Regarding whether to have two or three children, ordinary people must carefully consider before making a decision. Even if the policy has fully supported three children, the huge cost of raising a baby still discourages many people. But for wealthy and wealthy families, it seems common for to have second and third births, so many people will also think that wealthy daughter-in-law seems to be the role of "fertility machine".
Xi Mengyao is pregnant with a second child, and it is posted daily on Weibo. Netizens: rich family is called second child, ordinary people called birth machine
The marriage of Xi Mengyao and the son of the king of gambling has always been controversial. Recently, it has been reported that Xi Mengyao has been pregnant for two The news of the fetus has even made netizens speculate, and some people even think that Xi Mengyao is too pitiful and has become a fertility machine.
Xi Mengyao has been well-known since she fell down when she was a model, and she had a lot of controversy in her own right. Later she quickly fell in love and married the son of the gambling king, which gave people countless associations. After the birth of their eldest son, originally thought that Xi Mengyao would come back soon and continue her modeling career, but it didn't take long before she saw the news of her second child on her Weibo.
On Mother’s Day, Xi Mengyao posted a photo of herself taking her son out on Weibo. In the photo, you can see that Xi Mengyao is in good condition with a smile on her face, and then she exposed herself and her husband’s daily life one after another. Many netizens accused of being "too deliberate". netizens have speculated that Xi Mengyao is so anxious to have a second child in order to consolidate his position and share more family possessions. As for the second child soon after he has given birth to one child, is completely the usual style of wealthy daughter-in-law.
Xi Mengyao announced that she was pregnant with her second child less than two years after giving birth to her eldest son. Although such news is very common among wealthy families, it is rare for ordinary people to have such short intervals. Because giving birth to a child will bring a very large consumption to a woman's body and blood, the interval between two births is too short, not only for women to bear, but also the family's economy will face tremendous pressure.
The interval between second births is too short, what will affect
The interval between second births is too short, the most direct impact is to harm the female's body, whether it is a normal delivery or a cesarean section. Women who have a normal childbirth, although they recover faster after childbirth and will not have too serious sequelae, , but because of the pressure on the muscles and bones of the pelvis during childbirth, the pelvis of women after normal childbirth will be somewhat deformed. This is also The origin of "mother buttocks".
will have a second child soon after the normal delivery. The pelvis has not yet fully recovered, and once again bears the risk of pregnancy and childbirth. The pelvis is very easy to cause damage and dislocation, and it will not even return to normal in the future. Phenomenon such as vaginal relaxation and leakage of urine will also be more obvious after the second childbirth.
The interval between the second births of a Caesarean section is too short, which will pose a great threat to the uterus. It takes at least three to five years for to recover from the wound of a Caesarean section, and a Caesarean section is not suitable for a second child. If has a second child within 3 years, it is very easy to cause a scarred uterus, then the recovery will be slower, and the uterus will also be at risk of scar rupture.
The interval between the second births is too short, which will also have a certain impact on the fetus. Because the uterus has not fully recovered, the development of the embryo will be restricted. If the function of the uterus is too weak, it may even cause miscarriage and premature delivery, so it is also more dangerous for the fetus.
The time between the second child is too short, which will also bring a lot of pressure to the family. Generally, there are not many people in the family to bring a baby. Couples have to go to work to make money, and it is difficult for the elderly to bring two children at a time. Even if the family has the conditions to hire a nanny, it will bring tremendous pressure to the economy and the family's quality of life will also be affected.
What is the best age between the second child?
The minimum age between the second child is more than 3 years, and the best is between 5 and 7 years. Because there is an interval of at least 3 years, a woman's body can basically recover, and the uterus, ovaries and pelvis can all have time to recover. After 3 years of normal delivery, the pelvis can basically recover, and the scars of the caesarean section can also heal.Sometimes having a second child will not cause more harm to the body.
has an interval of at least 3 years. The big treasure at home has reached school age. At this time, more time and energy can be freed up to take care of the second treasure. The spouse can have more time and the children can be more carefully taken care of. . If old people help bring the baby, they won't be particularly tired.
The gap between the second child is more than 3 years, and the two children can get along more harmoniously, because at this time Dabao is already sensible, and also yearns for the company of his younger brothers and sisters, and will not reject or oppose the second child. Er Bao grew up in the care of his elder brother and sister, and the relationship between the two children will be better, and the brotherhood will be stronger.
Regarding the age interval between the second or even the third child, it should be considered from many aspects. The birthing method of wealthy families is actually meaningless, because they don't have to consider the issue of no one with a baby and no money. For ordinary families, they should first consider women’s health, the family’s financial status, and whether there is anyone to help with the baby. If these conditions are met, the second child will be more confident and the family will be happier. .
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