"Parents' Love" Although Bai Hongmei was not accepted by the Jiang family, she did one thing right

" Parents Love " is a family emotion written by Liu Jing, directed by Kong Sheng , and starring powerful actors Guo Tao , Mei Ting , Liu Lin , Ren Shuai , Liu Tianchi , etc. The drama, from the 1950s to the beginning of the new century, takes the love of "my parents" as the main line under the vicissitudes of the times, and interprets the love, love, truth, kindness and beauty in the ordinary life of two generations of Chinese in several families. Since its premiere on CCTV in 2014, the TV series has been deeply loved by audiences and friends. It has been broadcast on various satellite TV channels for eight years, and its popularity has not diminished. Viewers of all ages can find themselves in this emotional drama. point of view.

In the play, the three brothers Jiang Weiguo, Jiang Weidong and Jiang Weimin have girlfriends one after another. Except for Zheng Xiaodan, the girlfriend of the second child Jiang Weidong, who has been recognized by the Jiang family from the very beginning, the third Jiang Weimin's girlfriends Xu Hong and the old The girlfriends of Dajiang Weiguo's girlfriends are all disliked by An Jie, but their different endings are that Xu Hong and Jiang Weimin eventually marry their sons, An Jie is helpless, but Bai Hongmei has experienced worship on the island. My dear, I chose to break up with Jiang Weiguo shortly after being treated coldly by the Jiang family.

Judging from the plot deduced from the back, the breakup between Jiang Weiguo and Bai Hongmei does not seem to be the day when Bai Hongmei left the island without saying goodbye. Perhaps from the moment she left the island without saying goodbye and boarded the ferry in dew that morning, she had followed her heart and made her own choice.

Many viewers like to compare Bai Hongmei with Zheng Xiaodan, and even compare Bai Hongmei with Jiang Weiguo's later wife, in order to pick out various shortcomings and problems in Bai Hongmei, to explain why An Jie is critical of her, If they don't like her, it's right and wise for the Jiang family not to accept her.

In fact, even though Bai Hongmei has too many flaws and deficiencies, the root cause of her breaking up with Jiang Weiguo is her youth with Jiang Weiguo, her family background, An Jie's prejudice, and her self-esteem and self-esteem as a young woman. A clear understanding of life. The fact that

is not accepted by the Jiang family is not entirely a problem of Bai Hongmei. Didn't Anjie also break up Jiang Yafei and director Yu Daguang? Yu Daguang is also a soldier of rank anyway. In An Jie's eyes, Bai Hongmei is definitely inferior to Yu Daguang. Of course, she can't accept her as Jiang Weiguo's wife. Just imagine, if Jiang Weiguo was under pressure and reluctantly married Bai Hongmei, how would Bai Hongmei get along with An Jie, and her two sister-in-laws, including Dehua, looked down on her, what would her life be like.

Bai Hongmei and Jiang Weiguo met by chance on the train. They talked for a long time and fell in love at first sight. After a long-term relationship, they all reached the level of meeting their parents. Then, there should be relatively deep feelings and love between the two of them. However, even so, when Bai Hongmei was treated like that in the Jiang family, she almost did not choose to aggrieve herself, ease and tolerate, but resolutely chose to leave without saying goodbye, and broke up with Jiang Weiguo soon after. She did this right.

Love is brave to love, but never submissive in exchange for dignity.

Bai Hongmei visited Jiangjiamen for the first time as a guest and was treated indifferently by the Jiang family, and then she was almost face-slapped and ridiculed. This has touched a person's bottom line, then, she There is no need to grieve and change herself to fight for a life that may not be able to bring her a happy life. Therefore, although Bai Hongmei is not favored by the Jiang family due to different living environments, her own shortcomings and various other reasons, she still has a clear understanding of the life she faces, and Bai Hongmei has done a good job: She has the self-esteem and backbone of a person, and would rather lose a love than feel wrongedShe reluctantly succumbed to others and endured others' prejudice against her for a long time.