Happy Ode Community, there are 5 girls with different personalities.
Ye Zhenzhen is warm and generous, because she has a wealthy and happy family, her parents bought her a house and a car, and even the scientific research funds at work are paid for by her family.
Apart from being urged to marry, Ye Zhen Zhen has almost no other troubles, and she does not shy away from "relying on her parents" to live a life as a kind of enjoyment.
Fang Zhiheng has a beautiful temperament and has a heartfelt sympathy for disadvantaged women, because she suffered sexual harassment in the workplace and was almost ruined by Li Xun.
Ho Minhong, the most unpleasant, is nosy and has a low emotional intelligence. She has never been beaten by society.
The worst family of origin are Zhu Zhe and Yu Chuhui.
Zhu Zhe was born in a remote country. His family was poor, and his parents could squeeze his daughter with peace of mind. Zhu Zhe was the eldest daughter in the family.
Zhu Zhe stayed in Shanghai, saw the world and broadened her horizons. She had suffered enough from low education, so she paid for her brother and sister to go to college.
However, after the younger brother and sister graduated from college, they failed to help the family, and they could not even be independent. They continued to reach out to Zhu Zhe to ask for money, and Zhu Zhe cut off the relationship with the family cruelly.
Yu Chuhui has a rogue father who cheated and was abusive. When Yu Chuhui was a teenager, he learned to protect his mother from being beaten by his father.
Yu Chuhui's family of origin has brought her harm, not only material deprivation, but also mentally, she has suffered from the unfortunate marriage of her parents for a long time, which directly affects her character and even her view of marriage and love.
Yu Chuhui's conceit and inferiority
Yu Chuhui's brain is very active and smart, he was admitted to a key university, signed a stable job after graduation, and has an iron job, but the boss of the unit occupied her scientific research results, Yu Chuhui joined two colleagues to change jobs and defend their rights. Relentlessly cleaned up the unscrupulous boss.
Yu Chuhui has a strong personality, is unreasonable, and sometimes even aggressive, like a small beast, waving sharp claws.
In order to make more money, Yu Chuhui has to teach children dance part-time at night. The father of a child fell in love with Yu Chuhui's youth and secretly wanted to give Yu Chuhui a gift. His wife found out that she went to the dance class to make a scene, accusing Yu Chuhui of being a vixen.
The woman also followed Yu Chuhui, slapped Yu Chuhui, and Yu Chuhui threw her to the ground with a backhand, defending herself strongly.
Yu Chuhui never suffers, and she is not afraid of trouble. Behind her "barbarism", there is a cowardly mother who needs her protection.
Yu Chuhui's character, such a family, love and marriage are doomed to fail, her ex-boyfriend humiliated her, and her suitor also never showed up after learning that her father owed two million in gambling debts.
Yu Chuhui often talks about "money", she said that Ye Zhenzhen is a "happy child", Yu Chuhui showed off her intelligence and beauty on the 22nd floor and was chased by someone, but in fact she lived the most insecure life.
Luo Beisheng's pursuit and escape "Old", and called Luo Beisheng "Uncle Shi".
Luo Beisheng is a very picky man. He has a successful career, an annual salary of one million, and he drives a luxury car. He has long established a firm foothold in Shanghai. The superior conditions allow him to maintain a high vision on the issue of mate selection.
Luo Beisheng felt that young and beautiful girls were all vases, and women in their thirties were all tacky housewives. He had no hope for Yu Chuhui.
However, seeing Yu Chuhui teaching children to dance, Luo Beisheng's impression of her has changed. An engineering girl who graduated from a key university is not only versatile and has a good temperament, but also self-improvement and self-improvement. Bright.
Luo Beisheng began to pay tribute to Yu ChuhuiDiligent, but Yu Chuhui threw his face away the first time they met, without caring about the matchmaker's feelings. The matchmaker
introduced the object to Yu Chuhui, which was considered kind. Yu Chuhui's approach was somewhat ignorant.
Yu Chuhui's refusal aroused Luo Beisheng's curiosity instead. Luo Beisheng did what he liked and gave the gift not flowers but delicious squid flowers. Yu Chuhui accepted it readily and agreed with Luo Beisheng to drive her home.
Yu Chuhui complained that she had a blind date with an old man in front of her roommates and neighbors. She seemed to be complaining, but she was actually showing off.
has a man to pursue, for Yu Chuhui, it is a great sense of achievement, even if she doesn't like this man, she will show him to her friends.
Yu Chuhui, while enjoying Luo Beisheng's favor, said behind his back that he was an "old man" and a "nasty ghost", but Luo Beisheng did not do anything out of the ordinary.
Blind date is the process of men and women getting to know each other. There is no question of who is chasing whom. Yu Chuhui mocks Luo Beisheng for this, which is really unnecessary.
Yu Chuhui's "true face"
Yu Chuhui said that whenever she shows a little bit of cuteness, "the suitor is like a crucian carp crossing the river". In addition to showing off her suitor, she often shows off her IQ and beauty.
She told Ye Zhen Zhen that even if she only exerted half of her skills, she could still live a good life; she said that a beautiful girl like her could easily be targeted outside.
Ye Zhenzhen has a Ph.D. degree and is a "quasi-scientist", her looks and temperament should overwhelm Yu Chuhui, Yu Chuhui showed a sense of superiority in front of Ye Zhenzhen, and she felt like she was playing an axe.
Yu Chuhui's self-promotion is not because of her self-confidence or conceit, but because of her inferiority.
Yu Chuhui's appearance is lively and flamboyant, but in fact, she has no confidence in herself. Facing Luo Beisheng's pursuit, she said that she can't rely on men, but herself. It's too sad that she doesn't even have reproductive rights to marry a rich man.
But must rich men disrespect their wives?
Yu Chuhui's prejudice against Luo Beisheng exposed her inferiority towards her family of origin. She instinctively felt that she was not worthy of finding a man with good conditions, and she also did not believe that she could rely on a man materially.
does not depend on men and is independent and self-motivated. It is right, but there is no need to be so conflicted with men and love. Yu Chuhui's view of love is the scar left by her parents' marriage.
Seeing her father's derailment and domestic violence with her own eyes since she was a child, Yu Chuhui has a pessimistic attitude towards men and even her feelings. She needs the approval of others to fill her sense of security.
After her mother was taken to Shanghai, she secretly contacted her father and wanted to return to her father. Yu Chuhui did not hesitate to use the excuse of "severing the mother-daughter relationship" to force her mother to jump out of the fire pit, but her mother left a note in the middle of the night and went back to her hometown.
Yu Chuhui burst into tears, but she also understood that she couldn't keep her mother because she was not strong enough for her to rely on her.
Yu Chuhui, who is full of teeth and claws, does not actually have a strong heart. She has no sense of security, so she will act in a high-profile manner and show off her charm.
People who are truly confident do not need to tell others how good they are, because they recognize and accept themselves from the bottom of their hearts. Zhu Zhe is the best example.
Zhu Zhe's beautiful counterattack
When Zhu Zhe just moved into the shared house, he learned that Yu Chuhui's family was in trouble, so he took the initiative to "expose his ugliness" and told about the blood-sucking of his younger brother and sister. Zhu Zhe didn't cry like Yu Chuhui again. Noisy again, she was very calm, even if she cut ties with her sister, she was still smiling.
Zhu Zhe is 32 years old. She has more experience than Yu Chuhui. The service work in the hotel has made Zhu Zhe a flexible and stretchable character. What
can't change, Zhu Zhe will choose to accept or ignore it. She calmly and calmly faces every guest who deliberately makes trouble.
Women who are truly full of heart will make themselves comfortable and will use their abilities to gain recognition from others. They don't need to repeatedly stress how brilliant they are.
Zhu Zhe is unavoidableIt is true self-confidence and equanimity to deny one's "professional high school education".
Although Zhu Zhe does not have as beautiful a degree as Yu Chuhui, he is more transparent than Yu Chuhui. Zhu Zhe knows where his shortcomings are and what advantages he has.
has a high vocational education and was only a low-level waiter during the internship, but Zhu Zhe worked steadily and steadily, and climbed to the position of manager. The leaders valued her, and the subordinates recognized her. There is no doubt about her ability.
Zhu Zhe works diligently. No matter how late, her colleagues are always on call. She works hard, not only for herself, but also for the jobs of the girls under her.
Zhu Zhe bought a house by herself, and she also plans to pursue further education to prepare for promotion and salary increase.
And Yu Chuhui will be fishing in her work, so after changing jobs, she is uneasy, afraid that her true strength will be revealed, so she can only continue to nibble on professional textbooks.
The way to make yourself really practical and confident is never by showing off; enriching your mind, doing everything well, not arrogant or impetuous, and continuous improvement are the most meaningful ways to live. The finale of
" Ode to Joy 3" leaves suspense and regrets. Yu Chuhui and Zhu Zhe have to face new challenges.
Maybe when Yu Chuhui becomes calm and modest, she will be the happiest moment.
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