Look at "Ode to Joy" again to find out: Tan Zongming likes but doesn't marry Andy, how "selfish" is behind it


Early in the morning, Andy showed up at the company full of joy.

saw her look of happiness in love, while Tan Zongming was expressionless.

He asked Andy if he had confirmed that Singularity would be her boyfriend, and Andy answered unabashedly: "Yes, it's certain."

, as Andy's old friend for more than 20 years, is also her boyfriend Lan Yan knew that Tan Zongming at this time should feel happy for Andy from the bottom of his heart.

After all, before this, Tan Zongming had been encouraging Andy to go outside more and make more friends.

Now, Andy not only met a new neighbor, but also got a boyfriend, everything is just as Tan Zongming imagined.

However, Tan Zongming is not happy. After

heard Andy's answer, he replied indifferently: "You underestimate yourself too much." After

finished speaking, Tan Zongming handed Andy the water, opened the lid, and drank a few depressedly. mouth, then turned and left Andy's office.

Andy doesn't understand, why does Lao Tan have such a reaction? Could it be that he despised the singularity?

Actually, Andy didn't know, this was Lao Tan's jealous expression.

Yes, Tan Zongming is one of Andy's many admirers.

It's just that Tan Zongming buried his affection for Andy deeply in his heart, and he didn't dare to reveal it to Andy, let alone take a step forward. When

first watched " Ode to Joy ", I never understood why Tan Zongming dared not pursue Andy.

watched it again and found that Tan Zongming would rather have a "secret love" for Andy than express it, how "realistic" and "selfish" the truth behind it is.

Tan Zongming and Andy met abroad. They have worked together for many years and have deep feelings for each other.

Andy's high IQ, accurate judgment of the project, coupled with the hard conditions of high appearance, have long been deeply attracted to Tan Zongming.

Tan Zongming has better conditions, is smart, and has a prominent family background.

A woman can successfully marry into a wealthy family, either by her wealthy family background or by her outstanding self.

Obviously, Andy belongs to the latter.

takes Tan Zongming's condition, if he marries Andy, his career will be even more powerful.

But Tan Zongming didn't dare, because he had no confidence.

Andy grew up in an orphanage, and then went to live abroad after being adopted. Although she received higher education, it was only limited by her IQ and business ability.

In life, Andy is a social phobia.

usually spends her time at home except for work. She would rather spend the night arguing with people on the Internet about academic issues, rather than going out of the house and contacting outsiders.

Therefore, if Tan Zongming marries Andy, Andy is obviously not suitable for the discussion among the "wives circle". She does not have strong communication skills, nor does she know how to detour with wives.

Furthermore, Andy is sensitive by nature. Most of Tan Zongming's thoughts are spent on his career. He has no time to guide Andy at all.

Tan Zongming can't do Singularity, he can patiently analyze human nature for Andy, and explain to her the advantages and disadvantages of people around him.

Singularity wanted to spend the night at Andy's house, deliberately staying until 1:00 in the morning, and finally was invited home by Andy.

Fan Shengmei went to KTV to accompany others to drink in order to save her brother. Andy wanted to bring her back, and finally Singularity went with her.

When Fan Shengmei's father was hospitalized and was short of money, Andy couldn't handle the entanglement between her and her mother, so he asked Singularity to come over, and then Singularity helped Fan Shengmei's family solve the crisis throughout the whole process.

Tan Zongming couldn't do all this.

Whether a person is sincere to oneself is not seen with eyes, but slowly experienced with heart.

Tan Zongming seems to think about Andy everywhere, but it's just because Andy is very helpful to his career.

He can solve the stumbling block in Andy's career, but he can't solve the trivial things in Andy's life.

So Andy would love the singularity of an online godfather for over a year, but couldn't fall in love with Tan Zongming, who had known each other for more than 20 years.

Later, Andy and Singularity broke up. At this time, Tan Zongming should have realized that Andy is also a normal person, and she also has normal emotional needs.

However, at this time, he still did not dare to pursue Andy.

After all, it was Tan Zongming who cared about Andy's life experience.

Andy's indeterminate psychiatric gene made him completely give up the idea of ​​pursuing.

After Andy returned to China, Tan Zongming sent someone to help her find her long-lost brother.

After many verifications, Andy finally knew the whereabouts of her younger brother, but what made her collapse was that her younger brother was actually mentally ill.

Later, Andy's biological father appeared, which once again proved that Andy's mother and grandmother also had the same symptoms.

That is to say, Andy is likely to become a patient like his brother and mother at some point in the future.

Although, Andy may be an exception, he has been a normal person all his life.

However, Tan Zongming did not dare to gamble.

If Andy is not so lucky and becomes one of the ratios, Tan Zongming will be ruined in this life.

Maybe he can't abandon Andy, but like Andy's biological father, he will live in fear and guilt.

What's more, Tan Zongming didn't dare to gamble.

Yao Bin once went to investigate Tan Zongming's background. After the investigation, he told Qu Xiaoxiao: "One of his decisions can make the industry turbulent. We can't afford such a person."

It can be seen that the person behind Tan Zongming Great benefit.

Therefore, he can't bet on Andy's future with his family business.

Andy may have more than one, but only one career.

Tan Zongming's feelings for Andy are just like the ancient emperors, only for the country and not for the beauty. For

, interests always come first.

Many people say that Tan Zongming is very realistic and selfish.

However, this is also human nature.

This is also the concession and sacrifice that an entrepreneur should make for the sake of the overall situation.

So, seeing this, we probably know that if we don't have the strength to show off, don't think about marrying a rich man.

must know that in the face of marriage, rich people are more rational than ordinary people, and they know how to measure the pros and cons.

They can marry someone they don't love but help them for their career, or they can sacrifice their emotions for their career.

Therefore, if you want to be loved by high-quality men, the key point is how to improve yourself and make them feel that you are someone who is beneficial to them.

Even if the person who finally gets it is not a high-quality stock, he can still choose the next best stock and choose a potential stock.

is like Andy, although he is not with Tan Zongming, he can still choose Singularity, Mr. Bao.

[The picture comes from the stills of "Ode to Joy", invaded and deleted]