01 How others don’t matter, what matters is how you behave.
The well-known star Xu Zheng has participated in many movies and TV series, and has created vivid and vivid characters. He has won countless awards and has set a history of Chinese movies. The first film viewing record with a box office of over 1 billion. In July 2018, he starred in the film "I'm not the God of Medicine", which hit a new record at the box office, surpassing 2.5 billion in 12 days.
In 2018, Xu Zheng won honors such as the best actor in the 55th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards through his wonderful performance in "I'm Not the God of Medicine".
On September 30, 2019, the movie "My Motherland and I Win the Championship" directed by him was released, and it was praised on the Internet.
From the movie "Spring Brilliant Pig Bajie" to "Winning Championship", he has his own halo, full of stars.
However, his star journey was not smooth at first.
Xu Zheng, who embarks on the path of acting with a beautiful dream, is denied time and time again because of hair loss. There are always people who are self-righteous and repeat in his ears: "What kind of role can you play like this, unless you run too far, or don't Go this way." The words of these people were like a curse, and he was disturbed. When he was only able to receive the role of running the dragon for a long time, he began to doubt his choice.
's severe hair loss caused great harm to Xu Zheng. Because it is unbearable for some people to criticize him, he wears a hat all year round. A strange look in other people's eyes will make him uncomfortable.
once walked on the road, the wind blew away his hat, and the little hair on his head was blown up by the wind. The abnormal reaction of the people around him hurt him.
He simply went to the barbershop to have his hair cut, and became a complete bald head. When he faced his bald head, he said that he suddenly felt relieved, the hair was gone, the problem of entangled with the hair disappeared, and it was so easy to solve. In an instant his gloomy heart brightened: Who is perfect in the world? How others do not matter, what matters is what you do.
He began to calm down, cultivate his heart, and try to do what he can do now. He believes that as long as he keeps on going, the dawn will come.
was soon discovered by the director from among the many performers and became the protagonist in the TV series "Bright Spring Pig Bajie". From then on, his life image was suspended, and a movie and TV series starring him entered the audience's field of vision.
So we cannot live in the conclusion of others. Be good at yourself, accept your own shortcomings and shortcomings, and be confident, and you will have a better chance to find you in the future, make the impossible possible, achieve your glorious life, and become a better version of yourself.
02 The end of the night is the dawn of dawn
This is a recurring world, nightclubs are coming, but we who are in the dark night, as long as we have hope in our hearts and are not afraid to move forward, we will finally usher in the dawn sun.
Our century writer Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Take a good choice, don't choose a good way, you can have your true self." When
was 87 years old, she lost her daughter and husband one after another. She did not tell her husband Qian Zhongshu, who was seriously ill, about the death of her daughter, and she alone bore the pain of sending a white-haired man to a black-haired man. The departure of both relatives was a fatal blow to her. But she did not sink into the sad world, on the contrary, she started to sort out the manuscripts left by Qian Zhongshu.
successively published ten volumes of "Qian Zhongshu Book Collection", five volumes of "Qian Zhongshu Manuscript Collection" and her own book "We Three", "Our Qian Yuan" and other books. At the age of one hundred years, he continued to work hard.
, as she wrote in "The Three of Us": "Now the three of us are separated. The remaining me, I can’t find them anymore. I can only relive the years we have lived together, with them Get together again."
The burden of life is weighing heavily on her, but she has kept the years alive and well.
American psychologist Thomas Moore said in his work "The Night of the Soul": "There is a simple trick to deal with the night. Even if you are completely defeated from all appearances, you can still spend it mentally. Dark night. Maybe in the end the external pressure crushes you, but as long as your soul is intact, you can still survive the catastrophe. "
We cannot predict our fate, but we can change ourselves.
03 As long as you work hard enough, there will be opportunitiesWaiting for you in the distance
Li Mingyong from a remote village in Meitan County, Zunyi City, Guizhou Province, was forced to drop out of school because of his family's distress. I took the burden of life at the age of 16. He worked as a construction worker, a cement worker, planted flue-cured tobacco, raised ducks, and became a security guard at Guizhou Normal University at the age of 22.
Opportunities are often reserved for those who are interested. The learning atmosphere of the university campus gave Li Mingyong the idea of continuing to learn knowledge. So he picked up the book again and began his self-study journey.
Taking care of work and study at the same time, it is hard to imagine. His study time is limited. He can only study after the school locks the door at 11:30 in the evening. I often learn to rest until one or two in the morning, and get up on time at 6:30 in the morning and open the door. In order to pass the postgraduate entrance examination, he had only a basic English in junior high school, and he turned over an English dictionary and memorized more than 8,000 words. After failing the postgraduate entrance examination for two consecutive years,
still did not give up his pursuit. For the third time, he successfully passed the postgraduate exam with a fever of 40 degrees. Because of his self-confidence, self-discipline and the spirit of not being afraid of losing, he persisted all the way until he graduated with a Ph.D. and became a university lecturer.
When the reporter asked if he thought he was an inspirational legend, he said: "I don't think so. As long as a person looks for the goal and sticks to it, he will definitely be close to success. Maybe not once, maybe in the end We have not reached it, but we have been making ourselves better and better in the process. As long as we keep getting closer to the better self, we will succeed. "
No one will experience failure in their entire life. If you fail, you can only get up. Only by working hard can we get close to the better self.
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Matt Hager said in "Reason to Live": "When you are at the bottom of the abyss, you will never have a clear view. Time will heal, there will be light at the end of the tunnel, and there will always be behind the dark clouds. There is a glimmer of light."
accepts everything we have, don't care about what others think, but what you do to achieve the best. Change the things that can be changed and those that cannot be changed, try to approach the best self, seize the opportunity, and become your own good luck.
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