Xu Zehao is Xia Xia's ex. The two have been in love for five years. In the end Xia Xia chose to break up because he felt that Xu Zehao was tired in this relationship.
However, after the breakup, Xu Zehao has never forgotten about Summer, and even looks forward to the day when he can reconnect with Summer. But Xia Xia dated another boyfriend, Guan Xin, and the two were dating for the purpose of getting married, so after she reunited with Xu Zehao, Xu Zehao's situation became a bit difficult and embarrassing.
Xu Zehao deliberately became the first party of Xia Xia to create more contact opportunities, and once, when talking to Xia Xia, he couldn't help but kiss Xia Xia. Although it is only a light "kiss", it is enough to reveal the truth of the love between Xin and Xia. The contradiction between
Xia Xia and Guan Xin.
Actually, when Xu Zehao "kissed" Xia Xia, Xia Xia and Guan Xin were in the stage of more and more conflicts. First, Guan Xin went on a blind date without the knowledge of Xia Xia, and then Xia Xia got drunk because he ran into Guan Xin's blind date, and spent the night at Xu Zehao's house. Although both of them explained to each other later, this incident has left a knot in their hearts.
Next, Guan Xin was unhappy because he cooperated with Xu Zehao in Xia Xia, but because he reunited with his "sister" Lu Xi in the orphanage, he repeatedly deceived Xia Xia, and because of Lu Xi, he and Xia Xia had a relationship. big contradiction. It is precisely because of these contradictions that
often talks about emotional matters while working with Xu Zehao in the summer. Xu Zehao was also a man of great spirit. He not only comforted Xia Xia, but even spoke to Guan Xin, and did not take advantage of the situation.
On the contrary, Guan Xin has repeatedly disappointed him. He not only shouted at Xia Xia for Lu Xi, but also insisted on sending Lu Xi home first when he knew Xia Xian was angry. For this reason, Xia Xia fought with Guan Xin for several days, but in the end Xia Xia took the initiative to find Guan Xin, and the relationship between the two sides recovered temporarily.
However, anyone with a discerning eye can see that the contradiction between them is no longer just the daily contradiction between couples, but that their relationship has fundamentally gone wrong.
Guan Xin's attitude towards summer.
Guan Xin's attitude is actually a good indication of his feelings for Xia. When a person loves another person deeply, he will never allow her to be sad, sad and suspicious, but only care about being good to the third person. However, Guan Xin not only did this, but also accused Xia Xia of going to see Lu Xi too much.
It can be seen that Guan Xin cares more about Luxi than about summer. Of course, you will think that Guan Xin only regards Lu Xi as his sister, and even Guan Xin himself thinks so, but you might as well think about it, in life, even if a man ignores his lover because of his own sister, that is not acceptable. What's more, Lu Xi was not Guan Xin's sister.
Guan Xin may indeed have no love for Lu Xi, but he really doesn't care about Xia's feelings. If he really loved Xia Xia, how could he not care about her feelings? In Guan Xin's heart, Xia Xia can be hurt, but Lu Xi must not be wronged. This is enough to show that he doesn't love summer as much as he thinks, or even that he doesn't love summer at all.
Then why does he say he can't live without summer?
remember that in " Youth Pie 2", Yan Yudi said this to Qian Sanyi:
If you can't live without her, your feelings for her are overly attached and self-motivated; if you don't have her, you can live , to live well, that is the love of an independent individual for another independent person.
Therefore, Guan Xin thought he couldn't live without Xia Xia because he loved her too much, but in fact it just showed that he didn't love her, he was just attached to her and didn't want to lose her. And the generation of this attachment stems from the lack of love in his childhood.
He was an orphan since he was a child and grew up in an orphanage, which just proves his excessive attachment to Xia. This kind of attachment has no necessary relationship with love, it can only show that he happened to meet Xia Xia, or Xia Xia just met his needs.
Summer's feelings for Guan Xin.
in the summer and Guan Xin's getting along, we will have such a feeling: summer love is too humble. each time both sidesWhen there is a conflict, Xia Xia is easy to be coaxed; Guan Xin has done excessive things, Xia Xia always forgives them easily; when the two are in a cold war, Xia Xia also takes the initiative to ask for peace.
Xia Tian often said that Guan Xin is a 100% boyfriend, especially in front of Xu Zehao, she even praised Guan Xin in various ways, it seems that Guan Xin has no flaws. However, from the standpoint of bystanders, Guan Xin clearly has many shortcomings.
This makes us wonder: Does summer really love Guan Xin so much? Or is she just a love brain? When
actually started, I also came to watch the drama " Summer of Love " with such doubts, but when I saw Xu Zehao's "kiss" to Xia, I suddenly became enlightened. In fact, not only does Guan Xin not love Xia Xia so much, but Xia Xia does not love Guan Xin as much as she thinks.
, think about it, under normal circumstances, an ex-boyfriend who once hurt himself, reunites, either as plain as a stranger, or as disgusted as an enemy, but Xia Xia is not like this to Xu Zehao, they are more like one To enemies, tit for tat but not hostile.
And after Xu Zehao kissed Xia Xia gently, Xia Xia didn't slap a single slap, didn't even look angry, just said the word "go away" jokingly. It can be seen that Xia Xia did not resist Xu Zehao approaching her, and she never completely let go of their past.
So why do you always praise Guanxin in summer?
She didn't want to show off her boyfriend, but wanted to convince herself and let her heart accept the fact that Guan Xin was better than Xu Zehao, and she did so, which just showed that she knew very well that Guan Xin was not so good Well, her feelings for Guan Xin are not that deep.
The truth about their love.
Did you find out? In the relationship between Guan Xin and Xia Xia, it may not be difficult for us to find that Guan Xin does not love Xia Xia, but Xia Xia's feelings for Guan Xin are more puzzling. While praising Guan Xin's goodness, she allowed herself to love humbly, and at the same time did not refuse Xu Zehao's closeness to her.
If it weren't for Xu Zehao's "kiss", it would be difficult for us to really see Xia's heart. Of course, it's not that Xia Xia was too scheming, or that she deliberately concealed it, but that she didn't see herself clearly. These thoughts were hidden in her subconscious.
The truth about their love is that they don't love each other that much. What Guan Xin wants to grasp is his attachment to Xia Xia, not love; Xia Xia's recognition and praise for Guan Xin are only to persuade and numb himself, not all love. In fact, Guan Xin just lacked love, and Xia Xia never let go of his past feelings.
But they both try to find excuses to love each other in their relationship. It seems that as long as they believe those excuses, they can live happily together. And Xu Zehao's "kiss" became a powerful medicine to uncover the truth of their love.
Love is actually like this, it can't be fake, it can't be fake, no matter how you hide it from outsiders or paralyze yourself, those thoughts hidden in the subconscious will always burst out at a certain accidental moment, and affect the final result.
And only those who truly love each other can withstand the many tests in this process and gain true happiness.
About the author: meets Acacia, a woman who likes to read and write. She focuses on the creation of articles in the emotional direction of film and television and the analysis and answer of questions in the emotional field. I hope my words can accompany you warmly.
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