is the last highlight of " double-sided tape ". The two sides are Hu Lijuan vs Li Yaping and her mother-in-law. The target is Hu Lijuan's son who was conceived in October.
In the end, Hu Lijuan failed miserably. Not only did she not get her son back, she even lost her own life. She died tragically at the hands of Li Yaping, the person beside her.
The poor child, still so young, has experienced the tragic world where his mother was beaten to death by his father, his father was imprisoned, and his grandparents suffered a huge blow.
Hu Lijuan will reach the first step where she can't even save her life. In the eyes of Li Yaping and her mother, Hu Lijuan is the murderer who killed Li Yaping's father, the culprit who made their family unhappy, and the so-called death star.
From the very beginning, Li Yaping's mother had malicious intentions and wanted to take away her grandson and wanted her to turn against Hu Lijuan's mother and son. Once her conspiracy succeeded, the grandson would not be close to Hu Lijuan, and even hated Hu Lijuan. Hu Lijuan, a mother, would more painful. Seeing Hu Lijuan in pain, she was happier.
When his son was half a year old, he would shout: "Milk!" Of course, this milk can be understood as the milk that wants to drink milk, which is Lijuan's interpretation. But no matter what her son's words meant, Yaping's mother always answered proudly and cheerfully, her voice was crisp, and now she was looking at Lijuan proudly and provocatively from the corner of her eyes. At least that's how Lijuan interprets it.
Hu Lijuan can tolerate other things, and she can retreat again and again for Li Yaping's sake. However, as we all know, children are definitely the inverse scales of mothers, and they are the least allowed to touch. Whoever dares to attack her child's ideas and provoke the child's relationship with her, she will be anxious with whomever.
However, what Hu Lijuan never dreamed of was that it was her mother-in-law who had bad intentions and wanted to provoke her son's relationship with her. Li Yaping not only helped her relatives but did not help her, but she could jump over the wall and kill her.
In fact, the arrival of this child was originally a calculation. In order to fulfill his filial piety, it was Li Yaping's most ruthless calculation for Hu Lijuan. In Li Yaping's eyes, Hu Lijuan was never a lover or a wife, but a tool to satisfy the interests of their whole family. Since
is a tool, when you make good use of the tool and let them get the benefits they want, they will still be polite to you, so that you can continue to speak next time. When you don't want to play the role of a tool and don't want to be exploited by them anymore, they treat you as an enemy.
01. The reason why Li Yaping wants a child is mainly because of three points, each of which is a very disgusting calculation;
first understand the background of the birth of this child, you will understand how shameless Li Yaping is, not only is he unworthy of being a husband , not fit to be a father.
Not long after Li Yaping and Hu Lijuan got married, Li Yaping's parents moved into their son's house unceremoniously. Li Yaping's mother is a typical daughter-in-law of the old society. She only works and does not eat, and revolves around the men in her family. Not only does she not feel that this is a devastation to women, she also wants to transform Hu Lijuan into a free nanny for the Li family. This makes Hu Lijuan, who has been the pearl of her parents' palm since childhood, unacceptable, so the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have different views frequently clash.
Li Yaping is a typical mother and treasure boy. In his eyes, filial piety is greater than heaven. No matter what his parents say or do, it is right. He not only has to abide by himself, but also asks Hu Lijuan to abide by him, not to disobey opinion of his parents.
is an evil mother-in-law who is dedicated to transforming her daughter-in-law into a free babysitter, a mother-in-law who can't help her, and her mother-in-law's relationship has deteriorated rapidly.
Then, Li Yaping's family had frequent accidents. After a while, his sister and sister-in-law took the role of the factory manager. They wanted to raise funds, but they couldn't get the money. , In the end, Hu Lijuan relented and went to her mother to borrow 100,000 yuan. As a result, the 100,000 yuan was wasted and she never wanted to come back, which also became a fatal factor that crushed Hu Lijuan's marriage.
At this time, Li Yaping's father was suffering from lung cancer, and his life was not long. Li Yaping ignored the reality and tried his best to save him. The couple had a quarrel over this matter. He didn't even strangle Hu Lijuan to death.
Hu Lijuan escaped from death, returned to her parents' home, and separated from Li Yaping. In fact, at this time, it was the best time for Hu Lijuan to stop the loss in time, and it was also the last chance. decision.
The reason why Li Yaping wants a child at this time is mainly because of three points. First of all, this is his father's last wish. His father's days are running out. In order to fulfill his filial piety, he wants to fulfill his father's last wish.
More than half a month has passed. One day, Yaping's father said while chatting with his family: "I have sons and daughters in my whole life, all of them are very promising, and my grandsons have also met, so I have no regrets. Come on! People live forever, and no one can escape the word 'death' in the end. Before liberation, the average lifespan of a person was only 30 years old. I am almost 60 years old. Ah! If I can hold out until I see my grandson land, then I'm really a car, and if I die, I'll be dead, and I'll be able to close my eyes completely." After he finished speaking, his eyes were full of longing.
Secondly, he thinks that the reason why Hu Lijuan always makes her parents angry is because Hu Lijuan is still young and not a mother, so she doesn't know the hard work of being a parent. Honor his parents.
In the end, Li Yaping is also very clear that his marriage has encountered a huge crisis, and he does not want to divorce or lose everything he has.
listened to my dad tonight, I thought, I want to bring Lijuan back. I always feel that the unhappiness in this part of the family all started with the child who was lost last time. According to superstition, it is bad luck. No matter what kind of person Lijuan is, I want to give birth to a child while my father is still alive. One is to see if I can have another child to change my fortune. Don't they say that they are happy? Maybe the child is here, my father I'm happy, the disease will be cured naturally? Besides, the parent's kindness can only be known by raising a child. Lijuan, she has a bad mouth and a good heart. She has been coddled since she was a child, and she is not very sensible. She has a child and has grown up. Knowing the difficulty of being a mother, she naturally changed her temper. Worst of all, having a child should satisfy my dad's wishes and let him go without regret. You see...?"
That is to say, from the beginning to the end, Li Yaping did not realize that it was his parents who were at fault, and it was him who was at fault. He always thought that Hu Lijuan was at fault, that Hu Lijuan was unfilial, and that Hu Lijuan was inconsiderate. His parents and him.
In his eyes, the child is not a family member, not the crystallization of his love with Hu Lijuan, but a tool for him to honor his parents and keep the existing family. The wish, Li Yaping calculated carefully, and even calculated the days when Hu Lijuan was suitable for pregnancy, so that Hu Lijuan had a son.
02. When your marriage goes wrong, the child will not only not save your marriage, but may become a hindrance to you. The fatal factor of timely stop loss.
"Mom, what nonsense are you talking about! Lijuan replied with a smile, "I didn't plan to divorce him before!" I also agree with this pregnancy. I also want to use this child to repair my relationship with Yaping. It was so sad a while ago! "
However, Hu Lijuan doesn't understand that children are never a tool to save a marriage. When the fate of the two of you is really exhausted, the two of you are really not suitable for being together. Apart from breaking up, leaving in time is the fulfillment of both parties. Besides, there is no other choice. It's just because there is nothing else that caused your marriage to break up, but the problem of your husband and wife relationship.
The husband and wife relationship is the primary relationship and the core of the marriage. Once there is a problem in the husband and wife relationship, such as a husband and wife If the three views are different, no one can convince the other, and can't put all the effort into one place, then your marriage is doomed to be difficult to preserve.
At this point, the child will not only save your crumbling marriage, but will break your marriage road.When you have a child, you will look forward to the future, worry that divorce will have a bad impact on your child, be afraid of being a single mother, and be unwilling to let your child lose a father, so you are tied.
Women, remember, when there is a problem in your marriage, you must keep calm, find the problem, and see if it can be solved or if the fate of the two of you is exhausted, rather than relying on children to solve the problem.
wants children indiscriminately, you are not only cheating yourself, but also the child you gave birth to in October.
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Today's topic: What do you think of Li Yaping's calculation of Hu Lijuan's pregnancy? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.
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