In the TV series " Ode to Joy ", Fan Shengmei and high school classmate Wang Baichuan fell in love.
When watching the drama, everyone thought that Fan Shengmei was not worthy of Wang Baichuan. The man who loved him so much, she still gave up because the other party couldn't give her the material she wanted. This also makes the public feel that Fan Shengmei is an extremely vain woman.
now revisiting the classics after a few years, only to find that the adult world is more because of the cruelty and helplessness of reality, which makes people know how to deal with emotions carefully and choose.
Fan Shengmei, as an older leftover girl, is very eager to meet a happy love and go straight into married life.
She was born in a rural area in Shanghai. She has an elder brother who cannot support the wall with mud. Her parents' patriarchal ideology made Fan Shengmei feel little love and warmth since she was a child, and she was not satisfied with material things.
So she studied hard, and after graduation, she went to work in a big city. Even though she was too dissatisfied with her parents, she silently assumed the family's source of income.
Wang Baichuan is Fan Shengmei's high school classmate. He has always liked Fan Shengmei silently. She is beautiful, hardworking and excellent, and has always been the goddess in his mind.
Wang Baichuan's family background is an ordinary well-off family. As the only son in the family, his situation is naturally much better than that of Fan Sheng. His parents used the pension money they have accumulated for many years to support him in starting his business in Shanghai.
The two reunited in the metropolis. Wang Baichuan looked at the goddess who was as beautiful and moving as he was many years ago. His admiration did not change at all, while Fan Shengmei experienced many failed blind dates and saw Wang Baichuan who had a crush on her while driving a BMW. , I couldn't help but rejoice.
She has high self-esteem and doesn't want her old classmates to know her embarrassment in Shanghai, so she concealed the fact that he shared a lease with a friend. As a hr of a foreign company, her salary is reasonable, but she has to subsidize her family every month, so she has to live a delicate and poor life.
Wang Baichuan's career has just started, his small company is still in the planning stage, and he can't wait to show Fan Shengmei that he hopes to leave a good impression on the goddess. Even the BMW he drives is rented, but he is vain The heart made him use it to please the goddess.
The two kept in touch with each other and went on a date while concealing each other's ambiguity. Fan Shengmei thought she had found a golden tortoise-in-law, and Wang Baichuan was very happy to pursue the goddess. The appearance of
ke neighbor Qu Xiaoxiao completely uncovered the bottom line between the two and pushed the relationship into an extremely embarrassing situation.
Qu Xiaoxiao can't stand Fan Shengmei's vain and money-worshiping behavior. She knows that her bags and clothes are all A-quality goods, and she is proud to rely on her beauty to fantasize about getting rich.
She told Fan Shengmei about Wang Baichuan's rental of a BMW, which hit her deeply. Later, they embarrassed each other at a party organized by Wei Wei.
Later, when Fan Shengmei's father had an accident, Wang Baichuan was always by her side, which made both of them open up and accept each other and come together.
But when Wang Baichuan's parents learned that their precious son was dating a girl whose family was in a mess, they were unanimous in their disapproval.
Fan Shengmei was originally a woman with good face and strong self-esteem. When she visited Wang Baichuan's parents, not only was she not recognized, but she was humiliated. She cried and ran out of the Wang family, which made people feel extremely sad.
And Wang Baichuan did not hesitate to disobey his parents for her and insisted on being with her. He promised to give Fan Shengmei a home in Shanghai, a home for them.
Wang Baichuan's infatuation and protection finally moved Fan Shengmei and decided to be with him. She introduced him to the people around her and did everything she could to help him when he started his business.
Aside from other conditions, Fan Shengmei is a very good person. She is beautiful, proficient in the world, and has a good understanding of work and work.Life is handled neatly and neatly, and she is a woman who can go to the hall and go to the kitchen.
Wang Baichuan is not so good in comparison. If it wasn't for his girlfriend, his company wouldn't have developed so quickly, and his connections had to rely on himself to drink until he vomited without being looked at.
wins because this man works hard and is sincere. He is willing to work hard for the future of him and Fan Shengmei.
Later, Wang Baichuan's career suffered heavy losses. He failed to start a business. There were also many conflicts between him and Fan Shengmei. He even doubted whether he could give her the life she wanted, so he broke up with Fan Shengmei.
has gone through a lot of twists and turns, and Fan Shengmei knows how difficult this relationship is. She did not give up, and chose to accompany him through the lows firmly and support Wang Baichuan by his side.
It is a pity that this twists and turns of the relationship still lost to reality. The Queen Mother of
approached Fan Shengmei many times and asked her to leave her son, even at the expense of spending money just to achieve her goal. Fan Shengmei was very sad. On the one hand, she was the man she loved deeply, and on the other hand, she was the elder who tried to obstruct her. She didn't know whether she could persevere. When
bought a house, Wang Baichuan still chose to obey his parents' arrangement and did not add Fan Shengmei's name on the real estate certificate , which made Fan Shengmei feel completely chilled.
That is the home she longs for, her sense of security for love is also the promise Wang Baichuan gave him, but in the sales center, in front of many people, he said to her that she was afraid that her brother would miss their house , Fan Shengmei couldn't help crying anymore. After
left, she didn't look back. She knew very well that although this man loved her, he could not bear the burden of her future life, because her burden was too heavy, and it was impossible to rely on others.
She has her difficulties and helplessness. Her poor family is a reality she can't get rid of. Wang Baichuan has his own parents. He is a dutiful son. Even if he loves Fan Shengmei again, he can't always stand on the opposite side of his parents for her.
When Wang Baichuan heard Fan Shengmei saying calmly about breaking up with him, he still wanted to make a last effort. He felt that it was because he could not add Fan Shengmei's name to the real estate certificate.
What he didn't know was that after so many things, Fan Shengmei understood the insurmountable chasm between himself and him, and the two families who were not in the right households were destined to be unable to combine.
Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a bond between two families. Falling in love is a romance under the moonlight, but when people who love each other are really together, they all need to face the feathers of life. A marriage without the blessing of the elders is difficult to be happy.
Everyone thinks that Fan Shengmei gave up Wang Baichuan because he was too materialistic, but the helplessness and sadness of adults can only be understood by their own experience and experience.