Li Yifeng , there is a lot of information that can be found, and it can be said that it has a lot of reputation. The basic information is an actor, 35 years old, unmarried, not in love, very handsome.
35 years old, not married? Well, it can barely make sense, after all, it is not an ordinary person. 35 years old, not yet in a relationship, well, a little bit...but only a little bit unreasonable. Seven emotions and six desires , everyone has it, do people in the entertainment industry have special abilities? This is a little strange. So why?
Let me start with my opinion. Prostitution is prohibited by the laws of our country. As a 35-year-old adult, Li Yifeng should be clear about this. Therefore, it is understandable that he should bear the corresponding guilt for the mistakes he made.
It stands to reason that the legal marriage age according to official statistics today is more than 30+ years old. There is no need for us to criticize too many unmarried people with 30+ or even 40+ in a special circle.
But, I find it odd, why is this happening?
The law also does not stipulate that people in these occupations should not fall in love or marry. No one can ask them to have a pure heart and few desires, and the six sense organs to be pure.
So what induces this tendency? At the end of the day, it is this society, the society in which we live, and the ideas in our heads that have gone awry.
's concept of marriage and love in the entertainment industry today is very deformed. As a focal person who can affect most young people and has an inexplicable relationship with social life. Whether the tendency brought about by their views on marriage and love is good or bad will definitely have a certain impact on this society. I think there is no doubt about this.
But idols, spiritual pillars, if you watch too much, your speech and behavior will be affected to some extent, no wonder. The strange thing about
is that they feel that they need to appear in front of the public with relatively perfect characters in order to win goodwill and be liked by the society. But everyone knows that the pursuit of perfection and the achievement of perfection, the former is possible for everyone, but the latter is almost impossible.
So some of them concealed, some cheated, some misbehaved, thunder exploded one by one, and the phone screen was swiped every day.
's moral bottom line and legal bottom line have been trampled on again and again, like a decoration. Even if they received the punishment they deserved in the end, the result did not seem to change for the better. This is a problem, but it seems that the general public has not been affected, has not yet woken up from it, or is reluctant to wake up.
Looking at the entertainment industry, those who can fall in love well, and those who can face up to love in the spotlight, seem to be just a Luhan Guan Xiaotong.
Others refute rumors in addition to refuting rumors, which is very abnormal. The state advocates harmonious coexistence between man and nature, and the effect is remarkable. But it seems that there is a problem with human beings themselves, and the harmonious coexistence of people has become an even more insurmountable gap.
I don't know that idols want to be single and almost perfect. This is where Tim's argument is, but at least I don't agree with it. I can't face the shortcomings, the abilities I didn't have, and the yearning for it. If he can show me and support me, he can be my idol, so why should he be perfect? It's normal for
to strive for perfection. But if the pursuit of perfection is covered by filth and embarrassment, it runs counter to the pursuit of perfection itself.
A person's normal desires should be accepted. Emotions and desires should not be acquired, concealed and concealed by means other than the law, nor is it a once and for all solution, facing up is the idol that society needs.
Come to think of it, the average age of marriage that is postponed year by year in society, in addition to the pressure from one's own situation, is somewhat modeled by idols.
The Li Yifeng incident once again rang through the sky as a wake-up call. This is not the first time, but it is certainly not the last time. Paper can't contain the fire, it will only make the burning hotter.
So please face them, please change the perfection you hide. You don't need to swim naked in front of the public, but you need to be real, and you want to be real. Only your works are the most popular capital you need. Instead of creating a relatively perfect deception,
will blind the eyes and make everyone suffer; it is better to be a little truthful, what to do, and to have fun with the people is far more convincing and marketable than duplicity and disagreement. The key is that everyoneTake what you need, more easily.
So-called brokerage companies, studios and fans. Companies may need your perfection to make money for them, and fans may need your perfection to coax them.
but it must not be absolute. People are more willing to accept a professional literary and art provider who has done a good job of themselves, rather than the bad ones. Instead of being brilliant and brilliant before the lights are turned off;
violates morality and is not ashamed; violates the law, is not allowed; violates the original intention, are you willing? If the concept of
is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, then the idols who are pushed to the front desk must be undercurrents under the turbulent turmoil.
Blocking is worse than sparseness. After thousands of years, the truth should be practiced. You know, the perfection of the management is painstakingly planned, and the moment the embankment bursts, the smashed is all looking forward to it. Although
can detect people's hearts from the stars holding the moon to the fingers of thousands of people, but how bloody and cruel is this? Does the society really need such a luxury to use the wrong payment of tens of millions of people in exchange for an opportunity to test people's hearts?
Wake up, participant; wake up, suitor. What you need is not a perfect machine, but a literary and art worker with life and flesh and blood; what we are looking for is not a perfect person, but a positive energy, positive, and daring to ask for the life of the people.
wake up, let the wrong payment be less, the cover-up be less, the society be more harmonious, and the spiritual world a little clearer.
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