text: talk a lot
The halo of a moral model, never successfully kidnapped Liu Ting , stepping on the road traveled by Venus, Liu Ting arranged the male-to-female surgery properly.
said in the cartoon "The Devil Comes into the World": My life is up to me, and it's really not a lie, because in the land of China, some people are human, and they have never made themselves regret, they will not hesitate to At the risk of being cut by a thousand swords and losing her life, she will never show mercy to herself. Liu Ting is one of those ruthless people.
In 1986, in Shuanglin Town, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province, Liu Ting was born. At that time, as a boy, he had not changed his name and changed his gender.
It stands to reason that the Liu family is happy to have a son, so it's a happy event, right?
However, the family has an extra mouth to eat, but his father is worried. It turns out that Liu Ting was laid off not long after Liu Ting was born.
Liu's mother was originally a housewife. The couple had little culture and were forced to make a living, so they could only do hard and tiring physical work.
If a person is too tired, his temper will deteriorate. The husband and wife have a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every week. Liu Ting has become a meat bun between his parents and is occasionally used as a punching bag. The quality of childhood life is not true. high.
Sometimes, the father will also say bad words, saying that his son will spend a lot of money to marry a daughter-in-law in the future.
The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional. The young Liu Ting gradually developed extreme aversion to his gender, and his behavior became more and more feminine.
At that time, Liu Ting, who had just started school, had already learned through relevant reports in the news media that people could have sex reassignment surgery .
So, deep in his heart, he was ready for surgery very early on.
This subtle change is formed over time, and when parents find out, it is too late.
Liu Ting often picks up his mother's rouge gouache to dress himself up. Once, when he entered the boys' bathroom, he was mistaken for a girl and blasted out.
After this incident, Liu Ting was even more convinced that he should be a girl originally.
In addition to the chaotic self-awareness, the things that made the Liu family worse, followed closely.
When Liu Ting was 13 years old, his mother unfortunately got uremia . Faced with high medical expenses, and looking at the living environment of his family, even if his father wanted to sell iron, he would not be able to start.
Once they are forced into a desperate situation, they will become extremely cruel. The husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they will fly separately when disaster strikes. Unfortunately, this sentence has come true in the Liu family.
Father chose to abandon his wife and children, ran away from home, and went to make a living.
Liu Ting's mother and son were not surprised by her husband's betrayal and irresponsibility. After all, after all these years of getting along day and night, the mother and son have already seen this man very thoroughly.
In order to save his mother's life, Liu Ting, who was only 13 years old, took on the important task of supporting his family with a delicate body.
Liu Ting goes to school during the day, and after school, other students go home for dinner, but Liu Ting has to go to the canteen to work odd jobs to make money. Although the income is not much, this filial piety, for the seriously ill mother, is to support her strong The only ray of light to live, a ray of warmth.
When Liu Ting was in middle school, he changed his gender and had a conversation with his mother on the bed.
The mother couldn't understand her son's crazy thoughts. She said that she had thought about becoming a man countless times to support the family, but her son was obviously a man, but he wanted to become a woman, which made it difficult for her to accept.
's mother's attitude made Liu Ting frustrated for a while, watching her mother suffer from illness and become inhuman, Liu Ting had no choice but to cut the long hair that had been extended with great difficulty and restore it to the image of a boy, so that his mother could rest assured.
Once, Liu Ting accidentally fainted in the classroom because he was too tired. After the school learned about his family's plight, everyone from the principal, teachers, students and their families gave generously. With the financial support of the great good people, the Liu family finally got out of the predicament, and the mother's condition was controlled in a stable manner.
No worries, Liu Ting tried his best to study hard, because he knew how important it was to not suffer from illiterate losses like his parents, except for college entrance examinations.
In 2005, with his excellent college entrance examination results, Liu Ting got the admission letter from Zhejiang Agricultural University.
Because he was worried that his mother was alone at home with no one to take care of, Liu Ting made a shameful decision to go to college behind his mother's back. After the news of
went viral on the Internet, Liu Ting also became the focus of national attention.
Greetings from all over the country came unexpectedly. What impressed Liu Ting was a letter written to him by a small netizen. The general content of the letter was that the boy took him as an example and determined to be admitted to university in the future. To be the man who protects his mother...
A spark can start a prairie fire. At that moment, Liu Ting suddenly felt that all the things he did were extraordinarily meaningful.
After this, Liu Ting was also selected as the honorable title of 's national moral model . With such a halo, Liu Ting was under great pressure, and it also made him try to undergo sex reassignment surgery, a change that was almost impossible. and dreams.
In 2013, Liu Ting was confused and had no choice but to seek help from a psychiatrist. After the psychiatrist's diagnosis, it turned out that Liu Ting was a person suffering from "congenital gender cognitive impairment", that is to say, he identified himself as a A girl, but with male signs.
has been confirmed by the doctor that the mother can only accept her fate, because she does not want to see her son live in a painful knot for a long time, unable to extricate herself.
Since his mother no longer objected, Liu Ting also put the sex change operation on the agenda.
On August 14, 2014, Liu Ting changed his name to Liu Ting and was diagnosed by various surgical experts.
After confirming that the operation can be performed, Guangzhou Meilai Hospital held a press conference for Liu Ting. At this publicity conference, Liu Ting also saw the transgender artist "He Lixiu" from South Korea. The moment
met her idol, Liu Ting was so excited that she was even incoherent.
Liu Ting's publicity about sex reassignment surgery to the outside world is like a thousand waves aroused by the same stone. There are various online comments. Some people say that his fame was originally a work for fame and fame, and some even suspect that he carried his mother to college for the purpose of doing sex reassignment surgery. The purpose of the drama set up before is to become an internet celebrity and seize public resources.
Faced with many criticisms from netizens, Liu Ting's pressure can be imagined, but compared to those criticisms, the concern from university alumni made him particularly warm. Before the surgery, the alumni also spontaneously formed a group In a communication group, the alumni of the lower grades even took the initiative to call her Sister Ting.
During this period, a strange man also took the initiative to confess to her, hoping to be her boyfriend after her successful operation.
Compared with those negative comments, these kind support have become the driving force for Liu Ting to move forward.
On October 9, 2014, Liu Ting's first surgery was a 5-hour facial microplastic surgery.
Under the action of anesthesia, Liu Ting, who was unconscious on her face, watched the cold scalpel swimming on her face, but she was not afraid at all, because she had waited too long for this day to come.
Because the sex reassignment surgery will be carried out in stages, this period is very long.The replacement surgery took a year to complete.
It is worth mentioning that during the operation, when the mother and daughter went to the public office in Lin'an to go through the procedures related to the operation, they also accidentally met their father who had not seen each other for a long time.
Father put his hands behind his back and put on a lofty attitude. It seemed that visiting mother and daughter was a kind of gift from him. Father said to Liu Ting, think about your own affairs, don't regret it, and look for it after you think about it. I sign.
Liu Ting responded indifferently: "I have thought about it for a long time. This is the dream I have always wanted to accomplish since I was a child."
On April 8, 2015, after 29-year-old Liu Ting underwent complete surgery, she finally became a beautiful woman comparable to " He Lixiu ".
wears a red dress, which makes her swaying and full of feminine features. She has long hair and a shawl, a fair and delicate face, a pair of big eyes that are favored by bright eyes, full of electricity, and the whole person glows with the gentlest charm of women.
Under the spotlight of the media, Liu Ting, who was shining brightly, finally fulfilled her dream for many years, and after that, her new book "My Beauties" was launched as scheduled in June.
Regarding the content of the book, Liu Ting revealed that she has written all her thoughts and journeys in it, hoping to help those patients who have difficulty in cognition of gender disorders. Although she can only do my little, she still hopes that Through my own sharing, I can tell those who are in a dilemma not to be afraid to choose, and to face their inner desires bravely.
Once a reporter interviewed Liu Ting and asked her about love and marriage, Liu Ting's response was that she didn't want to think about dating and marriage at the moment. These two things require a lot of energy and time, and her parents are getting old. She wants to devote her energy and time to taking care of them, because they suffered a lot when they were young, and she hopes that they can enjoy their old age under the care of her daughter.
Liu Ting also understands the rumors and bad reviews on the Internet. She said that as a moral model who has been canonized by the state, she has undergone sex reassignment surgery. Being scolded, this is the consequence I have to bear.
had this mental preparation before the surgery.
However, my life will never be kidnapped by other people's morality. If I pay the price of losing a moral model, I don't care. After all, I live a life, not a false name.
Tu Lei said such a sentence, and he agreed with it. He said: A person who dares to stab himself will eventually become the strongest self.
Liu Ting, from the beginning to the end, is very clear about what she wants, but some people, who have been mediocre all their lives, have always lived for others, and never thought about fighting for themselves.
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