will never be resurrected this time!
For our generation, when we are in middle age, we will see those old opera bones who accompanied us in our youth, and receive box lunches one by one, Wu Mengda , Cheng Kui'an , Lan Jieying , Liao Qizhi ... also includes one of the Japanese actors that the Chinese are most familiar with, Uncle Chiba.
"The Wind and Cloud Dominates the World", from comics to movies to TV series, has now become a kind of popular culture, and it has contributed popular elements such as "unicorn arm", "Xi Daddy" and "Roaring Emperor". Although the name "Fengyun", Xiongba was established as a villain, we are all increasingly convinced that Xiongba is the absolute male lead of this IP. There are two reasons: one is that the character portrays the most and the depth is , and the other is the most. Can "do things" . In my opinion, Xiongba has two temperaments: straight male and "daddy" . This is why Xiongba, as a big IP, is full of controversy and charm. The death of
, as an actor, naturally makes the audience feel unforgettable, but for a role that will definitely not be forgotten, I think we can dig deeper and give us some enlightenment. Since charm and controversy coexist, you should think about how to have more charm and less controversy. To put it simply, for contemporary men, the domination of straight masculine temperament is indeed a treasure; the nature of "daddy" is better.
[The right spirit of a straight man] Although he is not the number one master of martial arts in the arena, his achievement is definitely the number one in the world, and his personality is domineering, ambitious, and simple and easy to live with. Compared with the lonely and arrogant Wuming, Swordsman , the "dominant spirit" of the male tyrant is more in line with the personality preferences of modern people, especially modern men, so it is more attractive and exemplary.
Men's straightforward spirit, sometimes it is to behave as simple and rude, but this simple and rude is not hurtful or controlling, but a kind of decisiveness. In an intimate relationship, men should show that they dare to love and hate, act decisively, and be quick-hearted. They should be a "reasonable and domineering president" . This kind of decisiveness, whether in the workplace or in love, can be expressed as a kind of masculine charm, a kind of charm that enables to reject all opinions in a difficult situation and a deadlock, and to make decisions immediately.
The hero is in the arena, with countless beauties around him, and even the wife gives him a hug, but the hero is not addicted to it, is not trapped by love (only his daughter is concerned), this is a hundred times stronger than "Fengyun" and many younger generations. judgment, insight, emotion , etc., did not lose control due to the tenderness of men and women. is a typical straight male temperament, which is very important and rare for contemporary men. Of course, [the right spirit of straight men] is not to the point where it is "not close to female sex" and "incomprehensible style", which is not realistic for modern society.
[Undesirably "being a father" temperament] "Being a father" is an image that has frequently appeared on TV screens in recent years. It is branded under the slogan of " Xie Guangkun in the north and Su Daqiang in the south" Arena. In my opinion, "being a father" is a negative and extreme expression of straight masculinity. It is a "car accident scene" of straight masculinity driving without a license. The controversy of the dominance is also here. If you look at "" as a "family ethical drama" mentality, you can find that almost half of the plot is "made" by the hero, and many people's deaths, including themselves, are also caused by him." To die". The difference between
's "daddy" nature and straight masculine temperament, in simple terms, is the difference between arbitrariness and decisively , that is, has no brains. The difference for yourself . Therefore, if you have objections to straight male temperament, what you really need to beware of is not "incomprehensible style", but 's selfishness, self-respect, nothing to look for things, and fear that the world will not be chaotic.
A man in modern society must be carefulThe anti-daddy temperament does not mean that you will encounter this problem when you become a dad, but that you must take strict precautions against it in any type of interpersonal relationship. It should be fine in the workplace, because no one is a fuel-efficient lamp, whether it is a boss, a colleague, or a customer. If you want to be a "daddy" successfully in the workplace, you must either be a "golden father" or a unicorn (you know everything). The ones who can really hurt must be relatives and lovers. Therefore, in an intimate relationship, the "daddy" temperament is often that does not consider the other person's feelings, everything is only about oneself, whatever you want, often is troublesome, unpredictable, and has nothing to do with . The ruthless character like Xiongba hasn't "made himself to death", what should ordinary men do, figure it out.
So, how can we absorb the spirit of straight men and stay away from the "daddy" temperament?
①【Read more, learn culture】 You read that right, it's such an old secret. The male tyrant is by no means a martial artist. He has super insight into the treacherous worlds and dangerous human nature, and can control the magical skills of " three-point return to vitality ". He is definitely not stupid, he just knows to practice hard. Yes, and must have a super comprehension. Then, the support behind it must be cultural literacy. Which master in the arena is not a literary and military strategy? Are there any illiterate heroes?
Read more, learn more culture, lay a solid foundation, and increase knowledge. Only then will you have a higher cognitive ability than others, and then you will have correct judgments. Then the decisions made will produce positive benefits and convince the public. Then your own authority will be established. On the other hand, if there is no knowledge, no culture, no knowledge, no vision, let alone any pattern and state, then it must only be used to improve the sense of existence through "work". Come on the ass.
②【Controlling emotion with reason】 The "emotion" here has two meanings: one is one's own emotions. "Operation" is emotional out of control, and "straight" is precisely controlled. Therefore, [the right spirit of straight men ] requires men to be more self-disciplined and self-controlled through life, so as to improve themselves and become the "flower" of every age, full of high-end attraction. The second is the love between men and women. The self-confidence and determination that men build on the basis of knowledge, culture, and insights make it easier to create a sense of dependence even in intimate relationships, and this sense of dependence is still the kind of "strong arms and strong" violent dependence. The "premium goods" that can't be compared at all. Without this kind of self-control,
will be taken away by various emotions, whether it is a mad dog or a fly without a head, aimlessly, without a bottom line, and without a plan, causing trouble and harm to the lover. My image is not as good as each day.
I have always felt that "straight man" is a neutral term, and everyone's dissatisfaction and irony with it should be caused by the blending of "daddy" temperament, which turned out to be the opposite of it. "Straight man" is originally linked with "brain," "measured," and "clearly logical." Therefore, as long as contemporary men remove the trash mentality that belongs to "being a father", they will return us to a real male character.
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