deeper.
eg.
said that visiting prostitutes can lead to the spread of venereal diseases.
does have a statistic that the more prostitutes there are, the more STDs.
But if prostitution is legalized, it can actually be strictly controlled.
can be like a restaurant, requiring practitioners to take a health certificate to work, and conduct regular and strict inspections.
As long as the regulations are strict enough, STDs will not be too widespread.
say "against women's wishes and harm women's rights".
In the concept of many people, prostitutes are forced.
But in fact, if prostitution is legalized, there will be some women willing to take up the profession.
Prostitution is illegal now, and so many women are willing to do it, right?
Of course it can be a little unpleasant to do, but what kind of job is completely happy?
If prostitutes become a legitimate industry, and some women voluntarily sell their bodies and get benefits far beyond ordinary jobs, is this considered a damage to rights?
may be a bit of a problem, but it's not a fundamental problem either.
So next question:
Can people sell their bodies?
The usual answer, of course no.
But let's imagine:
If there is a kindergarten, it needs to be recruitedA kind lady who loves to laugh, hugs children at the door every day.
makes them happy to go to school.
, the whole job of this young lady is to hug the children with her body, and then get income.
Is this a problem?
apparently doesn't.
But does that count as betrayal?
seems to count.
Then comes the problem.
is the same girl, why use her body to hug children to make money, there is no problem.
hug a man to make money, can't you?
The answer is simple:
because one has nothing to do with sex and one has to do with sex.
has little to do with being physically or not.
In fact, car models, window models, dolls, in a certain sense, can be said to be using their bodies to make money.
but no problem at all.
The pictures and texts have nothing to do with
Even if there are children who like them, it is probably no problem to touch them.
But if a man, with erotic thoughts, touches and hugs, then the nature of it will obviously change.
Even if the girl accepts it, the police won't accept it.
because things went from "working" to "sex trading".
is sex and cannot be traded.
Remember this saying, "Sex is not tradable".
This is the fundamental reason why prostitutes should be punished.
So why can't sex be traded?
This is a particularly deep and complex topic.
I try to keep it simple.
From a genetic point of view, the fundamental purpose of each of us in life is to pass on our genes.
If you want to pass on genes, you have to have children.
and sex is an important procedure for having a baby.
So human beings have an innate obsession and obsession with sex.
If sex can be traded, it's easy to get addicted to it.
Men are desperately trying to make some money, then turn around and take it for whoring.
prostitutes and becomes a poor bachelor, and the wife who originally had a family was swept away by his wife.
Then they may have no daughter-in-law for the rest of their lives, no family property, and in the end they will grow old and have nothing to support and die miserably.
This is still good.
If you think about it carefully, , a poor bachelor who has no family and no job and is accustomed to indulgence, is obviously a great factor of social instability.
If he wants to vent but can't get the money, then there is a high probability that there are two options: either steal the money or rape.
finally hurt others and hurt themselves.
And if there is no legal and convenient sex trade, they may not be seduced and can have a better life:
Save money, marry a wife, have a child, live a happy life as a family, everyday people Take care, and someone will take care of you when you are old.
The family is the basic unit of society, its existence and stability areIndividuals are very important.
And once the sex trade is legal, it will greatly impact our current stable small family model, which will lead to the double tragedy of society and individuals.
Also, prostitution is legal, and it will also impact the great cause of " equality between men and women ", which we have been struggling with.
Because most people buy sex, men still pay for women to serve.
If men can spend money to manipulate women's bodies, the status of women can be imagined.
Therefore, in order to prevent men (and a few women) from being unable to carry their human instincts and embarking on a tragic life, the law forcibly cut off their thoughts: money is not allowed to buy sex!
means no prostitution.
It's a bit like banning drugs.
are all voluntary, they all spend their own money to enjoy, and they don't seem to hurt other people. Why not
?
is addictive and irrational because of drugs and sex.
Reasonable people will instinctively do what is right for them.
But people who are irrational may be at the risk of destroying themselves.
Drugs ruined the body.
Prostitution ruins life.
If this "self-injuring" behavior is not strongly stopped by the law, it may become a trend.
, there will be a lot of people taking drugs and visiting prostitutes.
Then their bodies and their lives could be ruined.
Their relatives may be heartbroken, but nothing can pull them back.
- not all, but not all.
So the law must crack down on this kind of "self-destructing" behavior and must not let it become the norm.
The purpose of the law is to protect individuals and maintain social public order.
When individual needs conflict with social interests, they tend to safeguard the interests of society as a whole.
So, even for a certain person, his prostitution is actually not harmful to himself.
such as Li Yifeng and Li Yundi.
is nothing more than to solve their own physiological needs.
That doesn't work either.
Because if they are allowed to go to prostitutes, can the country guys go to prostitutes? Is it okay for migrant workers in the city to go whoring?
The law cannot convict people.
So it has to be one size fits all: no one can prostitute.
even has to be strict with the stars.
because they are role models for society. If
condone them, the society will form a potential consensus: prostitution is normal, celebrities can do it, so can we.
Then more people who "can't afford to prostitute" will go to prostitute.
prostitutes a lifetime of tragedy, implicated the whole society following the tragedy.
So here it goes, you get the idea. Where is the fault of
star who went to prostitutes?
One word: ruin the social atmosphere.
sounds so earthy and empty.
But basically, that's what it is.
though their actions didn't specifically hurt anyone.
but with a bad vibe, it willindirectly hurt others.
so should be punished.
is fine.
03 Li Moon ☽
One last word.
From ancient times to the present, whether prostitution is legal or illegal, in fact, prostitutes have always existed and never stopped.
Explain that sex is indeed a very rigid need for human beings.
And the more so, the more cautious we have to be.
can't just open the libido box.
We have food, playgrounds, beautiful clothes everywhere on the street...
But sex and drugs can't be everywhere.
Because of these two things, can be addicting, crazy, and mind-boggling.
We really can't hold it.
maybe someday.
Our human civilization has reached a very high level.
Most people are rational enough, have strong self-control, and won't sink into low-level desires.
Prostitution can be legal, just like eating out.
But will there be such a day?
Anyway...I don't believe it. If you agree with
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The author of this article: Li Moon. is a popular writer, a new feminist, and a solid writing craftsman. Accompany thousands of readers to grow with reason and wisdom.
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